⚠️asking this question cause I’ve seen a lot of people say stuff like “I wouldn’t date outside my race” even in 2021? So I’m just wondering why people still have those kinds of beliefs in this day and age? ⚠️
My personal stance is I’m for it, people should be able to love who they want to love regardless of race/ethnic background/cultural background;; etc
I don't have anything against it. The problem I have is why black guys (and I only say that because it's only the black guys saying it) think every white girl should sleep with them or she's a racist or something's wing with her if she don't. Now, take those same black guys and watch how they react when they see a white boy with a black girl. They will mean mug, wanna fight, break their necks driving down the road and follow you around, everyone be looking and talking being their back. How do I know this, because I'm that white boy. It's only cool when it's the other way around and like you said, this is no 2021. Jews will not marry or allow other jews to date or marry outside their race unless it benefits the race, mexicans rarely do, Chinese, japanese, Indians, middle easterners all stick to their own. Just because blacks have a fetish for white women doesn't mean they should change their views so someone can get a piece of ass. Last I checked people have freewill.
I would say a little over half of GaG are in favor of it. I think the issue you and for most young "Black" women is you are going to run into this issue of not staying in your lane.
Like, a lot of guys here claim they would be with a "Black" woman. But they don't want the type that is going to point out racist bs. They don't like the type who won't conform to social norms, which are "White". If you wear your hair naturally. If you decide you want to wear some type of fashion. If you are outspoken about certain causes that are important to you.
I feel like I’ve seen so many super racist people towards black women on this site. I’ve seen someone compare them to monkeys, say they’re all ghetto and undesirable, etc.
And I’m fine if people aren’t attracted to black women, but I just don’t understand what’s the point of bashing them? So many black women and girls have a low self esteem because of this and I feel bad that kind of stuff happens on this day and age.
I guess this question was to see why some people still aren’t at least somewhat open to interracial dating now a days
Of course "Black" women have lower self-esteem because of this. That's why this site is pretty bad for "Black" women to seek attention from men of other cultures. But there are plenty of places where you can have productive conversations with men/boys of other backgrounds.
But truthfully, the only way we are going to address this issue of self-esteem with young "Black" women is by doing a better job as a community of educating "Black" children early. We have to have more positive images, a better education for our youth on African-American History, etc.
We can't expect to throw kids out here and not have them be seriously affected by the negative bullying, insults, and threats.
Anyway, I also wanted to tell you to keep your eyes open when it comes to men from other communities. My best buddy is Asian. He is married to a "Black" woman.
And Mazelee has an excellent youtube series about her mixed family.
I’ve heard of a couple similar to this one before but with an Asian women and a black man (I forget the exact video but their yt channel is called “Lily Petals” and they had this one video where the mother was showing her kids famous blasian women so they could see positive representation of women that looked like them (they where about 8-4 years old) and the video was really sad because the girls where constantly comparing their skin complexion to the girls and that just confirms to me that colorism does exist and “mixing” doesn’t fix it.
Since I’ve heard a lot of people make claims that “we should mix to stop racism” but racism doesn’t go away unless we address it and fix it.
These girls grew up in South Korea for a majority of their lives and it’s so sad because many disgusting people made hateful threads on forums online talking about how ugly the girls where because they where half black and how the mother shouldn’t have married a black guy, etc. it was so hateful and disgusting and it only happened a few years back?
And I completely agree, If we taught black children about these issues early on they would be better equip at not only handling but dealing certain stuff.
That's the only way. Racists are not going away anytime soon. They are extremely mentally disturbed. The only real choice we have is to figure out how to build these communities that will support "Black" women, mixed children, etc.
I mean have you tried to talk to a racist here? It is beyond insane. You can't even get to a point of understanding them. That's what makes them so violent and dangerous. They don't think rationally.
Sadly true. I tried to talk to a racist once on here and they immediately just tried to be offensive towards me by trying to say I’m probably an angry black women who’s been knocked up and doesn’t know who her kids father even is.
It ended up backfiring on them though since I told them I was 14 so they might want to consider deleting that comment.
I don't really see an issue with interracial dating. But my current boyfriend is Asian like I am. I'm not declaring that I'm racist, I just have not met a single white/black/hispanic guy in my entire life that I felt a strong attraction too.
from experience I find that older folk (maybe your parents, grandparents) think interracial dating is a huge NOPE. I've heard tons of bs about how it's going to ruin the family bloodline, genes, etc. I know some interracial couples who are happily married and have several children. They would tell me stories about how their parents were against it at first but later they came to accept it and welcome the guy/girl as part of their famliy. A small handful said their parents forever carried that grudge to their graves.
