It is but it's very common. Mainly in couples who've been together awhile it's normal to get irritated over small things but some people can't stuck it out
So here's some solid reality... 75% of divorces are initiated by women. They are biologically programmed to be able to let go and move on. They have been forced to since the beginning of time - whole villages were pillaged, all the men killed, and the women and children taken to the conquering kingdom where they had to take up with a new man for their protection and that of their offspring. World wars, where asylum seeking women had to abandon their country and go to the new one, children in tow, husbands captured or killed. The burden of performance is on the man. If he gets fat and lazy, doesn't pay enough attention to her, sits on the couch drinking beer and watching sports or video games, figure she'll grow bored to tears. She then shuts down sexually, cheats bails or any combination.
The terms loyalty and commitment are nebulus terms for the female brain. Solipsism is a self-serving defense mechanism that causes her to see a better outcome for herself. She is vulnerable to approach by another man, will even get emotionally or sexually involved, without even realizing what's happening.
Men on the other had are slow to react. They are plodders, they will tend to stay in a bad situation, just hoping things will improve. They are more loyal, more steady, their brain runs on facts and logic. A woman's on feelings and emotions.
A woman can and will change her feelings at any given moment. Just ask them! They believe whole-heatedly that is their god-given right to do so. No one argues this- it's simply reality.
So the bottom line with all your Q's about fidelity, and staying engaged with your man, is really all about YOU. If you become bored with your guy, no longer happy, that's how you fall out of love. Then we hear the famous, "I love him but I'm not IN love with him anymore." This is female code for "I'm bored out of my fucking mind and want some new guy to pay attention to me." Or the "He just doesn't get me."
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When someone who i loved turns into someone different from who i fell in love with and starts treating me badly
Clinginess. Or if i feel too comfortable lije you're predictable and too stable,
I instantly get turned off.
u would be surprised by my answer but TOO MUCH OF ATTENTION!
When the things I found quirky about them in the beginning becomes annoying
That's kind of sad.
It is but it's very common. Mainly in couples who've been together awhile it's normal to get irritated over small things but some people can't stuck it out
Lack of communication, which leads to the breakdown of trust.
Then there's abuse and cheating
Mmmn that's true
Constant arguing, cheating, abuse (physical and/or verbal).
I don't fall in or out of love. I choose or choose not to love. If I am giving love and she is unfaithful, I withdraw my former affections.
Cheating, lying, feeling neglected, or overall mean and unfriendly.
Chikky - for women is is ALWAYS ALL about the FEELZ. :)
So here's some solid reality...
75% of divorces are initiated by women. They are biologically programmed to be able to let go and move on. They have been forced to since the beginning of time - whole villages were pillaged, all the men killed, and the women and children taken to the conquering kingdom where they had to take up with a new man for their protection and that of their offspring. World wars, where asylum seeking women had to abandon their country and go to the new one, children in tow, husbands captured or killed.
The burden of performance is on the man. If he gets fat and lazy, doesn't pay enough attention to her, sits on the couch drinking beer and watching sports or video games, figure she'll grow bored to tears. She then shuts down sexually, cheats bails or any combination.
The terms loyalty and commitment are nebulus terms for the female brain. Solipsism is a self-serving defense mechanism that causes her to see a better outcome for herself. She is vulnerable to approach by another man, will even get emotionally or sexually involved, without even realizing what's happening.
Men on the other had are slow to react. They are plodders, they will tend to stay in a bad situation, just hoping things will improve. They are more loyal, more steady, their brain runs on facts and logic. A woman's on feelings and emotions.
A woman can and will change her feelings at any given moment. Just ask them! They believe whole-heatedly that is their god-given right to do so. No one argues this- it's simply reality.
So the bottom line with all your Q's about fidelity, and staying engaged with your man, is really all about YOU. If you become bored with your guy, no longer happy, that's how you fall out of love. Then we hear the famous, "I love him but I'm not IN love with him anymore." This is female code for "I'm bored out of my fucking mind and want some new guy to pay attention to me." Or the "He just doesn't get me."
lies. indifference. friends of my partner. those sort of stuff.
Bring stabbed with a potato peeler usually is an incentive
Broken promises, broken trust, realisation that I’m just being used.
That hasn't happened to me, so I wouldn't know what that's like
Because love is just a word until some one comes a long and give it's meaning you. You are that meaning
Would you mind giving me your WhatsApp number please
When you get bored and you dont see it going anywhere
when she screws around with other guys while she's with you
Lack of attention, not spending time together, not feeling heard, lack of intimate conversations etc.
Being ignored. I lose interest when I'm ignored.
Constant fighting & no sexual attraction