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Are girls obligated to provide sex after a fancy and well executed dinner date? (Page 2)
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No, girls are never obligated to have sex. They have to want to have sex.
@asomeone
Why not? Men are obligated to support women whether we like it or not.
Frankly I would rather have sex before the date so that the date is more relaxed.
Yes. If she doesn't you dumpah and you dumpah fast.
No but I also think the guy isn't obligated to pay either.
Perfectly said,
i don't pay for dinner ever but i do give blowjobs after dinner dates often
@chrissykerdock that is perfectly fine as it's your choice
thank you
At the end of the day, I'm a guy; would I really want a girl like that?
No, girls are obliged to do whatever they want. We're no one to force them.
No, but if hers intent is just to get fancy food when its clear that guy wants something more, she is shit for accepting it. Dont lead on people.
Shouldn’t be the objective. You can have a nice great dinner as so, and not have sex afterwards.
No. That is up to you to provide a fancy dinner. Sex is just great no matter the occasion. Except funerals depending on your fetish.
NO. I hate that people want Alex after like the second date. Like take it slow it ain’t a race to see which couple had sex first.
The Supreme Court does not consider this an enforceable contract.
#metoo
Nobody is obligated to provide sex except escorts if they keep the money.
No, she definitely isn't. A date is a time to get to know each other, no one should feel obligated to have sex after
No one is ever obligated to provide sex.
No they're not. But are men obligated to take her home afterword?
Only if you buy ice cream after
This is a joke fyi
No but that’s what some guys think but women are the gatekeepers of sex
You can try to pry my legs open all you like.
@psychoticanimallover
Then don't ask anything from us. Don't ask us for protection. Don't ask us for money.
Yeah. Those girls are called prostitutes. Wtf kind of a question is this?
It maybe an obligation for a whore only.
That's an empathetic "fuck no!".
100% N O. If all you are after is sex; why not go to a brothel?
No, but they're obligated to pay their fair share.
True but men still feel pressured to pay. Even if she offers to split the bill he will feel like he has to pick up the tab.
@guesswhoseback
That's very true. It shouldn't be like that.
But it is and I don’t see it changing anytime soon. I don’t see too many women’s rights activists complaining about it either.
It should be as simple as this. Whoever asks for the date pays for it. Also keep the first date cheap. Full dinner is never a good idea.
@guesswhoseback
It it's the first date and you met online, I don't think any dinner is good, cheap or not. Sometimes you'll know in 5 minutes if this is a bad thing.
Well if you met online and then agreed to meet up? Then what? Coffee or a drink somewhere (if you can do it)?
@guesswhoseback
The guy does not always get handed the bill. It has been put in between me and my girlfriend. I have not seen a guy get handed the bill if it's just him and a women. I have seen women pay for the two of them be it out at a restaurant or not.
@MysteriousDarkness I’m talking about the body language of the server. She/he puts the bill down on the table but it’s usually closer to me and the server expects me to look at it.
Not all the time. But more often than not.
@guesswhoseback
I have seen it many times where the bill was sat closer to the woman than the guy. There has been times it was closer to my girlfriend than it was to me.
@MysteriousDarkness I had different experiences even a rude waiter try to scold me when I accidentally interrupted my date when she was reading the menu. Truth is I was in the wrong at the moment but it wasn’t his fucking place or job to correct me.
Anyway it’s interesting you have had different experiences. But the worst I experience I ever had was at a fragrance shop with my ex girlfriend (who was a complete freeloader). She was asking the female clerk about perfume specials and clerk said “oh we have this on sale for $67” and I kid you not the clerk looked RIGHT AT ME to pressure me into buying for her.
I always pay for first dates and usually seconds. It’s not fair but I deal with it. It’s the penis tax and the exact reason I always keep first dates cheap. It also gives me an opportunity to see what the girl is all about.
Me nor any other guy is entitled to sex for paying for the date. But all I want is GRATITUDE. I ended up ghosting that freeloading ex by the way. She never even said thank you.
*is not entitled
@guesswhoseback
"I always pay for first dates and usually seconds. It’s not fair but I deal with it. It’s the penis tax.
Me nor any other guy is entitled to sex for paying for the date. But all I want is GRATITUDE. I ended up ghosting that freeloading ex by the way. She never even said thank you"
I see you as weak when it comes to women. She probably saw the same thing and used the fuck out of you. You did it to yourself.
@joeblow123 so if you are so “strong” than why the fuck are you wasting your time on GAG besides just antagonizing people? I ghosted that bitch and didn’t look back.
I got a feeling you just jollies by trying to get under people’s skin by being antagonistic. Highly doubt you practice what you preach.
9/10 date rapists agree
No obligation but it would be a real dick move not to have sex
Just one word, two letters...NO.
I don't understand...
@OddBeMe What don't you understand?
I was kidding.
Look at the poll
Lmao
No, we all know this.
Always appreciated, never expected.
This is why ladies split the bill :)
I'd rather not date a cheap whore
No, but it usually happens.
@JennieF
And I consider it a fair deal. After all, women make demands from men-protection and financial. I say we men do the same to women.
Nah, that's dumb logic
No if you want a sure thing get a hooker
Absolutely not.
Is this a real question?
No, that would be prostitution.
@Hispanic-Cool-Guy
Nothing wrong with that.
@joeblow123: I disagree.
@Hispanic-Cool-Guy
I have no problem with prostitution. In fact I believe it should be legalized.
No unless she says that its a deal.
No, but much appreciated
Only if they feel like it.
If I pay t feed her, she owes me a ball-draining.
That should never be an obligation.
Nope
@cjgsu
Then don't make demands from men.
I think i need to spend big on dinner dates now😆
It should be obligated
no one is ever obligated to have sex. no means no
Nobody is obligated to protect you. No means no.
Nobody is obligated to entertain you. No means no.
Yet women demand protection from men. If you make demands from us I'm going to demand concessions on your part. If that is unacceptable you know where the exit is.
Yes.
It's up to her ,,
Absolutely not.