People are just that, people. Regardless of how mush melanin is in one's skin. I'm all for people loving anyone, regardless of the color of their skin, religious background & so on.
Let me also say, slave owners & the white people who they employed to watch over the slaves were against interracial relationships, but that didn't stop them from having sex & raping the slaves & producing interracial children. During the times of segregation & for a time following it, white racists still raped black people.
People who are against interracial relationships are afraid to see the world they know change. It's time for the world to wake up. We are all human, let's act like it.
I don’t have an issue with who other people are interested in cause your dating options are 20-96% smaller if you restrict yourself to a cultural or racial or religious demographic and some might meet a very compatible match from a different cultural position but I think same race relationship have a higher possibility of success when you broaden your stats.
Absolutely support it. People should love who they want to love. Love shouldn't be limited to race, age, religion or political views even though that's an old school way of thinking. I'm the result of interracial love. Even though people are not as accepting in different parts of the world especially where I am staying currently (South Africa) as many people have treated me differently for the way I look, as I dont look like a particular race but I'm part of one race, the human race. My ancestry is from Europe, South America, Asia etc... living in South Africa and why should that matter, I now find it hilarious when people cannot guess where I am from. Always guessing wrong.
I could care less what other people do. As for myself, I’ve interracially dated and dated my own back and forth for the past 10 years. I try not to pay attention to race when dating. However, even in interracial relationships, there are times where one or both people are still not aware of their cultural ignorance and racially insensitive statements towards the other race of person they’re dating. Its helped me to realize what is and isn't for me, so until people can learn what is and isn't okay to say to eachother, i just prefer to date my own race from here on out. I still find all races attractive but interracial dating isn't something i look forward to continuing
No! Big no! Anyone can go with whomever they want. Who am I to stop them?
But many of the disgusting ugly old white freaks who travel to Southeast Asia such as Thailand to date and marry females 30, 40, or 50 years younger than them should be skinned alive or have their upper bodies slowly be pulled apart from their waist and legs.
Those old ugly white perverts are monsters who treat Southeast Asian young women as mere sex slaves. They physically abuse and rape Southeast Asian girls. They also don't give those Southeast Asian girls money, then they will leave these girls afterwards like they're nothing after they sexually used them.
Fuck those disgusting wrinkled old ugly foreign white freaks. Fucking losers who can't get laid on their own country and afraid of their own females which is why they go to Southeast Asia for easy gullible poor desperate submissive young women.
One of them? Are you fucking retarded? Do I have to be one of them to know them? No! Do you even have common sense and basic logic? You fucking dumbass! It's just that I know how disgusting and vile these motherfucking old ugly ass perverts are. Enough said.
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I agree. Most of these idiots who are replying to you aren’t Thai themselves. (my step dads thai) and most Thai women are selling themselves because they literally can’t make money any way else. The Thai government is corrupt and has a lot of economic inequality. If you’re a female in Thailand your best bet at providing for your family is by selling yourself to creepy old foreigners
I'm surprised that those subhuman old foreign freaks aren't mobbed in Thailand. Are they mobbed? Why do people just let those freaks do whatever they want. Burning those old ugly ass freaks alive should be legalized.
By the way, it's not just Thailand. I heard the old ugly subhumans are also doing it to poor desperate Filipina women in the Philippines. The bastard old ugly white wrinkly freaks go to the poorest shittiest slums of the Philippines in order to exploit the poor desperate Filipinas out there who are 30 or 40 times younger than them. Disgusting.
Kind of interesting that they don't go to the middle class places or the high class places of the Philippines. Guess they clearly know that Mid to High class Filipinas wouldn't give a shit about their pathetic old ass perverted loser existence. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!
Personally I don't mind, every race have traits that are beautiful and traits and I'm not that attracted to... (physically and on stereotypical personalities)... But I would give a try to any girl that is able make me interested dispirite race, home country or the stereotypical personality associated to that race and home country (which more than not... Is correct)...
Racial stereotypes are racist and damaging though? It robs entire groups of people from individuality.
I’m a black girl and I’ve had to hear on several occasions “You act white”, or being referred to as an Oreo. And the only reason people say that to me is because “I speak properly” so now all of a sudden I sound white; when in reality I just sound like the people I’m around the most and that’s my mom. Or “I’m quite” because of negative and harmful stereotypes of black girls being Loud.
Stereotypes don’t exist and are a social construct, we’re all individuals at the end of the day.
