Would you ever date a male or female stripper?

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Screenwriter · Accepted Answer

Tough one.

This is sex work. MIght not be selling your body for actual sex with another person, but it's renting it to be ogled to sexually stimulate someone. Not exactly savory, and many strippers are prostitutes. Maybe not regularly, but it seems to be part and parcel of the job.
They work odd hours, or whenever a client calls, so will have irregular schedules: nights, weekends, early mornings after clubs close..

The fact that these folk are selling the ONLY item that is completely theirs, their body, has always been a troublesome fact for me. They're making money. But money for someone using them as a living sex toy? Then they have to pretend to enjoy it. Lastly, there is the constant exposure to STDs.

I know practicing prostitutes get checked at least monthly and some as often as weekly. Most use condoms. But aren't there requests for "raw" sex that quadruples the pay? Isn't that kind of money hard to turn down if this is how someone makes a living?

How could a sex worker NOT be traumatized by this kind of work? I'm sure it would make a person jaded. Would a sex worker even WANT to have sex outside of work? What would be their opinions of relationships? The people who use their services are IN relationships and are cheating on their spouses. There might be "reasons," but it is still cheating.

I think being in a relationship with a sex worker would be fraught with issues unless they've been to years of therapy. And is that likely?

Cynicaldreamer · Accepted Answer

That depends, can I get a free, personal strip show anytime I want? 🤔
Kidding, kidding...

If the chemistry is there, sure! I mean it won't ever happen because I'm not "hot" enough, but since this question is hypothetical, let's go with yes for now.

Keep in mind it's just a job! Most strippers just do it for the money; that doesn't mean they sleep with any and everyone that pays them.
I'm sure outside of work, most strippers don't even want to think about that, and just want a nice relationship with someone that respects them and sees them as more than just a body.

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

I dated 3 female strippers different times , once I started getting deeper feelings for them I started to hate that they were leaving me to go get naked for other guys and her hours of work sucked but the sex was amazing , when she would get home early in the morning and wake me up to get my cock in her , so not all strippers are wild and unfaithful but some are they ended up cheating so , but them going to work, leaves you with a question Mark on your head whether they will be coming home to you or not , it’s a shitty feeling , most strippers have bit of crazy in them lol the one I started getting real serious with was heavy into black magic and putting spells On people, she wanted me to move far away with her but I didn’t want to go so I told her no , after she moved that was the last I heard from her and I told her To please not put a spell on me, she didn’t think that was very funny but that was the last words I said to her lol, So if you can handle her leaving to go get nude For other guys and hope she comes home to you then date a stripper

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

I would not date a female stripper if she was currently engaged in that "profession." Is she had been a stripper in the past, my concerns would be that she had also been involved in prostitution, and that she viewed sex as a recreational activity rather than an expression of love in a committed relationship. I would not want simply to be #147 or #523 on her list of sexual partners. So, I would look at how long it had been since she had been involved in those activities and whether she had changed enough so that I could trust her intentions in seeking a relationship.

AmandaYVR · Answer

I did, briefly.
He was a sort of un, interesting guy, but we weren't suited to each other though. He used to drive me crazy when we were having fun. Flamboyant, creative, liked to draw attention, opinionated. We became friends instead.
That was pretty much an anomaly though. Would never happen again. I have no interest in people who sell sex for a living.

Miristheiss · Answer

Never.
That crosses every boundary of what is an intimate, exclusive relationship.
Taking their clothes off for a room full of the other sex to ogle from head to toe for their sexual entertainment, interacting with men all night acting charmed by their gross comments and proposals to get tips, doing lap dances on them... etc.
I consider that 100% cheating and utter disgusting and of the lowest character.
I'd never date anyone who had even stripped for one shift...5 years in the past.
Immediate 100% deal breaker.

lilyanony1 · Answer

Personally I don't know if I would. I can say though that built men as lovely as they are to look at are a little high maintenance for me. I want my man with me cuddling up on sofa, not dancing it up! Ah well we all gotta make money somehow.

My ex used to ask me about things like that
"would I be OK with him being a naked butler?"
So I asked him straight "Can you handle the attention that comes with that job whilst with me?"

And his faced changed like sudden realisation just hit!

JEndigoBleue · Answer

Yes, why not. We're just dating. He's not committed to me. You're getting to know each other while dating. He'll get to know during the dating phase how I feel about being in a committed relationship "Marriage" (for me) with a man that take off his clothes and dance before women. It's not a deal breaker. If we are vibing, connecting, etc., we will come to an understanding of each other because you want to be together. We'll either embrace the possibility of being together and he stop stripping because he wants to have a committed relationship with me. Or, "I"can embrace him stripping. Or, We just stop dating and walk away amicably.

razelove · Answer

Yeah, I have before, when I worked with them, after, when I was stripping I would have been on the flip side of the question, and most women saw me more for fun than dating.

