Do you have it mind to sleep with a date on a first date?

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coachTanthony · Accepted Answer

-------No. If something like that happens it happens.

I am not expecting it or trying to get anything like that on a First Date. First Dates are about connection to see if you want to move forward with such person.

alance99 · Accepted Answer

First date is too early for me so i wouldn't do it. Welcome back and you look gorgeous in your profile pic 🙂🙂

OlderAndWiser · Answer

No, that is not my plan for a first date. I am looking for a long term partner (and I think I have found her) and a woman who has sex on a first date is less likely to be the one I seek, so I am actually somewhat relieved when sex does not happen on a first date. That doesn't mean that I don't feel horny and it doesn't mean that I would always turn it down if sex was available on a first date. But everything else I said still applies.

Anonymous · Answer

Nope. I have far more self respect than to act like a good-for-nothing tramp.

Seriously stupidest question on this site. You don't know one another, have no connection, and have no reason to continue the relationship after having sex.

Really the main thing is, is such behavior conveys that the people are "easy" and likely ***can not*** be trusted in a serious relationship **not** to cheat. Why would anyone want to utterly & completely waste their time, money & energy getting involved with such individuals?

Lliam · Answer

I would have in mind to sleep with them. That's the goal of meeting someone of the opposite sex. And I'd be nervous with sexual tension before the date, hoping to move around the bases with her.

On a first date , thoughts of what it would be like to have sex with her would cross my mind. But I would certainly not expect to have sex after the first date.
Depending on how the date went, sex after the second or third date wouldn't be inconceivable. I would wait longer if she wanted to.

slatyb · Answer

I never have anything in mind on a date, besides having a date. By keeping my expectations low, I'm rarely disappointed. I have had sex on a first date, but only once. I never for sex or even a kiss. In my experience women let me know what they want and I haven't had to wait very long. After three dates they were inviting me home, or asking to come home with me.

glock33sig357 · Answer

Of course!! Women expect guys to pay for the date even to the extreme of paying for ( the outfit, shoes & handbag ) the meal and transportation, if you're expecting all of this it shouldn't be a surprise that I want to get in your guts and down your throat multiple times by the end of the night.

jasco · Answer

If possible personally no. Sex is just sex to me. Nothing special about it other than pleasure and making of kids. I want something to do when i am taking a girl out on a date, not a whore or a idiot. I love talking, making friends, enjoying my life and if i do decide to be with a woman, than i hope that she be willing to spend some time with me and get to know me before having sex cause once that's over with, what r u gonna do now?

DiscomfortZone · Answer

Sure do. Started when I turned 30 and stopped having tine to waste. Of course you ladies thought I was trying to "use" you for sex, as if it's a one side interaction, but that's fine. Last time I had sex on a first date - we got married 😝. Don't that just make you reconsider what you think you know? :)

DrunkAss · Answer

Yes, usually, but no blind dates or online dating for me. We were usually already kind of there by the time we started dating:

AGirl_x · Answer

Sometimes there's not a fuckin thing in common but the sexual tension is thick. Although dating, relationship with the guy/girl is not happening and we know it , it ends up one of the best fucks.

AngelicIam143 · Answer

For me personally no I do not. I am looking for a genuine connection because of my desire for a committed relationship. The first impression is everything. If I were to sleep with you on the first date what would you think of me from that day moving forward. However for other women I feel like it more so their end game and what they are searching for. Some women just want a good time and that's it.

Qdbrown · Answer

I never go on a first expecting sex, but it has happened, and it was fun, but I never took her seriously after that. She was more of a toy after this point.

FornixMassage · Answer

Depends on the chemistry and the feel of things. I never expect to have sex on the first date but it has happened pretty often (just being honest). I will say that being open minded, confident, good sense of humor and last but definitely not least being very well endowed seems to help.

Us_Kr_Paradox · Answer

I actually refuse to if I intend on dating the individual, I'd they're unable to keep their sexual desires in check, they are not worthy of my acceptance of them as a potential partner. I especially love making out for hours on end and sleeping in the same bed together in order to up the ante. I suppose it is a type of betting those who have quite big shoes to fill. Control of self is imperative to gain my adoration and desire.

