I have several female friends, and we casually hug, kiss, and sometimes just watch movies together. A few times, I had a girlfriend, love, but she had to work night shifts, so I was alone, and she kind of thought of some JUST FRIENDS, coming over, and watching movies, was good for me (she thought I might get into trouble or some nonsense, or maybe drink!) She knew all my female friends, and didn't have any problems with us being together and watching movies.
She knew I wouldn't do anything, and loved her, but why can't a guy just have some close, female friends, that don't cause some kind of jealousy or angst?
It's really about trust, I think. Seems a lot have trust issues in relationships!
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It would depend on me and my partners feelings towards physical intimacy. And her feelings toward it when it comes to me with other people take precident. If she's fine with non-monogamy, then so am I, but if I even feel like she would be a little uncomfortable with me cuddling with another girl, then BEGONE THOT! If I'm in a relationship with a woman, she is my queen. My rock. I would never betray my goddess under ANY circumstances. Not even if 10 of the most beautiful women wanted to have an orgy with me. TAKE A BUS HOME
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Nope, I would apologise kindly.
My significant other is the one that deserves such special treatment. Being my "SO" is not just a title, it simply means she receives far more than others receive. Whether that's emotional support, or protection or care in general.. and of course, cuddles!If I'm already inviting a female friend over and my SO is not there I already know what I'm thinking may happen.
I tell her she is just my friend and that I am loyal to my girlfriend. This is one of the main reasons why I do not have many female friends.
My partner already would have known my friend was there and I’d let my friend know that’s beyond a platonic relationship.
I would not cuddle with her, and let her know I am seeing someone and just want to be good friends. Good chance she may already know and she would expect an honest answer.
Light-heartedly say "I don't think my girl would like that" and brush it off, then continue on like normal.
Standard rule I follow.
If you wouldn't do it in front of your partner, don't do it alone.Uh don't cuddle with her, not my fault she can't respect boundaries
If he has a girlfriend, he shouldn't be inviting over random chicks (for any reason.)
i would say no, i have a bad reaction to touching anyway. i hate being touched
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