Is it true, that some men (and women) are especially cursed in not being able to find a romantic partner even though they are the good ones?

[Unit1]

except the rich and successful (or those on their way) can very likely be lonely too. Haters gonna hate on these successful ones (jealousy of the poor).

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By curse I am saying, that these singles are basically cursed with it. Like they are marked for singlehood (similar to marked of the damned) for all eternity. Not, that I personally truly believe that but I am believing it 😂

[Jjpayne]

It is sad to me to think there are so many great men and women that sadly get ignored because they don't fit into our current social system... That people into their 40s and older still can't find people. If you have an interest to date you should be able to find a relationship. Yet it feels like rocket science

[Unit1]

Well, it is not rocket science. It is almost like a curse passed down to us 😂

[Jjpayne]

Tell me about it

[CaptainSmartass]

Yep. That's how it feels to me. However, I don't go in for all the "incel" crap you see posted online. The way I see it is that some people are meant to have relationships and others aren't. People in the latter group need to leave the dating pool for the first group, who are meant to have partners.

Simples...

[Unit1]

I disagree but ok.

[CaptainSmartass]

OK. What's your take on people and relationships in general, then?

[Unit1]

Like never give up.
That's the first and the last step to a self fulfilling prophecy of being single until death.

[CaptainSmartass]

Nice. Maybe I'll have to get in to that sort of mindset, then.

[Unit1]

Well then. Get to it. Good luck!

[CaptainSmartass]

Thanks, dude!

[MCheetah]

I'd definitely 100% say this is me. I'd elaborate more, but I don't want to sound like a "Nice Guy," so I won't.

[Unit1]

I get ya!

[skeetskeetskeet]

here's a hint I'm superised nobody is pucking up on... if you think your a "good one" but not getting any... chances are your not what girls want. . maybe instead of trying to be what you think they want look at the guys they are fucking and try to be more like them

[Hawner]

"maybe instead of trying to be what you think they want look at the guys they are fucking and try to be more like them"

Both are basically the same, and both are wrong.
If you know you are pine of the good guys and you get nothing, changing yourself in order to get some transforms you for the worse, since you stop being good.

[skeetskeetskeet]

So your saying that all of us who get pussy are wrong and since your nice guy shit isn't working you should double down on whats not working

[Hawner]

What I say it's each person is different and should remain so. That is the beauty of it. If a girl is not into muscular cool guys, she should be able to find guys who aren't. Because there are such girls.
And making you, who are special in your own way, to change to get some pussy, as you put it, would change that. It would make you just like will guys, with defects and all.
Let me use your logic in another scenario. Consider the possibility that, for whatever reason, girls were only attracted to psychopaths. You are a nice guy, that has respect for everybody, work everyday, help purple if you can... But can't find someone to get your dick wet. Should you become a psychopath fire that reason, losing the goodness within you?
You get girls because the ones you get like your style. But there are girls that don't. That is why we shouldn't do like you.

[Slim57]

Yeah I think its just some don't fit in with societal dating in their country, I've always struggled with attracting girls around my area but always got them most out of girls not around me

[Hawner]

Yes, that is sadly true.

[imanf7]

Being single is a choice.

[Bhavin2184]

Yeah it is true...