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Definitely do not bring it up.. but if she does, you could try to draw her laser focus away from abdomen-land by telling her lovely stuff, like greater truths that are more important than her belly, and are gonna make her feel good / just like A 🔥grade boyfriend sweet talk. Say things about her you find awe-inspiring or things about her that she knows / you know she's grateful / happy about. extra points if it's stuff she's forgotten about and/or somehow lost perspective on (.. sounds like that won't be hard)
I can't post links yet, but if you search youtube for "flat belly exercise" I use that. Basically what you do is suck in your belly as long and as often as you can, just like as you go about your day, and that makes your belly smaller by strengthening the muscles Behind your abs.. if she's insecure about her belly, she's probably already a pro tho
If all else fails, buy some magic mushrooms- hallucinogens cause rapid, widespread neurogenesis (they change who you are), and Psilocybe mushrooms in particular are known to be friendly & healing, so get some of those (not too much!) and just spend a whole day making her feel safe & beautiful & special & totally 100% safe & loved & grateful for stuff (like keep her focus on positive things- that's your job.) you should take however much she does so she doesn't feel weird about it (but u weigh more lol 🤫so u can be more grounded for her😉) but in my opinion less is more.
That's your chance to turn a prayer into reality, maybe. They don't call em magic for nothing!
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If you do go with the shroomies, just follow your💚💙and do what I said, and you're gonna have a real good time, and then I don't think you're gonna hear about her belly after that, at least not for mooooonths! Akay, gl!
Really hoping she's not hating the fat that's protecting her uterus (the lower belly fat), honestly you can't do anything about it, it has to be her, your opinion won't matter, she has to deal with this herself. You can try to make her feel beautiful, how you can do this I have no idea, when I was battling my insecurities, every action done to me I only saw the negative side. Unless she tells you, she wants to exercise don't bring it up either, but right now I can only advise you try to make her feel beautiful or something, compliments here and there, sweet little actions here and there, or you could sit her down and make her listen to you rant about how cute and beautiful she is, even with the cute belly fat.
Don't mention it, but keep saying how much you love her and her entire body. Just don't specifically mention her stomach. I learned this the hard way with my girlfriend's boobs, although she now knows I do find th him hot. It would gave been easier if I hadn't said how much I liked them specifically though.
Don't put high expectations on her.
Accept her for who an what she is.
Show her you are comfortable around her. That should help her feel comfortable about herself.
Never compare her to other girls.
Show her all the love you are able to.
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How old is she?
Also she thinks she is fat around her tummy and you say you love her fat tummy!! Whilst that is amazing. She seeks approval more and perhaps she is looking for you to say you are not fat!
Such a difficult question to answer! Body image is hard!
I think you next time she says..”oh baby I’ve got a chubby belly”... say... ok let’s do something about it for you! I love the way you are... but I don’t love how you don’t see it. So let’s start with sit ups.
Don't give up on complimenting her, especially if you really do find her attractive. And she's not alone. There are super gorgeous women everywhere that aren't stick skinny and have the flattest most toned abs. I myself have to remind myself of this as I too have those insecurities.
Alright, every girl I have dated has also had a thing about that, some more than others but at some point they all talked about it. Really just keep reassuring her that its healthy, and that you really like it. I liked it too, I thought it was just healthy and honesty kinda cute.
You are talking about every girl here lol Girls are very insecure in their bodies even if they are fit and toned they still think they are disgusting so whatever you say or do it won’t matter , just keep doing what you are doing , if she hates her stomache that much she will work on it but keep yourself out of the doghouse and keep telling her you love her lol
Dude I guess your just 16 how old is she?
It might be just someone bullied her so she feels the way she feels currently you can do is just divert her attention take her on a walk in a park talk to her not about that but things that matter more in life and counts untill she's ready to open up and talk what's bothering her good that you care but don't get too involved with that stuff she has to make her own way through that but be supportive.
Compliments, more compliments and then some more, she'll eventually get over it.
Can't believe someone suggested on here to get her a gym pass 😂😂 that would just be confirming her fears and make her less trustful in what you have to say.
Reassure her continuously and show her affection also if she's comfortable with that. Dont compare her ever. Comparison is the one thing that gets to us girls who deal with insecurities and most of all be there for her and never stop showing her she's beautiful to you. I am a chubby girl and i know how it feels to be at war with yourself with your body. I feel her pain.
You're doing about all you can. If she's not overweight then maybe she could firm it up with some ab exercises. You could say "If it really bothers you maybe we should work out together and both get in better shape.
There's probably not much you can do to change that opinion that she has of herself. Most likely, the only thing that would change her feelings about it would be if she were to get a flatter stomach.
You can tell her she's pretty and if she does not believe her you can just keep saying she is beautiful the way she is.
Show her the scene from Pulp Fiction with Butch and Fabienne.
Drop the subject and don't ever bring it up again. After awhile, she may be more accepting about it.
Treat her like a normal person even though she may seem different she is in no way way different because she still has feelings so if she doesn't wanna talk about it dont pressure her just let her talk about it when she wants and when she does talk about it dont make her feel shit about it
SUPPORT HER
Honestly not sure as my boyfriend (along with my past boyfriends) likes my belly (tho I don't like it as much)
You should break up with her and encourage her to stay single until she's fixes that problem with her low self esteem. And probably body dysmorphia. Something she has to do on her own. You can't really convince her of anything.
Sometimes this will turn into morbid insecurities with you or anyone she loves... it will be she will be so insecure as to be angry when you have fun, laugh, have friends , go out etc... it becomes worse as they age
Help her achieve her goals. Ask her what she wants to do about it, and how you can help
compliment her (and show that you actually mean it) as often as you can
You have sex with her a lot and make sure she knows she's always wanted all the time.
Id have all my friends and neighbors come over to bang her brains out to prove no one cares if she is fat or not.
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