Just saying...
Are men who don't have at least 100k in the bank really worth the hassle of dating or are they just "damaged goods"?
Just saying...
i mean if you're looking for a provider type guy, not being able to take care of yourself financially, then yeah. those men aren't for you.
i know :D i get a kick out of answering stupid questions seriously xD i've seen there's a bunch of dumb "damaged goods" questions recently.
Yes. Lazy. I don't know why girls even bother.
If i was a girl i wouldn't talk to a broke man at all nor one that couldnt physically protect me. These girls are dating skinny fat video game nerds who live with mom. Like wtf! They must be shit themselves if thats what they go for.
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Has anyone yet said you were triggered by that Question cuz you posted this?😂
Cuz I'm apparently soooo triggered for the post I made...🤣🤣
Calling out bs and hypocrisy isn't the definition of triggered... People get stupider by the day lololol
For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also. -- Matthew 6:21
Yes, I know, but I don't remember many verses that I can occasionally recite, so when I saw the opportunity. . .
OMG SWEETIE DID YOU REALLY SAY THAT? 😂 for one if a guy is able to save a 100K he gets my respect! Knowing what to do with money making it work for you is another thing. I much rather have a guy with his own home maybe being small and a triplex he rents out. That shows me he is good with money investing and going to have a secure future. But in all honesty it’s more about what a person does with their money than it is how much they make. I sell houses and deal with a lot of people who don’t have high paying salaries. I have a truck driver who I have been buying four plexus du plexus for over 13 years working with him. He lived in one of the rentals drives truck around the country. He make just over 75K a year. He has over 7 million dollars in real estate seeing him you wouldn’t think it. He doesn’t have the fancy job either so it’s more what that person does with it. I know a guy who I went to high school with he is a GM at the Chevrolet dealership. I know he makes over 150K a year that guys claim bankruptcy every 7 years. He is a fucking idiot with money so like I said there is a lot more to it!
Depends Cuz Love isn’t based off of money , if it is to you then you won’t really ever find true love , Money brings security and comfort but it doesn’t buy love , Finding someone that stands by you no matter what obstacles life throws at you is true love , if a girl is just after me for my money , I would never commit to her , I might bang her lol but I wouldn’t give her 100 percent of my heart. It’s sad cuz money isn’t everything , Best to find someone that loves you for you , I didn’t always have a high paying job , but I always worked and kept a roof over my head and food in my mouth and clothes on my back , I wouldn’t want to be with someone that would walk out on me if I ever lost my job or got fired , I have seen girls do that to their husbands and to me those girls are the biggest pieces of shit on this earth leaving him for another guy that had a better paying job , I rather be with someone that supported me and stood by me until i got a new job , Now if I got fired and sat on my ass and didn’t do anything about finding a new job and wasn’t trying then yes walk out on me cuz I am a piece of shit , but if I am constantly applying to new jobs and working at a low paying job until a better job comes along then she is the piece of shit for not standing by my side is how I look at it
Not worth digging for sure. Other than that as good/bad as any other.
10k is a must for both genders. Being broke is not "cool" or sexy.
Basic financial understanding should exist.
So, how did you make your money before the age of 30?
I do not believe anyone is ever damaged goods. As for men with less than 100k, money is not everything in the world. A true independent woman should not need to rely on a man's money to get what she wants. As for damaged credit, credit scores are my least favorite thing because they reduce a person to a number. The credit scoring model treats people who go through hard times the same as people who are irresponsible with bills. The credit scoring models are too impersonal and therefore not a great tool for deciding a person's heart and other important qualities when dating.
Lol to have saved a 100k in the bank is really hard especially for a guy in his 20s. This is why I dress poor on purpose so I can weave out all the gold diggers. This is even with a job that pays about 3 times more than the average minimum wage in your area.
I thought so lol. On a serious note I'd like to see how many woman have that much money saved. I have 1/3 of that saved in my bank account. Most women I know don't have as much money saved on me. Although I know that's not strong evidence as I only gave you anecdotal evidence. Perhaps this inspired a another question. You should ask next how much money people on here have in their bank account. I am interested to know what the polls would be.
Men or women who care about income or credit as a means to pick or decline a partner are damaged goods.
Specifically mentally damaged.
The only relationships worth persuing are ones that can survive poverty, sickness, and other hardships.
People who think otherwise live in a fantasy world inside their own heads where they have perminent value outside of love in a relationship, and where they are immune to becoming poor or sick, and where a partner will tolerate their gold digging, especially from a person getting on in years or that isn't drop dead gorgeous.
It's honestly laughable that these kinds of people obtain relationships for any length of time at all, as that type of delusional mentality dooms relationships from the start.
Well, it's all very well to set that requirement, but the truth is that savings rates in the US are mostly abysmal, so most guys won't have that net worth. It's also not realistic to expect many guys under 30 to have that sort of net worth.
I was broke until recently. Paid for a lot of school. And I’m worth several times that now but it’s invested. My bank has like 5k in it. But give me a week I could go buy a lambo cash. Also, I drive a shitty car and invest like crazy. I probably get looked at because my car sometimes but I’ll be the one with a condo in florida driving a pice of shit. Lol. Just look at the whole pic. 100k by 30 is not common. Plenty of people that do get there though. I’d be more interested in his career. That’s gonna tell if he’s able to get there.
If I was a woman, especially a good looking one, I’d be a gold digger, period. I can’t blame a woman for taking advantage of the system that was set against them to begin with. Isn’t that what we are all doing in some way anyway?
If I ever have 100k in the bank just slap me. Seriously who stays liquid to that level? It should be invested and turned into income generation.
love is technically conditional on your income but financial responsibility is more important than income because she WILL leave you if you go broke. Income consistency can always stop thats why financial responsibility is more important because if you get fired you will be fine. Chase your purpose and women will chase you.
So basically you say that women care only about money. In other words according to your opinion all women are prostitutes. Thank you for clearing that up.
You're right. Why bother with someone like that. You deserve a man with millions and a big dick. I'm going for a woman with a tiny waist, a nice ass, and kneepads.
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What exactly does "in the bank" mean here?
Unless you're spending millions a year a hundred k in your literal bank account would be... pretty dumb.
I hate to break it to you sweetheart, most men don't make 100k a year and if you are looking for this kind of guy, you are selling yourself short because money is nice, but if you are looking for a guy for the long term your standards are astronomically high and you'll be single for a long time.☯️
@Pogi-Paddy-2 I'm not looking I found awhile back no worries
Leave 100k in the bank, having them pay me $100 a year if I'm lucky
I don't trust the banks
It's ok, I know I'm worthless and damaged to some degree or another :)
100k in the bank isn't a good measure, even owning their own house. A mortgage can make a house owner live in debt for years and 100k cash isn't doing anything.
Does this make most high school sweethearts not worth the hassle? Low wage jobs? If someone goes on holiday a lot does that make them worth less than someone who saves?
For all the women out there who only date for the money: best of luck.
Just know that most of you are going to be alone for a long, long time.
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