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Are girls obligated to provide sex after a fancy and well executed dinner date? (Page 2)
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No, same as men aren't obligated to pay for the date or give sex after either.
Ah, nice rape culture mindset you have. Do you dress like a slob for dates?
@thatquietlass
Are you always a man-hating bitch?
No. Just those who think rape is okay infuriate me.
I don't take women on fancy dates unless I'm already in a relationship with them. Problem solved.
Stop spending all your money trying to impress worthless women. When you find one who's interested in YOU, is worth keeping around, and appreciates who you are, THEN spend some money on her.
It’s a requirement. A prerequisite. If I give you a good date why wouldn’t you give reward me those cheeks. I find it very upsetting to be taken advantage of after giving such a good date. I know women are going be upset about this opinion, but it is what it is.
I think you will die alone
@kingofthellamas
We already know you are. If I do die alone it will be out of my choice to be alone. I'm not the toady boy mangina incel sell out you are.
No. If he puts a ring on my finger then that’s another story.
Absolutely not, however if I treat someone to dinner and they continue to not express intrest I would seriously consider the fact that it might not work out.
Update: to put your best foot forward. To show the other person that you own clothes other than sweat pants and a t-shirt in the event that I would like to leave the house in the time period that we are stuck together duh.
no one is ever obligated to provide sex to anyone. its called consent.
@nopedydoo. Do you think wives should be required to give sex to their husbands?
no. sex shouldn't be about giving or getting, it should be about two people BOTH wanting it
@nopedydoo. So a wife does not owe her husband sex? One more reason to not get married.
Here is a reality check for you. If you deny your husband sex you are default giving him permission to seek sex elsewhere.
@krakenAttsckin a women, wife or not, is never obligatied to provide you with sex. In loving relationship you will both want to express care and emotion, and well sometimes down right horny Ness , with each other. But neither is ever obliged too. That's just dark ages thinking dude. Man up.
@kingofthellamas lmao what a cuck. Girls in relationships are obligated to have sex. Not on a date though.
@bamesjond0069. I suspect you either have not known true love or your going to die alone.
@kingofthellamas why would i die alone? Most girls know they owe a man sex and are glad to do so. I never had any issues with it. But i also assume i owe them things as well. Its always worked out awesome for me.
@kingofthellamas You saying "man up" made me LOL! There are so many "male feminist" on this fucking board.
@kingofthellamas "True love"... holy shit, you made me LOL again! 😂🤣🤣😂
Show your mother's, your wives and your daughter's these posts. Then let's chat some more
@kingofthellamas What motivation is there for a man to get married without guaranteed sex?
@kingofthellamas Men like you have no idea how you sound on this board. Men have given women everything (legal power, economic power, protection) and have asked for nothing in return.
I think it was Yads that said something along the lines of how we men have created the entitled bitchy modern women because we always defer to them, so much so they have come to expect and demand it. Men have turned women into what they are today which is ashamed. Men don't even get assured sex out of marriage and a wife can have a husband charged with "rape" on a whim.
Men created the beast that is modern woman and it will take men to change females back to real women.
Should a wife deny her husband sex of he displeases her?
@KrakenAttackin yeah its crazy but the feminazis say a wife doesn't owe a husband sex, so then i suppose a husband doesn't owe his wife protection. If there is a break in feel free to shove your wife at them and run lmfao their would be a shit storm on a man if he ever "wasn't in the mood" to protect his wife.
Plus in my experience women want sex just as much as men. doesn't a man also owe his wife sex? Smh.
@bamesjond0069 Married women weaponize sex.
@kingofthellamas
Fuck you cuck. Man up punk.
@bamesjond0069 I LOVE the idea of denying a bitchy wife protection or some other key "man" job by saying "I'm not in the mood"!
@KrakenAttackin my girlfriend was being a bitch to me earlier today and she had to carry some heavy ass shit to load in her car and i said if you dont do your girl duties you got time to do the man duties and i put on the tv. Lmfao. She went and did the thing i asked her to do and apologized and then i carried it for her. Its pretty easy to remind women how things work. Same shit with sex. If you're too tired to suck my dick i will gladly fine some other girl to relieve you of the duty and you can thank me for making your life easier? No? Well then do your damn job.
@bamesjond0069 Outstanding!
@kingofthellamas
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@KrakenAttackin
This is why I don't give a fuck about bitches. They are not worth it.
@joeblow123 Ha! Perfect!
What kind of rape culture shit is this. Nobody is EVER obligated to have sex with ANYONE.
Here is down vote for you for randomly bringing up rape.
Saying someone is obligated to have sex is rape culture, end of.
Obligation is not equals rape learn deam word meaning. Obligation is act where person is moraly or legaly bound, a duty or commitment. There is nothing about forcing sex, unless you sign some fucked up papers or live in fucked up cou try that would force you to have sex.
Use your brains once in a while, not scream rape at first chance when someone says something you dont agree with.
Are you dumb or did you just not read the whole thing twice "rape culture"
Also read the askers update. Rape culture.
Well your just dum as brick, there is no rape culture. If there were then rape would be accepted. And again you dum fuck dressing sexy is not equals rape.
Ps. if there is rape culture as you say, well best of luck for you xD
You're* dumb* as a* does not* equal*
Google rape culture sweetie.
If you can speak and write in at least 4 languages, then you can bitch about my spelling in second language.