Most strippers I was with weren't too interested in relationships either, a few times we pursued it though.

They make an enormous amount of money if they're good at their job, creating a fantasy, keeping regulars. It's fair to say over half the suits I own and my "nice clothes" came from dating strippers who wanted to see me dressed a little better on a whim.

The only tough part is the job schedule now that I'm more square, and that most of them get into drugs, so that wealth can turn into an occupational hazard. As long as they're D and D free, yeah, I'll try hard to make time if they will as well.

Mishan97 · Answer

Personally no. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with someone being a stripper I wouldn’t demonize them but I couldn’t date one. I want a man with a stable career with room to advance and move up and regular hours and obviously a stripper doesn’t have that. Plus way too much stress/anxiety to constantly worry about if ur partner is being faithful! Not worth it in my opinion

Red_Arrow · Answer

I did once. Took her to a company party. She was a gorgeous black stripper. Most company people did not know me well, and those that knew me some what were totally in awe of my date. We had a wonderful time. I knew her because I worked as a bouncer at a bar she stripped at.

MCheetah · Answer

Yes, and I have before. This was before I knew she was a stripper. Her name was Ashley and she was a 5'9" blonde. She was a decent enough person and was doing the job because she legitimately had no other options (according to her, at least). She wanted to go back to school, but considered herself too dumb to do well in college. She eventually ghosted me and last I heard of her in 2013, she had OD'ed.

RingOfFire · Answer

I did when I was in my 20s. Dated a few of them. It was actually fun. I found the ones I spent time with to really enjoy just doing silly stuff and having a good time. None of them were very smart or had much class except one. She never had sex with customers and was just doing it to pay her way through college. Really admired her.

ThePolishKnight37 · Answer

Been there done that. Went for a while when I worked at the health club, where I attracted them. Two I knew were and two I did not until after the first date. One stripper busted on the other in one case. LOL I did not care, I cared what type of person you were. There are many different reasons women get into that line of work. I tried to talk it out with all of them. Now would I marry one, different story. Depends on the type of stripping they do.

TheTower · Answer

It’s kinda complicated answer for me. While at some part of me said that I might date stripper especially if she have good personality and quite good looking but the thinking where the situation “Oh, I know you. You are the stripper at XXX. Your body are beautiful. That make my buddy down there raging hard” or when at party “Hey, lets have your girlfriend strip dance here. What the different right”.

Anonymous · Answer

It all depends how trust worthy that person who is the “stripper” is lol but I will say I would def fuck them and that goes for male or female because I’m bisexual. But date I don't know 🤷🏻‍♀️ I did let a female stripper suck on my tits one time years ago and that was a blast lol very encouraging too. Definitely made me want her, but want her just sexually though.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I might. I mean, it isn't ideal. But there are worse things.
As long as she isn't touching anyone or letting them touch her.
(And I would probably be best if she had done that in a different city. Because I don't want a bunch of her former clients living in our community.)

Anonymous · Answer

I had a brief fling with one. She was one of the hottest girls I ever hooked up with (and it was free and legit) But she was one hot mess which comes with the territory.

Thing is she came from a good family and she wasn’t intellectually stupid (just stupid when it came to responsibility).

She didn’t need to strip but she had this bizarre urge to rebel. Then she is constantly getting in trouble (getting evict, being around shady people, dating violent guys, etc) and of course looking for a “nice guy” to save her. She straight up asked if she could be my girlfriend. Fuck that. I didn’t fall for it. If she had a legit career it would of been a completely different story.

Kaneki05 · Answer

Yup, it's there job no different to any other job to me. Plus they will be experts at teasing me soo sounds fun. Money for a service isn't personal. And because of that it don't bother me only bother's me if they make it personal.

Hyped_up_on_coffee · Answer

Never Seriously , just as a fun fling. This girl I know had 2 babies with a stripper and things didn’t work out so well. For me I think that they are pretty but I’ve never had much in common with them.

Jjpayne · Answer

I'm not sure I would date an active one 🤔 with my faith, it would be hard to justify it...

Athough simply dating them, I probably could do that. It is always fun getting to know people regardless of their profession.

Srij23 · Answer

I don't know... if she is good then yes... honestly speaking I may not be fine with it because it will make me constantly worried about her beacuse naturally I am possessive about my girlfriend and won't be able to share it with anyone stripper or not... Somehow if you are able to emotionally differentiate between job and love then yaa you can date... that's my view

PaynefulPleasures · Answer

In my younger years I dated a stripper/dancer he was just way to conceited for me. Damn good looking good 💖

Citizenkirk · Answer

Why, does it make me a bad person if I did, er, I mean, would?

Minerate · Answer

Probably not, I would assume there would be quite a clash in personality, values, morals and other issues that I'm not sure could be overcome.

