She shows up off the train with a big smile and a huge. There's instant chemistry as we talk, like meeting an old friend again. Knowing me, I didn't make plans, so we just walk around the city talking until we find a place she thinks "looks good, but not expensive." We settle on a pizzeria. She asks me what do I want, offering to pay for my meal. I decline, but the offer goes a long way, in my book. I order something like a burger or a cheesesteak, and she orders something fatty and greasy too (maybe a chicken sandwich). She also gets garlic fries and offers I try a couple. After that, we walk off the meal, and sit down on a bench near the water. She pushes her shoulder close to mine and we chat some more, and at this point, exchange dealbreakers and other things we should avoid talking about or doing. She has a busy day tomorrow, so I walk her back to the train station. She smiles and insists we see each other again next weekend. She gives me a hug and a kiss on the cheek on the station before the train comes. We text each other later that night and anticipate a more romantic second date next weekend, with us hardly being able to wait until then.
Maybe an activitydate so there is not too much pressure to keep a conversation flowing but sth that still allows conversations. Dinner dates and movie dates would not be a IDEAL FIRST date for me.
Examples: Ice skating, picnics, pottery class, maybe he has a hobby he can introduce me to.
Just curious, are you mixed? And an ideal date for me would be anything involving theme parks or candlelight. Even a cafe date would be nice and simple. I just wanna get to know eachother without him thinking we’re gonna have sex
Imho dates are all about finding a common struggle. Typically that struggle is boredom and overcoming it with entertainment, and since we are pack animald we need a pack to party with to really get any fulfillment from entertainment. Thats being said, you won't enjoy a date if your pack doesn't want to roam the same hunting grounds. I like standup comedy, so Id like to find a girl with a great sense of humor and a cute laugh (and preferably good alcahol tolerance) to enjoy an evening with, drinking and laughing our asses off. Its also important that my date would bee the same assholes i boo off the stage when theyre not funny, thats how u get good dick and breakfast in bed.
For a first date, I'd rather just go for a coffee. Second date, maybe somewhere of interest, like a zoo. Or do something active, like bowling etc I'd rather do that than go to restaurant for a meal or to the cinema. I enjoy movie nights in too, or taking a walk on the beach or down by the riverside on a nice night
My ideal date is brunch over coffee. I'm honestly not into romantic dinners anymore because (unless I'm in a relationship) I actually prefer to keep things casual because I enjoy the company of the guy I'm spending time with. It's more enjoyable that way.
For me mam, an ideal date would be anywhere in the nature with peace and quite where we can talk to eachother, understand eachother eat and listen to light music and enjoy the whole day and watch stars in the night. I know it sounds a bit boring but for me it's the ideal date. Sorry mam, if it is was not helpful.
Honestly? Locally owned hole-in-the-wall meal, hiking during the day or a late night beach walk, lots of talking, playing music on our phones out loud, acting silly with each other, driving around aimlessly to get lost, and just talking. Quality time together being ourselves. If someone can’t do that with me I don’t want them. The right person makes going grocery shopping feel like a fun outing.
Alright, let's get serious. Regular thing, it really doesn't have to be Disney fairy-tale with firework rainbow above us, while we are riding pink unicorns. Just a regular walk, listening, understanding, loving, caring and teasing each other. We may go to our favourite place, or somewhere new, or somewhere where we would be alone.
I don't really have one ideal. If it is early in our relationship and I want to know her I'll take her out to dinner. If we have progressed some then something more active, such as taking her on a promenade through my favorite spots in nature. And perhaps a picknick.
Will you be annoyed or get creepy if I was telling you that I am not trolling and I dont know why but I saw your opinion in one of the questions you answered and got horny from you saying you would do sex with a corpse of man who would ask you and I just had a fantsay of you killing me and having sex with my dead- corpse after you killed me. and now I just ejaculated on your pictures while I thinking those thoughts I share you and honestly I want to ejaculate on your pictures few more times with those exact thoughts of you killing me and having sex with my dead corpse.
and I shared you this this because I was wondering and curious how you would react and what you are going to write me if you would knew I EJACUALTED ON YOU WITH THIS THOUGHTS
I had never said shit about fucking a dead man lmao I asked about something being necrophilia but that’s it. Definitely not responding any further to this
The ideal date to me is being with a person where you talk meaningfully, listen and hear each other, enjoy being with the person, and don't realize hours have gone by...
Just chatting and losing track of time because you can’t stop wanting to find out everything about them... doesn’t matter where... just never go to the cinema in a first date as you are quiet for two hours! It’s a cop out
My ideal date would be a drive to the park, grilling and throwing Frisbee. Just getting out and enjoying the day and whomever I am with. I see you are the outdoorsy type, what is your ideal date?
What state do you live in if you don't mind me asking? I live in Louisiana and I have another hurricane headed this way. I think that is four this year which should be a record of some kind... :(
Staying at home, watching a movie while eating pizza and cuddling with a huge blanket over us. I don't mind public places, but I just prefer lazing around while cuddling ✌️
I would say Eat n Park or just take a walk to a park and bring a lunch to eat and a drink I think picnics in Park is so Romantic and the outside beauty, I like to make small talk but I also don't want to come off as cheap either
One where we're in a secluded but safe place. Where help could arrive fast if necessary, but where there aren't a lot of people around to disturb the peace.
Don't have one. It depends on how well I know her, what she is interested in. Can be full of fun, or can be relaxing. If I'm still getting to know someone, I'm not going to see a movie. There is no socializing.
Anything kicked back. I like to keep it relaxed. I’ve taken first dates to dinner, hiking, played paintball, gone to concerts, sporting events, gone fishing, anything that I think they will comfortable doing.
I like cutesy and cozy dates 😊 walks in parks, long conversations in nice little cafes, sweet talking over wine and candlelight, a home cooked meal and massage for my date, etc
A day at the beach together would be wonderful. Long walks by the shore, eating at a restaurant, go shopping together and watching the sunset at the pier ❤
I think going to a restaurant that has a romantic theme is the ideal date, and then walking towards the girl's house while eating ice cream with her and talking with her.
To me I think it's about getting to know the person better if it's a first date with as little pressure as possible. If it's a standard date then good conversation and a nice time are important I would think.
A girl I really like doing something laid back. Taking a boat ride, walking along a casual shopping street or bar street. or just catching an ocean sunset setting on the beach.
Depends.. Girl in photo hot.. I always said to myself not so much how she look but how she sound her heart... Made that one myself.. hehe.. i love a relaxing voice.
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