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Everytime I say I hatewhen I say I hate my body my crush never stops me and says “you’re perfect how you are” why? (Page 2)
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He clearly agrees with you that he thinks you would look better if you gained weight so he offered help instead of lies
Why date me then? I don’t understand. Wouldn’t it make sense to get with a girl who’s body you like
I agree with you. I never understood that either
What should I do? 😞 I want to gain weight but it’s gonna take time. But do I just stop talking to him cause he’s made it clear he doesn’t like my body?
I feel so upset 😭 like I don’t want to be here anymore
Girl, I feel that. I’m slim thick so my pelvis is naturally wide and my legs and butt are big and this guy I was dating likes very very skinny women... so I was like wtf? Why am I wasting my time? That’s something I can’t change.
You can gain weight but if this guy is making you feel insecure... it may be best to pass
I can reassure you right now, you are beautiful as you are right now!
Your boyfriend has excellent taste and is on the money with his asasesment
Why does he have excellent taste
Because he is smarter than you and knows you're just fishing for compliments because you're the most insecure girl in the world. I'd ignore you too.
A lot of girls are insecure lol not my fault I wasn’t blessed with a banging body
I know they are, most if not all, but not all bring it up every 5 minutes, which is really tiring in the long run.
I’ll just leave him alone then
If he didn't find you attractive he would not be with you. It's as simple as that.
He’s not with me hun, we’re not boyfriend and girlfriend. We just go on date nights every week
There are lots of men out there why u hung up on this one? U know u are beautiful I would not change a single thing about u and i mean it. Lots of guys love skinny girls like seriously find one who does
So are you saying I should drop this guy because he gives me tips on how to gain weight? It doesn’t make sense because he takes me out on all these dates says he wants to stay in a hotel with me, yet you’re saying he doesn’t like my body?
I mean ur smoking hot u can get any guy u want... why not find one that likes u the way u are? If u were fat and he was telling u to lose weight id be on his side, but u are a healthy weight. If I was your boyfriend i certainly wudnt want to see u gain weight
Thanks babe but my bmi is low. Basically my height is too tall for my weight so technically I’m underweight
Some people are naturally skinny, the bmi shit is all tilted towards fatties in my opinion
Srsly ur fine the way u are its not unhealthy if thats ur body’s natural weight
Because he's trying to help you! That his f*cking JOB! Smh
If that’s his job why date an underweight girl? Isn’t that just defeating the object
He probably likes you for your personality and your character, and maybe he also thinks you have a pretty face.
But not my body? 😞
Ok. I see your point. But on the flip side, people could say "Why did you choose to date a personal trainer? You should have known that they would always be giving you tips for improvement."
Though I personally like your body and I think it's fine.
May I ask what you like about my body?
I don't know. I don't really focus on specifics when it comes to a woman's body. It's not like I'm going to pull out a measuring tape or anything. All I know is if she looks good, she looks good!
First u look awesome. Your body your colour and your eyes. For your date maybe he like your soul and want u to be physically attractive to him
But he doesn’t like my body does he? If he’s giving me tips on how to gain weight
I won’t say he doesn’t like your body but he want u to be more attractive
Wow.. see what I mean, he thinks I’ll look better thicker
ok, so, i think he likes you the way you are already. but wait, maybe he thinks you'd look better if you worked out?
no its not that he doesn't like you physically, he might just like your body more if you worked out.
so far so good though, good luck
I agree with u both
I’m done with life and never being good enough for guys. Bye
Don’t say that I would be happy if I have u in my life u are fucking hot
Your body is really fit, there's nothing to hate about it, looks great to me.
So why does the guy I’m talking to give me tips on how to gain weight? I don’t get it.. clearly he thinks I should improve
Maybe he has preference toward curvy girls, doesn't mean your body is not good, people have different preferences.
Well I’m just gonna stop dating him then.
It's better to If he is gonna keep making you think negatively of your self.
Maybe because he didn't think there's anything wrong
What do you mean? He didn’t reassure me
I mis read the question. Find a better man
Lol! I’ll be riding solo for forever. I give up with guys
I would love to say you'll find mr right but I'm also the first to admit all guys are assholes
I’m better off being single aren’t I? Lol
Get a dog.
Would it help if I told you looking at your body gives me a chub?
What’s a chub?
