Pretty forward. I don’t sleep around, I’m at the most flirty & friendly. Which I think is fine since I’m single & I’m just putting myself out there.
i liked this guy but we never communicated at a deep level. We liked each other but never clarified what it was, and what either one of us was looking for. I wanted to be exclusively dating someone but not to jumó into a relationship unless I knew we were compatible for each other. I didn’t tell him that since it seemed like he was looking to be causal with someone.
because I liked him for so long, I was open to that too because he rarely would hang out with me/very flakey. At one point I was just easy easy, sent a spontaneous nude & wanted to hang out ASAP. But then that day we were suppose to hang he hung out with his friends & “would hang out with me later” which made me feel disrespected as if I would wait around for him esp. making plans so I blocked him & didn’t talk to him for MONTHS lol.
I ran into him at a local bar, and told him we were cool n stuff. Unleashed my thoughts, I feel like to much of a open book lol but w. e. So we were good/talking he gave me cues his still into me by trying to hold my hand & stuff.
he told a mutual friend (My bestfriends boyfriend) that he’s not really talking to anyone/sleep with everyone but trying to be in a relationship.
not sure if that was something he knows that I would know or thought my best friends boyfriend would keep it to himself. He was gonna hang out with the 3 of us after the bar but like my best friend was angry & it wasn’t a good night. But my best friends boyfriend said (not sure if to fuck with me) that Im not the one for him.
so yea. I don't know I think maybe I ruined my chances but I don't know
i liked this guy but we never communicated at a deep level. We liked each other but never clarified what it was, and what either one of us was looking for. I wanted to be exclusively dating someone but not to jumó into a relationship unless I knew we were compatible for each other. I didn’t tell him that since it seemed like he was looking to be causal with someone.
because I liked him for so long, I was open to that too because he rarely would hang out with me/very flakey. At one point I was just easy easy, sent a spontaneous nude & wanted to hang out ASAP. But then that day we were suppose to hang he hung out with his friends & “would hang out with me later” which made me feel disrespected as if I would wait around for him esp. making plans so I blocked him & didn’t talk to him for MONTHS lol.
I ran into him at a local bar, and told him we were cool n stuff. Unleashed my thoughts, I feel like to much of a open book lol but w. e. So we were good/talking he gave me cues his still into me by trying to hold my hand & stuff.
he told a mutual friend (My bestfriends boyfriend) that he’s not really talking to anyone/sleep with everyone but trying to be in a relationship.
not sure if that was something he knows that I would know or thought my best friends boyfriend would keep it to himself. He was gonna hang out with the 3 of us after the bar but like my best friend was angry & it wasn’t a good night. But my best friends boyfriend said (not sure if to fuck with me) that Im not the one for him.
so yea. I don't know I think maybe I ruined my chances but I don't know