Kas19 · Answer

No. I prefer not to. Unless I'm just looking for sex. Then again, I did give my current boyfriend some fellatio the first or second day we met. 🥴

ariadneR · Answer

No. But if it happens it happens. To me, it's all about how the date goes. If by the end of the date I'm comfortable anough to let you see me in my goddess form, then so it shall be done. Lol

K-I-S-S · Answer

It's nice to even hang out with a great and beautiful woman.

So no, not really after it, just to spend time with them, doing fun things. If we both get horny for each other then sure, why not. Have have it happen a few times too.

Inexpensivefurniture · Answer

No, never. I'm not comfortable becoming intimate with someone so soon. I need to know them for a few weeks. At least 4 or 5 dates in

Siren777 · Answer

No absolutely not.  Everyone has their ways of doing things but personally I wouldn't.

kkirk4442 · Answer

I've never has sex with a girl on the first date, and never will.

Anonymous · Answer

I do mind, I prefer to sleep with someone if I’m in an exclusive relationship with them and been dating for a long time or if I’ve known them for a long time. That’s just me.

Avicenna · Answer

I’ve done itch few times, mostly when I was young, but focusing on that is a distraction from getting to know her, which is what the date is about.

JessicaNeo · Answer

Yes, I would mind sleeping on my first date because in my opinion when you meet first time anyone you should be interested in knowing each other rather than sleeping

Hotshowers · Answer

I personally would not. Sex is VERY serious. It changes everything.

shade_19 · Answer

No  Not on a date A one night stand and a date are not same..

karenchick111 · Answer

Yes! I definitely want to see what he's packing and if he's got the skills.

rodeschaap · Answer

No that’s not something I usually prepare for. Especially if I don’t know the guy well

Meldrum · Answer

Heh, the first date, I'm just getting to know her. If she's open to sex then I am too. I never sleep on the first date or the second for that matter.

UnknownGagsUser · Answer

On a first date we barely know each other I don't think I will

taleswapper · Answer

I never expect a woman to sleep with me. It constantly amazes me that they do, in fact.

AlwaysBelieving · Answer

Nope. I'm not even sure if I want to kiss a gal at the end of a date, let alone sex.

Jeep_lover · Answer

Not all the time. If I'm going to take from one night stand yes if I'm going on a date for relationship no.

anylolone · Answer

In the past, no, nowdays yes. Too many horrible experiences. But if I had the patience and courage, yeah, why not.

Anonymous · Answer

I’ve never been on a date but depends.

How long have I known them before our date?
Have I known them for months & we finally somewhere? Possibly.

Did I meet them online?
Have I only known them for a week or less?
No

Benja35 · Answer

Not really but sometimes it just happens. One thing leads to another and you find yourself naked and in bed

Wise4myage · Answer

If I met a girl on Tinder, then yes, I would assume that.

Jade_ValentineZ · Answer

Nah. I might sleep with them on the second or third date... without sex though.

Anonymous · Answer

Not really, things would have to be going really well and have to spend a lot of time with first and it would have to be her to initiate it

chrismyasshard · Answer

No not if you don't want to. Don't let them fool you into it if you don't want to

Anonymous · Answer

Well ya, you think guys are jist gonna spend all our time and money on you... and dont get to bust a nut? Hell no.

electromagnetic · Answer

Nope. I’m focused on the food.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, I do depending on the intimacy and connection between us

modelUN242 · Answer

Nope after we get married only.

Anonymous · Answer

I never mind to sleep on the first date. Unexpected sex activities are awesome

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

I have never set out to do that

Helplesslycrushing · Answer

No yet I always shave🤔

dudeinohio · Answer

No. I never expect first date sex.

moviedude714 · Answer

If the chemistry is there why not

ManHater · Answer

fuck no, who knows maybe she has an STD

zagor · Answer

I have had it, but don't expect it in general.

MrTaboo · Answer

Depends on the date, and what I'm looking for.

EaterPeter · Answer

I would love to. If date don't mind why would I?

SamFromFL · Answer

Not on the first date.. been there done that.

derdepedie301 · Answer

not always until she wants to :

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

Nope miss chikky, no sex before marriage 😌

rachel776 · Answer

i've done that

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Yes. Its a test to see if the girl is a ho.

scooogy · Answer

*Would you mind sleeping

Luckycharms12 · Answer

No but if happens it happens

SilverRain92 · Answer

No, I need to get to know that girl well at first

TallAnon · Answer

Done it before, why not

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