Not a definite no, since I've never dated, but seems pretty unlikely.

irohfan · Answer

100% yes the female stripper because girls are hot but it would depend for the guy. He better throw it back really well and have some good ass moves LOL

HawkPerception · Answer

Not a chance. There wouldn't be any feeling of exclusivity.

QuestionMark19 · Answer

I've got no desire to even watch one. So dating is not even a thought that has entered my head.  Stripping is so dead in my opinion, anyway. It's so 80s or 90s. It's out of style.

elizamichale1 · Answer

Yes definitely n why not I am a stripper myself and i get asked out a lot tbh

mistixs · Answer

Probably not. I don't think we would be compatible.

northerngal · Answer

I have and I would. But just for dating to be honest. Probably not for a serious relationship unless he quit.

jshm2 · Answer

Have dated a few in my younger years. It's just a job to them - the ones who don't get into The Industry, that is.

CasaNorba · Answer

why date one when I can just get a see her dance naked, get a lapdance or her to the champagne room and do whatever she's down with all in the same night?

JSmuve · Answer

I could definitely date a stripper. At least casually. Sad thing is, a lot of them have damaged personalities (hence why they're strippers). So no commitment from me.

Leavesbound · Answer

Sure why not but I can't afford the price of admission.

Anonymous · Answer

No for the simple reason that male strippers usually have a body type that I'm not really into. So the chances that I'm into them is low in the first place. Just a personal preference tho.

ImSparkly · Answer

No. In my limited sample size, their egos often conflict with reality.

Twinrova · Answer

No thanks. A female stripper wouldn't be my girlfriend; she would be the people's girlfriend.

sixtyeightplusone · Answer

of course, that's a big plus. She's conditioned to give it up easily. What's the downside?

dovido · Answer

Yea. It’s more about how they behave there and with who, but yea. Probably wouldn’t last too long. Literally lol but yea

shade_19 · Answer

Yes actually😅  Everyone has had a life and it's about if they wanna get better or just stay in there.

ChiTown33 · Answer

I'm not going to say no bwcause i never like to say never. But i don't see the type of woman who ok with being a stripper being compatible with me.

Angelo75 · Answer

Will she quit her job for me? No? Then i guess not.

exitseven · Answer

No, anyone that is in the sex trade had deep emotional issues I would not want to have to deal with.

Josh4206 · Answer

If I was attracted to them and they had a good personality yea. Probably wouldn't be the case though

Sandshrew · Answer

I heard a story that a guy was dating a female stripper and asked him if he wanted to go to a male strip club to win a prize and he did and won and he kept going to earn extra cash, so to me it seems like a bonding couple activity, it seems fun

DiscomfortZone · Answer

Naa, it's not for me. I like certain things to remain mine and mine only (or rather for my eyes only).

Anonymous · Answer

I would, they're just staring at him, they're not sleeping with him

Ecologygirl76 · Answer

No because I would always think he is cheating on me with his clientele.

Dnice1 · Answer

Technically I am dating my own personal stripper 😏

Doctorstrangee · Answer

I would not, simply because a stripper sold her body for cash and wanted the easy money. This proves that these kind of people aren't real fighters nor do they have the mentality to view sex as something intimate. So my answer is no, i want a healthly normal wife. As they say wife is life.

Redred56 · Answer

Your question is really, would I date someone in the world’s oldest profession and do I find it
Beneath me?
I can think of another profession I really despise to be honest. Don’t like being in the same room
With one either! Just sayin

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Nothing good can come from dating a woman who makes a living manipulating men by using her sexuality.

pokerbot · Answer

I think the real question here is, would a female stripper date me? I'm hardly sugar daddy material but I guess we could be fuck buddies.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

I was a male stripper and I've dated female strippers before for casual dating but never would for serious relationships. AMA.

Pogi-Paddy · Answer

I have dated a stripper in the past and we had a great relationship.

Anonymous · Answer

yes if they were not a sleazy person. But really I just came here to see how many guys claim to have dated strippers because it's usually extremely high on this site.

art84 · Answer

No cause I wouldn't be able to trust her plus I don't like strippers.

Shy_Steve · Answer

If I liked her personality and I found her attractive, Why not.

Caliguy88 · Answer

Yeah but I’d be cautious. Mostly because the drugs in that industry, not the sex part. But that would be a concern too. Most strippers will do about anything if the price is right. I’ve had girls jack me off for no reason at clubs.

legalboxers · Answer

I dated a female stripper for a week. wasn't the best experience

Anonymous · Answer

I think she rather sleep with millionaires and billionaires. If she’s bbw then she wants chocolate boys in bed

worldscolide · Answer

I dated a female stripper once... That was enough, never again... It's been my experience that most of them are single mother, drug addicted, and crazy as hell.. Most.. Not all.

BlackPrince1 · Answer

Nope... trying not to be judgmental but I don't like that profession..

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