Why does western society hate virgin men? Why do men get virgin shamed? (Page 2)

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I personally never understand it. What is wrong with beig virgin as a man? Is that not good since you do not have to deal with his exs. He has no aids, no emotional baggage, no drama with, no bad past, no kids. Do not misunderstand me, non virgin men are ok. I do not judge anyone. I just do not understand why men get hate for being virgin while women get hate for being promiscuos

Kas19 · Answer

I love virgin men, just not the ones that blame their virginity on women. I'd love to be a man's first time (that sounds weird ik)

Dchrls78104 · Answer

Because western societies is at the mercy of hypocrisy and fools. It is stupid to measure someone's suitability for dating and/or relationships by the number of people that that person slept with before!

UnlovedWife · Answer

I think it’s because the world’s morals are completely gone. Being a virgin is not something to despise or look down on at all.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I think the reason is that Western society is obsessed with sex. They want to have sex with as many people as possible, even though deep down inside they know it's wrong. Someone who is a virgin is going against the grain, so they must be shamed because they make everyone else look bad. It's the same reason that a kid in school is picked on if they're smart and they make good grades.

Just_call_me_Levi · Answer

Here, not really. You might get teased at most, but it's a man's pride that takes everything personally, I'd guess media has it's share in this, but not, no one hates virgins, we do use "Virgin" as insult when someone crosses the line, basically calling someone unlovable.

TheSimonymous · Answer

That's because of the sexual revolution of 1968. Nowadays a man is worth absolutely nothing when he is a virgin. Before that, however, values such as purity, chastity and abstinence have been valued high by society.

InfobotLives · Answer

If you haven't had sex by the time you're 18 then you must cut off your peepee, wear a dress and call yourself Susan. That's the law.

Ms_Vanderquack · Answer

Why do you insist on confusing indifference for hatred?

TyniaB · Answer

Personally, I think its better because I am also a virgin and for when I get in a relationship it'll be good to learn together, but if they aren't a virgin it'll be fine also because he has more experience, but I'll be thinking like dang he was with other females before me... I don't know it depends on the female or male because the ones who have a problem with the male being a virgin then they are probally more advanced and want somebody to know what they're doing

Anonymous · Answer

The promiscuous Men want to marry virgin women and virgin men want virgin women. Also non virgin women and virgin tend to want nonvirgin men as that is more accepted norm, but virgin men have a leg to stand on when seeking virgin women. However, if virgin women settle for non virgin men, that leaves less virgins available. Which virgin men don't seek non virgin women as often causing conflict.

dragoblack · Answer

Because humanity is obsessed with sex and our society thrives on it in many ways. Even roman politics was built around how often someone got laid. Not getting laid is seen as not successful and weak minded

Wowie101 · Answer

But you’re judging everybody else? Anyway because it’s different than the norm. It’s just the way it works when somethings different people are wary of it. Because it usually means somethings off.

TheUniqueOne96 · Answer

Because some people think it's because they're loser if they can't get action, as guys are generally expected to make moves. I don't think there's anything wrong with making move.

_no_one_ · Answer

It has to do with an immature mind set of kids. Sex is considered some sort of god level achievement and cool and shit. To feel superior and show others that they get pussy easily and are valued by women which is pretty dumb tbh.

Slim57 · Answer

Because most western society women can't land a loyal virgin man who doesn't sleep around and who is loyal because they know better than to date a woman like that and they get bitter about it because they can't have them so they shame them much like some women do when they break up and say a man has a small penis but it's so big when they're together

Anonymous · Answer

You are correct, and it shouldn’t be that way. My theory is because western men are taught to be conquerors and achievers. To be “manly men.” To be competent and self confident. Being able to get a woman into bed has always been a masculine achievement.

rebeliouse · Answer

@hi_it_is_me123 its same stupid thought process that make out that women that have many partners in past are sluts. old school out of date thinking that should be banished

makriks · Answer

I think media plays an important role in showing the guy who have experience better than the guy who does not any experience.  Usually nerds in movies are virgins while the hero have experience.

LazyProphet · Answer

Its because men like to bust each others balls, its what we do, not meant to be mean. Maybe some women virgin shame men because they want more experienced guys, or maybe they assume he just has no relationship skills.

Anonymous · Answer

In some circles men who have sex with lots of women are seen as alpha males who can get many women to have sexual with them while virgin guys are seen as weak beta males who don’t have any confidence or backbone to get women to have sex.

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