It means a lot of both of us this guy is an old soul and wants to get married and have kids together in the future
If thats what he wants why not simply save for a engagement ring all together has much more centamental value and means much more
We feel like it’s too soon for that we both need to be financially stable
Yet this ring is essentially the same thing with the name changed and not the unwritten agreement that a wedding will come later down the line as if he sticks to the meanings u will be with him anyway later on in life so I dont see why u wouldn't go down that path anyway yes u want to be financially stable but it literally means the same thing just without the glamour off a promised wedding
It still means a lot. He came up with the idea and I felt honored and happy he’s really excited to get one for the both of us I’ve never had one before neither has he so it’s very special to the both of us. We already know that we’re going to marry each other in the future but now is not the time for us since we both live with our parents and are unable to lounge out on our own
Meh fair enough I'm happy for the both off you then just for me I dont see why that option means any different then the other but thats just my opinion
My boyfriend has never been controlling but instead has always been very sweet and caring. We won’t get married until several years from now because now we’re not financially stable and in college
Okay just make sure you’re both on the same page. Why he wants you to wear one and what it means for you both :) my ex bought one for me because he wanted other guys to know I was taken. <3
That’s a red flag lol
Why did you guys break up?
I was in a dark place and didn’t want to drag him into it more then I already did. And he was more into partying at the time. So I decided to break it off and take time to rebuild myself alone. But it’s all good! 🙂 let him give you the promise. If he’s been showing you and you trust him why not.
Im glad that me and my boyfriend both act like old people lol
Haha that’s always more chill and easy xD
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Its not a proposal
But its not proposing lol
I know and I think you got this. You've come along way and I'm so proud of you
Thank you so much
But we’ve known each other for almost a year now?
It’s not like we’re getting engaged lol
Girl 10 months... isn’t a full year. If you feel like you really know him and he really knows you and y’all obviously love and care about eachother then I don’t see an issue. It’s about what you feel. From my terrible experiences, I thought I knew someone and I hadn’t even scratched the surface 😭. But he seems like a good guy.
I’m so sorry. That’s why for living together/ getting married I’m going to wait for years
That’s a good idea. I’m still afraid to move in with my boyfriend.
I think you should be good you guys have been together for so long if i were you i would be excited to move out lol
I am 19 and he is 23
A couple more years would be a good time for you to married. So if you want to make that commitment now go for it. Do you think your love will last until then?
This is the first time that I believe in something but yes.
We both want to wait to get married though I have to finish college so maybe in 3 more years
Sounds like a plan
He has a long time to go though he’s supposed to graduate in the fall, do medical assisting for a year , and then go to PA school