Single at 30. Give up or keep trying? (Page 2)

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Hi all, I'm a single 30 year old woman. My first relationship was when I was 24 and lasted for 4 months, then I was in a relationship at 25/26, and it lasted for 9 months. Both breakups were due to me finding out that my significant other was hiding a secret relationship from me, they were already taken when they got together with me, but obviously pretended to be super single etc.  Now, as I have been single for 4 years, I'm wondering, maybe I'm just one of those people who stay single until they die?  The way I see it is, if I wasn't able to find a boyfriend in my 20ies, there is no chance of finding love in my 30ies as I start to age and don't look as good as I did in my 20ies. I would eventually love to get married and have kids, but somehow it seems that my destiny is to be on my own for the next 60+ years.

Danny_dan92 · Answer

I’m almost 30 and I don’t actively try like I used too when I was younger

guesswhoseback · Answer

Nah it’s no big deal. Keep dating but don’t get paranoid. A decent man will come along.

slatyb · Answer

Have you tried online dating? It worked for me and my wife :-)

Danish87 · Answer

It's ok, many here 30 and above and are single. Just keep looking for partner on dating site or matrimonial site

pizzalovershouse · Answer

You dont have to give up just dont try hard an it will happen when you find your self happy with what things you accomplish in life

AFellowWeeb · Answer

Give a chance to guys that are single and on their 30ties too? U seem like u go for looks more than anything, thats why both of ur relationships were with douchebags

uknown789 · Answer

they give up really giving up means your running from your problems you might think I am in false hope but try again and again life is weird but azaming do not forget that and looks do not matter so try again and again sorry if I was rude

matthew0089 · Answer

When I see woman say single at 30, i see still picky at 30

pigoat · Answer

Yeah but you getting near the end b4 all hope is lost you need to hurry 30

TheAfrikan · Answer

Love comes at any age no matter what. Love comes to those who do not give up bt rather keep on trying..

Cowboy6666 · Answer

well i am single and searching too we can know about each other if you want to :)

TheFlak38 · Answer

You're damaged goods already. But the amount of desperate thirsty men nowadays only decreases your options a tiny bit.

worldscolide · Answer

Keep trying. If i gave up i would not have my wife..

clampfan101 · Answer

I’m single at 32, and have only had a casual relationship, but refuse to give up.

Anonymous · Answer

You are still desirable, you just may have to seek more 35+ men. You could find some 30 - 35, but if you go a little past 35 you'll increase your market.

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe the problem is you just need to learn to start being a team player. I mean your last 2 relationships he was already wirh a woman. So now we know what you're attracted to.

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

Women are only single by their own decision. Dudes will continue trying no matter what!

tallcuck · Answer

I have a similar problem on the edge of my mind. It was a lot easier to pull girls whwn i was in 20s. Are you in the UK? May be we could go on a date.

HolyYolo · Answer

You've got plenty of decent years before it's time to hang it up. You only have one life, make sure you live it

iFarted · Answer

Ehh just keep yourself occupied with other aspects of life and if it happens it happens, if it doesn't it doesn't.

human121 · Answer

you can find your partner anywhere anytime so dont worry try. age is just num for love

Gedaria · Answer

Keep trying, never know what is round the corner...

Twalli · Answer

My girlfriend was single atv32 and 33 before I asked her out

Brendan824 · Answer

My old foster mom just found love and she's in her 50s anything is possible just believe

Therisinghero12 · Answer

Up to you, it's your life, take charge and grab out of life what you want

Twenty2 · Answer

You should put yourself out there. That's the first step.

Thea99 · Answer

I say stop trying don’t give up on love. But let happen naturally.

OddBeMe · Answer

You won’t stop trying. It’s inherent to look for relationships.

Slim57 · Answer

That's only 2 relationships, compare the similarities and signs those 2 guys put out and look for guys that are the complete opposite

LukeMerchant · Answer

I'm single more than five years and still don't give up.

Anonymous · Answer

At 30 your doomed. Die alone since you are up in age

Anonymous · Answer

Try online dating , dating outside your comfort zone and meeting new people more, and have realistic standards

Rylka81 · Answer

You meet someone when you least expect it, maybe after you think you've given up.

gandolph3 · Answer

Just quit worrying about things like that just have fun

Anonymous · Answer

I feel the same way, I’ve just given up because I have bad luck in love. How’d you meet your exes?

Anonymous · Answer

be glad that as a girl, you don't have to make the moves or ask a guy out

abc3643 · Answer

I was like you. I got married at 38.

CurvyCandice · Answer

reduce your standards and look harder and faster

sheikalana · Answer

Come on keep trying. At 30 you're still so young.

Givemore · Answer

I'll donate some sperm

SageWisdomMan · Answer

Let your mind off it and it will just happen...

_Just_A_girl_ · Answer

Pray on it he'll come.

jasco · Answer

I mean honestly i keep looking but who knows

mrArcher · Answer

why are you asking us?

tHISpLACEiSbONKERZ · Answer

Yes give up. Thats a good idea.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Don't give up. Just be smarter about it.

rustymopp · Answer

Keep trying, you never know who you'll meet...

Tim-loves-it · Answer

Dont look. thats when you'll find someone.

JohnO45 · Answer

Keep trying there's someone out there

Bhavin2184 · Answer

Keep trying..

Silvius · Answer

Try dating apps like tinder

Gripper1970 · Answer

Please keep trying someone is out there for you.

XtianSpanker · Answer

Keep trying, of course!

Coolmanxl · Answer

Love will find you do not worry 🌻

jimmy2 · Answer

Ohhh keep going dear you are still young

Anonymous · Answer

Do you have a type whe it comes to guys?

Anonymous · Answer

You will die a virgin.

REDHOTLINE · Answer

Give up...

Chisprtsfan11 · Answer

Give it up lol jk

Bananasyellow · Answer

Keep trying

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