No, not in that way... I mean the stereotypes of how that that type of girl generally act... Not only by the race and home country... But in like "that girl have the crazy eyes tho"... Or "that girl looks high maintenance as f... k"
And yes I completely agree that they might be wrong sometimes... But in my personal experience they kinda matched, but again there are exceptions tho and I would not limit myself from dating any girl just cuz of the race of steriotype attached to her... If I'm interested in the girl and she is nice to me I honestly couldn't care less on about the race
I kinda can't help it since I'm biracial all ready. Everything is sort of interracial in my case, if not in my eyes then everyone else's. Sometimes I think the kids we make from this will have a hard time. But you love who you love, and one of the things I've noticed is that being mixed gives you a nice bullshit radar. For example, I was the first to protest even when I was a kid that you can't be racist against white people. These racist types tried to redefine the idea of "racism" to make it so only white people can be racist, and I was the first to see through that manipulative bullshit right away. I also got disowned from a church, by my own mother, for seeing through all their bullshit. I think we biracial kids have a knack for detecting bullshit because we got two cultures instead of one to judge.
I've seen that firsthand. Makes no sense to me. I think being biracial turned me into a hardcore individualist in a sense -- like try to look past these things and get to know the person in front of us. I'm allergic to identity politics and playing race like a team sport maybe in part because I can't say I belong to any team.
I’m definitely not against it. I’m a British mixed race Jewish chick who married a American-born Chinese Christian with different languages in the mix too! Lol We’re interracial and inter religious too! I see it as a bonus for us because we get to experience so many different things and our children would be exposed to both cultures, both religions and all the languages!!
My boyfriend is black so clearly I would. But yeah b4 I met him there was a time I was super racist and stuff. I was stupid and just followed what my parents made me believe. But eventually I got over that and ended up falling in love with him
I think its ok if its really the right person HOWEVER in practice 99% of couples doing it these days are fetishizing it and thats disgusting and should not be going on. And once someone fetishizes a race they are ruined for dating in my opinion. Very low quality. Even for the particular race they like.
An example is a white girl who gets a "black owned" tattoo. Even a black man should stay away from that girl. she's trash. Or like a white man who wears a kimono and has anime all over his walls trying to date an Asian girl. Stay away from that dude.
No. I believe people should be able to date, marry and love who they want to without being judged negatively for it. But I also believe people have the right to choose not to date outside their race without being judged for it too. We are all entitled to put own preferences.
Damn who is that girl? I don't care about the question anymore. But no I'm not against it. Why: Because I don't believe in the idea of multiple races. Biology and history has already proven it doesn't exist. This is not to be confused with ethnicity. If you put a city of so called white people in Africa and left them there for thousands of years with no contact of other Africans, when you came back they would be so called Black people. There is no difference in the 54 ethnicities in Africa then there are between Black and White people. Do away with the idea of race in your own mind. Descriptions can be substituted with pale, tan, dark, and maybe something else.
Personally: I don't really see why I would care about what others do anyway. Anyone against dark and pale people dating have primitive views and values. In America it would be odd to me if white and black people weren't dating each other considering they share basically the same culture.
No, we are all human at the end of the day.. Some people treat "race" as a tribe when you could have more in common with other groups of people than people who are somewhat similar to you.. I like women, and the only thing I want is somebody I like lookin at, who matches my values and beliefs and is at least somewhat of a fun person.
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I am fine with it, if people choose that, and that makes them happy. Since the Floyd incident, almost all commercials, focus on black, and interracial couples. That does not follow with statistics. So are they just over-compensating, because of Floyd, and then just racially ignoring, marginalizing whites, because of that? Seems so!! In the US, African Americans make up about 12-13% of the population, yet they are portrayed in about 75% of commercials! Just shifting racism from one, to another race? Seems so. How is that going to solve the 'race' problem? Seems to me, it will just make the radical whites more angry, and more active. Why can't we all just get along?
I support it because I despise racism of any sort, but moreover I despise the political policing of love. There are objective reasons to forbid, for instance, incest, pedophilia, zoophelia and such. There is no reason what so ever to forbid people from dating outside their race, religion, language, culture etc. It's as primitive and stupid as forbiding dating inside one's gender. #LoveIsLove
I'm not against interraciual dating. The reason why is because color isn't important. You show that you don't care what skin color your partner has. People with darker skin color are people as well with feelings. You shouldn't reject someone based on someone else's skin color.
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Love is a human right and everyone should be with whomever they want to, may it be the same sex, other race, with a huge age gap, whatever. As long as both parties are consenting adults and happy in the relationship.
Plus my favourite reality dating couple are so beautiful together <3
Well according to statistical data 85% of americans support it so its not exactly a great many people who don't. I am for it if the other person is for it i. e. its their life, if they don't want to date outside their race fine, its their choice, if they do fine, its their choice. Personally I've never had a racial preference so I am for it for myself if they mesh with my personality and share my values.
