Should I pursue for more If he's an Erasmus student?

[Anonymous]

I met an Erasmus student in my country and we like each other, we text almost everyday, we meet and we have sex. But he's here for 9 months and he said he wants to enjoy the experience and probably sleep with other girls. I said I understand his situation but I don't like him being with other girls, and that If he does it, I want to know. Later he said that If I would go with another boys, he would be angry as well. Also, he asked me if he goes with another girls if he will lose what we have now. I said I don't know. What should I do?

[PrudentGuy]

The heart is a very treacherous thing. No matter how perfect your logical mind plans, they will fall apart when the heart says No.

This i wrote as a caution since he already mention on the outset that he wants to "try" other girls.

My warning statement is "please don't deceive yourself".

Whatever effort you put in and assuming he's OK until he eventually start having sex with another girl, what will happen to you?

Do you see yourself happily and coolly bless him for his happiness, or devastated and drowned in jealousy?

I think you already have the answer.

Hence, don't deceive yourself.

Lay an ultimatum if you need to. And don't be afraid to lose him.

Better sooner with less pain, than enjoy the temporary indulgence of carnal pleasure and then need anti-depressant for the rest of your life.

You decide.

[Avicenna]

Only of there's a realistic chance for both of you to live in the same country with each other someday.

[Asker]

But how do I do that If he said he wants to enjoy his experience as an Erasmus student, meaning to go with other girls?

[Avicenna]

What European country is he from and what country are you in?

[Anonymous]

How far away does he live?

[Asker]

2 hours with plane. He lives in south-central Europe. I plan to study somewhere in Europe for my Masters next year.

[Opinion Owner]

Then maybe it is worth pursuing

[Asker]

How do I do that though in this specific situation?

[Opinion Owner]

Be with him while he is there. Continue the relationship long distance and then resume when you go to the EU for your courses

[Anonymous]

You are only for sex to him

[Iron_Man]

If you like him