The first stirrings of an erection.
You aren't your crush's crush. I wouldn't worry though as beautiful as you are you can get guys lining up to date you.
So you think he’s not attracted to me and I should stop going on dates with him everytime he asks?
He finds you somewhat attractive; but just not as much as his actual crush. He is only dating you as a place holder until he can date her. So I would recommend to stop dating him.
That’s really knocked my confidence. All the dates he’s paid for, all the times he’s passionately kissed me and just to find out I’m just an option not a choice. I hate being black and skinny. I bet if I was white and curvy he’d want me
You shouldn't feel too bad you are quite beautiful. If I lived in England I'd be lucky to date you.
“Quite beautiful “ “somewhat attractive “ so it’s kind of like half. So what you’re saying is I’m not bad, but nothing special
He finds you somewhat attractive. I find you quite beautiful. Maybe it is a cultural difference between the US and the UK; but quite beautiful is someone who is exceedingly beautiful.
May I ask.. why you think he’s not that into me?
He doesn't reassure you when you question your own beauty. If I am into a girl I won't hesitate to correct her that she is pretty when she questions it.
I’ll just drop him then
I think that would be best.
If my girlfriend had a body that good, I'd hit it hard every day.
How comes you think my body is good?
Cause it is. Do you have have an onlyfans?
You look FINE. Very attractive. Lovely legs.
I mean i think you should just dump him and date me instead but thats just me 😂 you are pretty perfect to me tbh
because its true XD :)
It’s true that I need to gain weight,
He probably doesn't care like you hope he does
Care about what
Never argue with a woman, you will never win lol
It's annoying me that she's failing to understand that she told him she wants to be bigger and so he decides to help because he's a personal Trainer. If he didn't help she'd think he doesn't care about her smh
But why is everyone in the comments say “he obvs prefers thick girls if he isn’t reassuring you you’re fine how you are” look at the other answers pls. My head is scrambled
Because my dove there are many types of guy, some would ignore a womans mental health, weight, etc. This guy your with cares about people he's a personal trainer. You're obviously not compatible with him if you get offended like this. Some girls want a guy like him.
Can I copy and paste what I texted him just now?
Your decision is no ones business but your own but if you have to 😔
Like with you being a pt and into fitness you’d wanna be with a girl that’s got a healthy fit body, right? & you’ve said before you wouldn’t really date a fat girl but then wouldn’t that apply to a thin girl like myself too?
😑 you texted him that? wow! He's got a professional reputation to maintain. I honestly don't get what you're doing, this is messed up.
@chocobrowniemonster by him telling me he wouldn’t date a fat girl but then he’s dating me and I’m thin. That’s contradictory because being thin and fat are both unhealthy so that’s why I asked. Don’t you think he’s contradicting himself?
There could be a lot of reasons why that have nothing to do with you. He nay be bi or gay and just hasn't come out yet.
What makes you think he’s gay or bi?
one, you are a beautiful woman and if we were dating I would certainly care about your thoughts and feelings. two, He is a trainer so he probably sees plenty of girls on a daily basis so you are just one more in the group. three He may have a plan to achieve some goals that he has put first before a relationship so those feelings don't matter to him. It could be a lot of thins but the only way to know for sure is ask him...
So what you’re saying is that he’d want me to gain weight before asking me to be his girlfriend? Because he wouldn’t wanna be seen with a thin girl
I did not say that, I said to know the truth and not guesses you should ask him... Only he knows the true answer...
@dreamgirl97xo 'in person' you couldve asked him why he doesn't like fat girl? is it her shape? her daily routine + laziness? her choice of diet? her lack of spacial awareness? etc.
Once you knew why, only then could you ask if it's related to a thin girl being unhealthy. you're being really presumptious and negative. Sorry but this isn't doing yourself any favours. If a girl started questioning me this way im going to get angry and ditch her. Low self-esteem is in a way self-sabotage if you're constantly nagging a guy and trust me this guy will meet many girls who are focused on improving their body and mental health.
You have great curves and a great booty, Beauty!!!
Thank you. I wish he could see that
I sent him a lingerie pic and all he replied back saying was “wow🥵😍😍😍”
Nothing like “great body”
I honestly think he just sees me as a friend
Try sending him without a lingerie and he might notice,
Could be fatigue I don't know
Thats weird but you are very charming