I’m currently in an interracial relationship. It’s going really well! Her mom adores me and her siblings treat me with a lot of respect. My family thinks she’s amazing. This honestly surprised me because I thought for sure her family would have a problem with dating a white guy. I’m really taken back they could careless as long as she’s happy.
I am against it if you are only doing it to annoy someone or because of some sexual myth. Otherwise, I think it's great. Especially if it eventually leads to humans mixing themselves into one race. Then we can get angry at each other over other things, like when we discover who voted for the stupid candidate.
I just wish people would stop calling someone “racist” or “xenophobic” simply for having a dating preference for one race over another race. Because a person can’t control who they are attracted to.
I agree, I’m perfect fine with preference but I just personally don’t see the point of racial preferences since race is such a broad category. Also I’ve seen a lot of people bring down other races of women/men just because they like a certain race of women/men better and I don’t agree with that because what you dislike shouldn’t have to be included in what you like as it holds virtually no meaning
Leftist women tend to consider Asian men the “least desirable”. They are open to dating other races with the exception of Asian men. Isn’t that ironic.
Interracial dating fosters understanding between different cultures. If we are to live in peace& harmonym we need to learn from each other. The best cuisine is from blended cultures. Enjoy, rejoice in the diversity of our species. Share the knowledge we come with. Embrace diversity.
The type of men I like and attracted to, I can meet in any race of people. I have attracted the attention, spoken to or dated African Americans, Caucasians, Mexican/Latinos, Asians, etc.
A man is a man as far as I'm concerned. Just treat me right and we will be just fine.
Race doesn't exist in our species, biologically. If it exist socially is because of outdated scientific research from the 19th century.
Like race doesn't exist in our species "Homo Sapiens" , we should feel free to date a person from another ethnicity, because biologically it doesn't make any difference. The differences are cultural ane religious.
True, race is a human construct. Humans are so advanced yet we still have so many people still judging based on the complexion of another humans skin. It’s pointless
I am neither for nor against it. It's no one else's business who you want to date.
Some people may like who you date, some people may not. They have as much right to not like it as you do to do it in the first place. It's up to you to live with the consequences of your choices though and not expect other people to change their views to accommodate you. Your choice, your responsibility.
Hell no I’m not against it! There are interracial couples in my family… including MY PARENTS! As far as why anyone would be against it… Small-minded bigotry, and outright racism!
@ChrisMaster69 Ahh, thanks for the info. (My mom always stressed, “never be afraid to tell someone you don’t know something. A person of character, a true friend will simply explain, anyone who mocks, or laughs, is not only NOT a friend, they should be avoided at all cost!” That little tidbit, is serving me well, now that I have moved from adolescence to adulthood! Thanks, loves2learn was definitely not wrong about you!
@ChrisMaster69 Chris, Chris, Chris… now, perhaps the young Padawan can, at last, teach the master? If you’re going to fuck a werewolf, USE A CONDOM! No negotiation! LOL 😂 Although I’m familiar with Dantes inferno, I have (Summer House) never read it. But it’s definitely going on my reading list now! Thank you so much for the link. I can certainly appreciate NOW that the bridge was an excellent metaphor! I mean, I certainly wouldn’t want to go SWIMMING across it! I LOVED the psychological analysis, and learning that sloth was actually a mistranslation? Although it is a bit sad to hear clinical depression defined as a deadly sin, and those who suffer with it don’t even get to fight on the surface, they just lay beneath the… well, “all manner of disgusting things people could imagine “ said it all! Thanks 🙏
@loves2learn OMG! Thank you, yes! I thought it was just me. The amt of times I’ve posted something, only to discover a blatant mistake, and you cannot edit anything once it’s up! It’s the worst thing about this site! So to the mods… could you PLEASE ask someone on the dev team to add an edit feature?
I’m with you on this, @CrazyGirl2. I hate it when I read something carefully and a blatant typo shows up out of nowhere. Especially if I’m using numbers/letters and parentheses. I have to remember not to use the parentheses or I get uninvited random emojis. Lol
@loves2learn Yeah, there are SO many things that need to be fixed on this site! But, it’s still a fun place (when I’m not getting piled on by the INCELs that infest this site!)
I had lots of girls who dates will all races but except their own. Like most white girls wouldn't date their own race and a Latino wouldn't date other latino or white. Also had quite a bit of girls who told me they only date or sleep with blacks. I had a co worker who told me she'll never date or sleep with a blacks until she had a one night stand with her future black husband.
