"I like you, but not in that way." See also, "I see you as more of a friend, but not a girlfriend," or the classic, "You deserve better..."
Just say you're not attracted to me... good grief!
But I usually get rejected because I'm not attractive to said guy- which I get it, that's their right to feel that way. It still hurts, but that's life.
I’ve never been rejected but I have done some rejecting and I will first hand say if a girl tells u that ur nice sweet and funny but they just aren’t looking for a relationship right now, it translates to “I think ur a pussy and that doesn’t turn me on.” As my friends use to always say “I already have a pussy y would I need another one?” As much as many straight women don’t want to admit, a straight up, confident, take charge man is the most attractive.
I wasn't her type, physically. Now, that's not why it's the worst part. The worst part is that, three weeks later, she starts dating a guy who's ( physically ) a spitting image of me ( same height, same muscle build, same hair color ). The only difference is, he has a reputation as a bad boy. She was proud to be the resident bad boy's girlfriend. Seven months into their relationship, he beat her up.
i don't know. i did everything in my power to find that out. was i too ugly? no. she actually said she considers me to be a 8-9 on the 1-10 scale while she considered herself to be a 7. she actually told me on several occasions before i asked her out that she thinks i'm a very desirable partner for a woman and that women should be running after me and that she doesn't understand why i'm single... which is painfully ironic considering that the person who said that, rejected me xD
Being told I was a great guy, but the girl wasn't looking for a relationship. In one with a guy literally days later.
Could be bad timing or just didn't want to be upfront, but those ones always stung.
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Anonymous
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Girl No 1. I only date black boys who wants to share my egg rolls with! 👲🏿🥡
Girl No 2. I only date Latino boys who shares their tacos with! 👨🏽🌮
Girl No 3. I only date star wars nerds only 😁 no star trek nerds allowed 😁
Then etc and etc 😐🤷🏻♂️
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Anonymous
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She was talking to someone else pretty much. All she told me was that I was funny, nice, sweet, a real good guy but she wasn't ready for a relationship and needed time. A week later she was in a relationship with someone :/
U don't need a dateabke face. U might just need a rocken bod and u don't have to worry about that. That or have some game. Like, make them feel good and laugh.
@Am_and_Pm I do have a body that's in good shape as it's the only thing I can do for myself to keep from being both fat and ugly, also having game or making them feel good or laugh has never worked for me, I've only ever been rejected.
I don't know, maybe, read up on being a Cosanova man. Looks r not everything. Believe me when I say this. People with the best personality can have so much more.
If they can do it, I believe u can too. Now get to. I bet u want a girlfriend after this COVID ends. It's gonna be like a basketball game.
@Am_and_Pm yea it's true, it has never mattered how in shape I am or how funny I am or how nice I am, I have only ever known rejection and have had girls tell me I was not attractive or good looking enough
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