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Funny, i was thinking about this today. Iv notice that society has this misconception that attractive people are dicks and ugly people are sweeties, but from my personal experience ugly people are meaner then attractive people are usually nice because people talk down to ugly people and treat attractive people nice. Ugly guys are shallow because people are always mean and don't want to talk to them, so they resent society, that resentment often has them turning to porn / anime / onlyfans where the girls are 10/10s and they become disconnected with reality and only want girls that resemble their weird sexual reality they've created for themselves.
Its a coping mechanism sort of. Ugly people believe their "inner beauty" is underappreciated which feeds into personal arrogance that's largely unchallenged because they tend to lack a social circle so they don't need outside input, which as a sideaffect leaves their misconceptions on beauty to be unrealistic as there is nobody to challenge them. And as we're living in the information era, its very easy to think that the media you consume is reality, all the small waist, giant eyed, big titty / ass anime girls or pornstars are the standard of women because they're all your familiar with because sadly, society and people reject you purely because your gross physical appearance, which in my opinion more often then not translates to their personality too.
They're blind and ignorant. They want to judge others, be choosy but don't think about other's needs.
I had a ugly male friend and he used to propose me so many times or even attempted to change my mind.
At the same time he will make fun of other ugly girls and guys. He laughs at ugly guys who have beautiful girlfriends.
I was so pissed at him that why don't he look in the mirror first. Isn't he doing the same thing?
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Just because we think someone is ugly and unattractive doesn’t mean they don’t have preferences too , We all have preferences on what we like , just because I think someone is hot and beautiful it doesn’t mean others will think the same , I see ugly guys with beautiful girls and think what in the hell does she see in him and vice versa so again everyone has their own preference on what they like. Whether we think complete opposite it doesn’t matter just because you aren’t attractive to him doesn’t mean another girl won’t be. Just the way the cookie crumbles just goes to show looks aren’t everything , people that base looks as their priority in a relationship , won’t have a lasting relationship because we all get ugly as we get older lol
A story as an illustration. There is a guy at my church. Short, not fit, thinning hair line, meh job, about to hit 40. There is a lady there who is rather stunning, late 20's, no kids, never married, paralegal for a decent-sized firm, very nice as a person, too. She really liked him and approached him. He turned her down. Being curious, I asked him why. His response was. "If I can get her, I can get someone better." Totally delusional in my opinion, but that is a common thought pattern in many guys.
I don't think you should generalize about ugly guys, I'm probably the ugliest faced guy alive and I'm not that picky but generally I get rejected a lot so I gave up trying. Everyone's allowed to be as picky as they want, no matter what they look like, I tend to find females with their mile long list of things a guy needs to date them the pickiest and that's their choice.
I don't think you should concern yourself about how picky he is, it's not like you're the one who's trying to date him and he turned you down, if that was the case maybe he knows how you talk about him and decided as for ugly as he is he deserves better. Also don't try and claim you do have feelings for him, because its obviously you don't like the guy and with that said, again don't concern yourself with him at all.
I think its just a personality trait that has very little to do with looks.
Plus, what about all the 40yo women with kids from a previous marriage who are picky. I mean seriously.
The only trait people should be picky about is personality. If anything else is more important than that to you, you're a dumbass.
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i should think its because they realized the shallowness of basing likes on looks so look thmselves for those that are less shallow. ofcourse there will always be those with an over compensating personality too in the same way little guys always act like they are hard and could beat anyone in a fight while those that could knock em out in one punch dont tend to rely on violence anyway
Does he have a genius-level IQ?
High income earning potential? Or even steady income?
Maybe he's well-bred and highly cultivated by a good family, with excellent social graces and sensibilities?
Or maybe he's a brave and capable warrior, someone who would risk his life to save another, or KILL when he has to, to protect what he loves.
Or maybe the only thing he has going for him is that he'd make a great Dad.
He still has self respect even though he's overweight. You think he should be happy and grateful that you even talk to him right?
He's got a better opinion of himself than you do and he wants someone that agrees with him, rather than anyone that agrees with you
The girls are the same.
In the field of psychology, the Dunning–Kruger effect is a cognitive bias in which people with low ability at a task overestimate their ability. It is related to the cognitive bias of illusory superiority and comes from the inability of people to recognize their lack of ability.
I guess they don't want to seem desperate because they know girls can smell that a mile away but it comes off as delusional. I wouldn't know because I've got a hotbod, big one, very attractive face.
How big is his wallet?
Guys get cocky when they have big wallets. Drop a 300k Lamborghini and you become a chick magnet - at least a lot of guys think so.
Everyone has standards regardless of how they look. Lots of ugly women/men have huge standards because a lot of guys/girls played with there feelings and there now bitter because of it. So yea that's why
They making up for the bulldozers that have no standards and plow anything in front of them. It’s the world balancing itself out.
for the same reason, fat, tiny boob girls are picky. cause they hope they can get away with it. and sometimes, they do.
Makes no sense to me, but maybe he’s guided by idealism.
Because if they weren’t picky and still got rejected they’d have to admit that it’s their fault. By being picky they can blame women instead.
Fair question. All I can say is people like what they like.
Also, dadbods aren't permanent. He could get in shape easily if he wanted to.
I don't know. If you're asking this question then surely he's worth something to you. What else does he have to offer? A Good and Likeable Personality? A Good Paying Job? Really Smart? Wise?
Doesn't everyone want a beautiful woman or a handsome man?
because guys have a right to like and want what they like and want too.
Well, you have decided it comes down to the superficial and they haven't.
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