Single at 30. Give up or keep trying? (Page 2)
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I just want you to know for the sake of anecdotes... I'm 26 and I'm planning to spend the rest of my life with my 30 yr old partner. Don't buy any of the nonsense about women "hitting the wall". My partner is beautiful and I wouldn't trade her for the world. You'll find someone. I know words are cheap and you may want to gag at the thoughtless positivity, but I really do mean what I say. Keep looking, and don't close yourself to experiences that might be good for you. Best of luck.
Keep going. I know it can be discouraging, but it's not something one should give up on simply because of their age. If it's your looks you're worried about, I wouldn't think much of it. I know a handful of women who are into their late 20s and early or mid 30s, are not married, and don't have kids and I think they're lovely.
i sometimes still feel like I haven't been in a real relationship yet, while yes i have dated before, but i've never been in a serious long-term relationship, just 4 months, but to raise my self-esteem, i repeat to myself that it was better than nothing.
Another thing, we never dated or were never together during critical times of the year, such as Valentines Day or during the Holidays, never traveled together, and we never introduced each other to our parents, families or friends. But I feel it was a milestone or breakthrough in my dating life, because before her and after her, every time a woman agreed to go on a date with me, they would always lose interest after the first date, so I never got a second date prior to this major dating experience.
You can't give up even if you wanted. Eventually, you are going to crave love again so much, it'll hurt. And then more time will have passed where you could have dated.
If you feel old, start hanging out in more advanced cities where men and women are single in their 30s
You still have a chance, you've been in previous relationships and at least know what's involved and what you do/don't like.
Could be in my situation and have never dated or had any relationship at all. I've never tried and it scares the shit out of me knowing I have absolutely 0 experience. Literally ground 0 in my 30s.
So you still have some hope, more so than some of us.
Depends, do you want to give up? Otherwise, don't. My grandfather got another girlfriend about 10-15 years after his wife passed away, he was around 65 at the time. He met her on a holiday abroad, on his own and met a lady with a similar story. It's never too late.
I'm in late 30s and I have always been single. I never dated or even been in the relationship ever. I'm waiting for faith to introduce me to someone who would like me for me and won't judge based on looks. So I would say to you wait and you might someone for you or ask your friends or single friends to introduce you to someone.
Many people have the same situation
U not the only one
Every year less and less people want to be in relationship or get married and have kids in the future
Now its only me me and me and meaby some friends/family members
I know many women and many men that gave up on dating at all and they are like 26 27 28
Never give up if it's something you want you just have to realize you might not get everything you imagine in a ideal guy. You have to think about what you're willing to compromise on.
I've never been on a date I'm over 30, male and I gave up. Some of us have to know when enough is too much, females are not in among that crowd. If you give up, you can always jump back in no problem, an ugly guy like myself should never have been in the game in the first place, there just was never a chance it's just too bad it took me my entire life to accept that truth.
Ofc keep trying
30 is still young, don't listen to the trolls
If you take good care of yourself, you can still look young. Lots of women in their 30s look younger than their age and lots of people don't get married till their 30s nowadays.
My mom was 34, when she got married to my dad that was 30
I suggest you hang out with your friends more, get a hobby, learn a new language.. ofc when the pandemic ends
This way you're more likely to meet like-minded people
LIVE YOUR LIFE CHASE MONEY LEARN INVESTING START YOUTUBE, MUSIC OR WHATEVER YOU LIKE AND YOU'LL BE HAPPY. FUCK RELATIONSHIPS. To tell you the harsh truth you are single because you are mot attractive. But who the fuck cares? You keep caring about that shit? Raise your value by becoming something and fuck a relationship
Keep trying , most of us encounter bad seeds in the relationship world and eventually you I’ll find a good seed that will want to stand by you and grow , being 30 is still young you still have a long road ahead of you to find true love
So many guys out there who want a caring partner. Maybe you need to meet more people and start asking guys out.
in my opinion If you posted on here asking guys your age if they want to date you’d get 100 responses within a day. Not saying you should date off gag I’m saying lots of guys are looking. Just not on tinder or on bars/ clubs etc
@VIVANT What's with the ageism?
I saw a comment of you saying that women hit the wall at 26.. How come?
@rzombielove
😅 No lol I was following the logic of women hitting the wall at age 25.
I think Anyone who truly believes this is a fact of life, has to do incredible mental gymnastics to see any point in getting into any life relationship.
Even so its cruel and demoralizing to spread it around as if there’s intrinsic meaning to a feeling based on propaganda intended to dehumanize women.
I didn’t realize it would read as literal 😐🤭
@VIVANT Sorry, I misunderstood
I didn't notice the sarcasm
Yea, that makes sense
@rzombielove
My fault I forget people actually talk that way on here.😐
Don't give up. Live your life and you'll eventually find love when you least expect it. Love usually happens when you're happy being single and living your life to the fullest
my granny found a new boyfriend at 72, 4 years after my gramps had died. not saying that you have to wait for that long but definitely saying that it's not hopeless. if my 72yo granny can do it, you can.
Keep trying! If you really want something for your being and future, take your chances and ride the wave girl! Go on dates (after COVID of course to be safe). Just get out and have fun meeting new people. Love always finds its way you just have to seize it. Best of luck <3
my mom got married in her 30's and then had me and my brother, anything is possible
Possible? Yes :)
Probable? No :(
@supercutebutt you're disgusting. I see you commenting everywhere
Get a job and a life man
@rzombielove
That was mean :(
Apologize?
@supercutebutt I don't apologize to trolls
@rzombielove I am not a troll.
@supercutebutt I doubt it
@rzombielove thank you!!!<3
@testersite00 UR welcome! :)
No way on that giving up idea. The older you get the more relaxed and fun dating gets. At 30 women are just starting to hit their prime.
Seems you failed to ask basic questions and make basic checks.
Doesn't mean you're a single for life, you just need to learn how to qualify your relationships better.