I'm such a fat ogre?

[parmesua83]

"no guy will approach you when your friends and sister is around. Because they are attractive and you are not. so stand away from them and maybe someone will come up to you"

whoever told me that, thank you. you were 100% right. whenever someone comes up to me they are always inquiring about my sister or friends, even my mom. guys come up to me and tell me how beautiful they are. 🤷‍♀️ I also know a model and she gets the same treatment. You think a man would choose me over Madison Beer or someone actually pretty? lol no. They might say yes, but deep down its no. That's why men follow half naked chick's on social media and THIRST after them. I'm officially done. I'll just get cheated on anyways. I wouldn't date me either. My sister and mom always get gawked at and my friends always tell me how beautiful they are. I go out dancing every Wednesday, and I didn't get asked to dance. My sister goes out ONCE and she had 9 guys ask her to dance. 9! Everyone was staring at her like she was some kind of celebrity.

girls my age have things to live for. I don't. so

chick's dress half naked and EVERY guy looks. so whats the point? Why would I waste my time when I'm gonna get cheated on eventually?

[LZPanzer]

Ok soooo you think you're ugly.

You know you can't compete with all the pretty girls. So why are you competing with them.

You state that when your sister toes out 9 guys hit on her. If she's pretty that can explain why 9 guys hit on her.

Your answer is to not be like other girls. Find your own niche and exploit it.

Here are some common things women do when searching for a guy

1 women are passive, a lot of women have a severe case of princesses syndrome. They wait around for prince charming to sweep them of their feet. Since you say you can't compete your solution is to be active. Take the initiative and ask the guys you want out. Yeah you're going to get shot down, but that didn't stop those 9 guys.

2 women travel in heards. Women often go out with other women to have fun. This puts up an intimidating wall up for guys. Tear down this wall by going alone (take precautions) or break from your pack for extended periods of time.

3 guys have different interests than women. Try taking up a hobby dominated by men. By taking up a male dominated hobby you become an opportunity of convenience, now the guy doesn't have to think of an icebreaker as you already have a common interest.

[parmesua83]

Whats the point? Lmfao they wouldn't choose me over an attractive woman. So I give up. If men could get one he WOULD.

[LZPanzer]

The point is to either make it so there are no other women to choose, or to lower the bar for entry to the point where asking the pretty girl is too much of a hassle.

[parmesua83]

Lmao awesome. This makes me lose so much fucking hope. Thanks for your shitty advice.

Fuck you, pig.

[LZPanzer]

Wow.
I'm trying to help you.

When I say lower the bar I don't mean lower standards.

Sun tzsu says "always strike your opponent where they are weakest, never where they are strongest."

Right now your opponent is the other pretty women. So go for the guys they don't pick.
Your only other option is to get stronger than them. In this context that means you would have to be more desirable than the pretty women.

[ReynardTheFox6251315]

It can't be that bad and just think that your sister getting all of that attention from guys that are only interested in her body she'll likely have a very hard time trying to tell who is genuine and who is just trying to use her for sex. There is much more to life than relationships.

[parmesua83]

she's actually married.

And I know? But it would be nice to be appreciated for once.

[ReynardTheFox6251315]

Post a pic maybe you're wrong about why guys don't approach you.

[parmesua83]

I did that already. Thats why I'm insecure. Even posted a photo of my sister and I. They all chose her and told me how ugly I looked.

[ReynardTheFox6251315]

That really sucks but I understand how you feel.

[parmesua83]

Yep.

[Gjjknbjkk]

Uhhh good for you i guess? All i see is a chick venting about her problems in life, like we all dont have problems.

[parmesua83]

Next time just keep scrolling.

Go ahead and comment on those chicks on here asking if their ass is big. Bye.

[Gjjknbjkk]

Lol this ones salty that she ugly. Cry somewhere else.

[parmesua83]

Like I said, Bye.

[Gjjknbjkk]

Nah you can't scare me away as easily as you do to the other men in your life.