I feel like men and women who date all races except their own/certain races are alright as long as they don’t put the race of people they don’t date down just because if their own personal preference. And I support interracial relationships as long as they aren’t from a place of fetishization ^^
Ofcourse you're for it, any left wing stance you would take. No I think its right, no? Do I mind it, no.
People get along best with thier own races whether through friendship, bonding or relationships.
Had the bachelor chosen the black woman he wouldn't have to worry about his blackness not being understood and America would have been saved yet another liberal PSA.
That sounds pretty prejudice? So you don’t support interracial dating cause people should “stick to their kind” ? We’re humans, we shouldn’t have to date in our race just because of such little stuff
Im not against it but i do prefer to date my own. As for your last paragraph, there's still strife even then because latinos and blacks often judge their own based off skintone (colorism), hairstyles, not acting black or hispanic enough, not being built like the stereotypical black/hispanic guy/girl and so on. So although more problems probably come with interracial dating, there's still problems even without doing so
Absolutely not, I personally wouldn't date a girl who acts "Ghetto" which can apply to any race, but I would not discount someone as a possible romantic interest based solely on their race. I feel that the tone of someone's skin doesn't affect who they are, however the culture in which they were raised can have an absolutely detrimental impact.
Anyone who DOES support it should be banned from the Internet, I am NOT joking. Especially the pussies who hide anonymously when stating their KKK affiliations.
I meant those who OPPOSE it should be banned. I have reading comprehension issues and typed the opposite of what I meant. The ones who support it are alright with me.
I don't want you to stick with your kind, as there is no such thing as "one's own kind."
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I hear a lot of black women say that "I don't date outside my race" and attack white and latina women for getting with black men.
I also agree with interracial dating but only dating. when it comes to children I'd rather have a child of my race a pure breed. I want to keep my race going and so many beautiful Hispanic ladies out there. I want my child to look like me.
There’s no such thing as “pure breed” every single human being is of the human race. Also, if you’re Latino that’s not a race it’s an ethnic group so any race can be apart of it.
On one hand I'm all for personal freedom. No one can tell people who not to date. On the other, long-term result of interracial dating would be complete eradication of any differences between peoples and cultures. No more diversity. I personally do prefer women of my race, but I respect those, who decide either way.
Not really, because usually women of the same ethnicity don’t want to get in a relationship with you, they’re the least attractive, and have problems which makes them unattractive, and don’t want to have a relationship with them. Why do people care if someone does interracial dating or not? If you have a boyfriend/girlfriend or a spouse, then you shouldn’t care about someone doing interracial dating?
I don't mind the dating aspect of it. Also, I feel that this is poorly phrased. I feel that you should date whomever you like. But, when it comes to falling in love/getting married, I feel like that person should have a similar cultural background, regardless of race. Race is only melanin content, even though the democrats would make you think that it's the end of the world...
First off I’m against all dating but most of the women I attract that think I’m attractive are biracial so that’s more ass for me
and I don’t see why someone would be mad about it because if all those explorers and travelers stayed in their own fucking countries this would be a problem now would it
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Not against it at all. People can love whatever race they love. Maybe those people saying they wouldn’t date outside their race are just not attracted to other races? I don’t know. I do know sometimes it is a racist thing.
I agree partially but I don’t think people can be “not attracted” to a certain race of people because race is such a broad concept that’s like saying “I don’t like soup” there are many different types of soups; some that you’ve tried and some that you haven’t so you can’t really come up with the conclusion that you don’t like all soups since so much soup exists it’d be too broad of a claim.
I have yet to see an mixed race marriage survive the test of time. In particular, black guys invariably end up beating their white partners to a bloody pulp. I've baby-sat two acquaintances who suffered this treatment.
For myself it's fine as long as she doesn't try to get me too involved in her culture - im not even involved in my own culture because that sort of thing is exhausting.
For others, I mean, that's not really any of my business.
I don't care about the race or color. I care about the quality of the individual, their beliefs, and their goals. But mostly, I care about how their ACTIONS show who and what they are.
Nope. But I don't think there's anything wrong if someone doesn't want to date interracial. Some people are not attracted to people of different race. By race I don't mean culture. And then you have some who don't want to date their own race and there's nothing wrong with it either.
@Cowboy6666 lol unfortunately I live with my boyfriend and I already have a pact with an incredibly gorgeous intelligent interesting young man in case it fails so... take a number lol
No. I have never dated anyone of another race but I never met anyone of another race that I wanted to date. If I found somebody that I liked and if she liked me I would love to do it. It would not be just to show people that I'm not a racist either.
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