How Do I go bout Talking to this Random girl on Instagram?

[Anonymous]

Hey all, so there's this girl I've been talking to on occasion on Instagram. So a few months ago, this girl followed me and I followed her back on Instagram. She then DM me saying "hi", eventually resulting in me responding and saying "hi" back, then a continuous conversation started from there onwards between the two of us, consisting of her mostly asking many questions about me and vice versa. Also just to clarify, she's definitely not a bot lol. I asked her who she was and she said she thought one of my comments I made on a post was funny. So we talked periodically here and there before Christmas, then after Christmas we hadn't talk for a solid 3 weeks or so (except for the time I commented on her story), then she hit me up again saying "hi", and she asked how I was doing. I noticed she takes usually 10-20 minutes to respond, which doesn't bother me but I figured I should mention that. She doesn't say much usually but mostly asks questions about what I'm doing, and thats usually it. It's now going on to two weeks since our last convo, should I message her first or let her message me? I've been in a relationship before, but I'm not use to meeting and chatting with someone online. Any advice would be great!

[Gabisitooq]

I guess she messages a lot of guys, so you are like side hoee. She has little interest in you but still wants attention. I would say if it is not” love love” from the first sign then fuck, nothing good will come out of it. Hey but don’t take it seriously either way, maybe she understood she doesn’t want to be “something more ” just being friends.

[Asker]

I mean she's usually the first person to view my stories and like my posts, and she said I was cute one time we chatted. I've gotten to know a little bit about her, and I have many questions to ask her myself, but I really don't want to make myself look like easy bait to be played with in case if she is just fucking with me, or make myself look like a nosy creep, but I absolutely get what you're saying. She also told me that she's an introvert and an overall shy person, but I find it hard to engage with someone like that if thats the case. Should I just block her and move on?

[Gabisitooq]

She is the first because that’s how algorithms work ;) if you chat with someone for some time constantly, you will always see their stories and posts first + she’s probably on the phone all the fucking time. Blocking? hmmm if it would help you to forget her then yes or just unfollow her and if she questions you about it just don’t answer or say you have someone.

[Asker]

Interesting, and well said! I mean I kind of like her because she's very family oriented like me, and we also have a few things in common.

[Asker]

Ignore that last reply. I didn't mean to send that lol, sorry 😂🤦‍♂️

[Gabisitooq]

It’s obviously only up to you what to do. Maybe she’s is going through something and that’s way she is not responding and not talking to often to you, buttttt heyyy don’t get to attached only because you have some common things 😉 I’m pretty sure this is the only girl you are talking to atm, that’s way you overthink it so much

[Asker]

Yes she is the only girl I'm talking to at the moment, but there were many before her who were hoes. There was others before her, but she seems to be the most likable out of the previous one I've talked to. On my part, I think maybe I should try to engage more with her more in the perceivable future and hit her up first for a change, instead of waiting on her to message me first all the time. And trust me, I'm not getting attatched to anyone as I am 20 and do have some dating experience lol. Thanks for the help 🙂

[Gabisitooq]

As long as you think you are not attached, I believe you😉 oh and if I guy wouldn’t hit me up and would make me be the first one and would slowly loose interest. (Just a friendly advice)

[Iron_Man]

Those girls are fake hearted plastic hoes why waste your time?

[Avicenna]

Try to find of what sorts of things she likes