I googled, and since I am linguist and culturologist, I do not see any culture there. Just a miss mash of things and actions feminists does not like (lest exclude rape from there as no normal human agrees with it). Rape is not trivialized as most articles say it is, nor there are widespread actions that would refuse to acknowledge the harm caused by sexual violence, nor there are cultural norms that imply that the rapist is not at fault but rather the society at large. You could argue that rape culture exist in war as psychological warfare, but that is not topic here.
In fact RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network) cites studies that found that about 3% of man are responsible for 90% of rapes. For culture to exist that number must be way highter. In reality that if few individuals with no regards for other people and lav that commits these crimes.
Study a bit more before screaming about something you dont understand honey, or have I completely wrong view on American culture?
What a ridiculous question. Where has the common sense gone in today’s society? Is it any wonder people fail in relationships with this self centred entitlement? Genuinely, what on earth has happened!
Lmao have you seen the poll results
Yeah, thank goodness. But why is this still a question? What’s happened in society for this question needing to be asked?
Lol most likely you eat a lot of good shit. Who wants sex after u eat a lot nobody.
I was just thinking this. Dates as a concept are really bad if dinner comes first. You go to a great restaurant, eat loads and then who wants to share?
No, why do you want sex because you did what Jesus would do? which is feed the hungry.
pretty sure Jesus had sex. if he existed.
@OddBeMe Do you think Jesus banged the crowd after giving them fish, bread and wine? I think not.
It would be funny as hell though.
“I have fed you all! Filled you with wine! Now sucketh my dick! Let me fill you with the “Holy Spirit”!
@Agape93 Lmfao imagine this being omitted from parts of the bible, but nah I think Jesus was a gentleman, who had only one girlfriend and that was Mary Magdalene. He just threw hella parties and wanted the drunk people to eat too.
Lol now that is festive
Your all going to hell lmao
Hell is more fun 🔥 🔥
@Agape93 if I could turn water to wine I'd get s many girls drunk as possible.
@VanillaSalt It's the person that wrote the original post that needs to be more worried than we need to. God has his picture on a poster at the entrance of the pearly gates that says, "do not let this guy in here".
He’s a fool. can't be helped. I personally don’t give women more respect then I have to anymore. I try and give them wide berth. Even still what idiot thinks women are obligated to put out... can’t be a man stupid enough to believe that he’s gotta be a troll.
@OddBeMe Water into wine would be a bitchin' super power.
@KrakenAttackin depends on the vintage...
This is a strange damn question, of course not. Besides how many people truthfully have sex on the first date? Probably very few.
Taking a girl out for dinner is a beta move in the 2020s, as is going for coffee. The best way to get laid is to make it less formal. Either bang her straight off of Tinder or take her for a couple of drinks.
Girls can downvote me all they like. Guys like me get laid and those guys go home to nothing but the right hands with empty wallets.
Hell no. If she treated me to an amazing date I am not required to put out either
Girls dress up for a date to look good and show respect for the guy
Same reason the guy dresses well for a date to look good and show her respect
In my opinion, if someone takes someone out to a fancy dinner just to get them in bed, then they are scum.
@thirdeclipse
Says the virgin strikeout artist who lives in his mother's basement.
She has to at least five him a blowjob after the date. Not a big fucking deal.
This poll make me not want to date any girl anymore. I think forever alone it not sound that bad afther this one.
i don't know i wouldn't mind giving a guy a nice blowjob after a nice dinner date... mainly because i'd want to.
@chrissykerdock for such a girl i will take her to LUX. I will try to give her the best date she will ever have
that's the idea... i can eat dinner and pay for it myself... i'd rather put on a sexy dress have a nice dinner and give a blowjob later on what would be wrong with that? i love giving them anyway.
If that's your way of trying to get a girl to sleep with you then why don't you cut the bullshit and just go hire an escort...
That just sounds like prostitution with extra steps..
Do guys expect girls to provide sex after a fancy and well executed dinner date?
Of course that guys expect it. Otherwise, they have absolutely no reason to have dinner with an object
No Sessy, guys (some) don’t expect sex after a fancy date.
@DavidFox I am so glad that you emphasize on the word "some".
The definition of "some" is
"An unspecified amount or number of" and in this context can be interpreted by "a few".
What about the majority of them?
I’d say the majority of guys would expect sex after a fine dinner but you gotta break that down because if you are speaking about the majority you need to include married guys and guys in relationships.
Yes I used some because in my opinion less than 50% of guys who treat a stranger to dinner the first time seeing them would expect penis to vagina sex that night. Absolutely some do, but again more than 50% of guys do not expect they are paying for a hooker by buying a steak.
I’m also concerned that based on trends in US society more and more guys and girls are expecting sex early on despite who pays. So In 10 years the majority may very well see it differently than today.
@DavidFox Thanks for your opinion which I disagree with.
Happy New Year
Merry Christmas and happy new year. I’m always happy that while we disagree on things you act in a fair and respectable way. All credit to you and people who influenced your life.
@sessy
Women make demands from men all the time yet when men make demands from women women start crying about it. Don't like it don't do it.
@jowblow123 it’s not making demands is communicating needs. And if someone reacts negatively to another persons needs then that’s a red flag.
@DavidFox
" And if someone reacts negatively to another persons needs then that’s a red flag."
I believe the denial of sex after a date would fit that.
@joeblow123 Both parties should respect each other’s needs not demand or pressure them.
@joeblow123 the denial of sex after a date isn’t a red flag, it’s a norm. Just because you buy her a steak doesn’t mean she opens her legs. The fact is you failed to communicate your need for sex prior to the date.
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