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I’ve never been rejected but I have done some rejecting and I will first hand say if a girl tells u that ur nice sweet and funny but they just aren’t looking for a relationship right now, it translates to “I think ur a pussy and that doesn’t turn me on.” As my friends use to always say “I already have a pussy y would I need another one?” As much as many straight women don’t want to admit, a straight up, confident, take charge man is the most attractive.10
I wasn't her type, physically. Now, that's not why it's the worst part. The worst part is that, three weeks later, she starts dating a guy who's ( physically ) a spitting image of me ( same height, same muscle build, same hair color ). The only difference is, he has a reputation as a bad boy. She was proud to be the resident bad boy's girlfriend.
Seven months into their relationship, he beat her up.30
"Oh, I wish I cold go out with you Friday night, but that's the night I wash my hair!" I actually heard that once. It was about 45 years ago.20
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i don't know. i did everything in my power to find that out. was i too ugly? no. she actually said she considers me to be a 8-9 on the 1-10 scale while she considered herself to be a 7. she actually told me on several occasions before i asked her out that she thinks i'm a very desirable partner for a woman and that women should be running after me and that she doesn't understand why i'm single... which is painfully ironic considering that the person who said that, rejected me xD20
Being told I was a great guy, but the girl wasn't looking for a relationship. In one with a guy literally days later.
Could be bad timing or just didn't want to be upfront, but those ones always stung.10
Girl No 1. I only date black boys who wants to share my egg rolls with! 👲🏿🥡
Girl No 2. I only date Latino boys who shares their tacos with! 👨🏽🌮
Girl No 3. I only date star wars nerds only 😁 no star trek nerds allowed 😁
Then etc and etc 😐🤷🏻♂️10
She was talking to someone else pretty much. All she told me was that I was funny, nice, sweet, a real good guy but she wasn't ready for a relationship and needed time. A week later she was in a relationship with someone :/31
Never have been. Since they always asked me, and i never rejected them so.20
I was the type of guy she wanted but I don't have a dateable face, she said some other mean shit but I don't like thinking about that stuff.45
I was flat out rejected because a) I'm not a muscle bound jock and b) i don't have a 6 figure career10
That, she told me that I was ugly, small dick, loser, that when I was 18 felt bad and got depressed.20
I'll let you know when I get actually ask someone out.10
The worst reason is when they don't tell you the reason.
Anything else I can take.20
Because of my political views and "I was offensive" and "anti-Semitic" and "creepy." Fucking normies praise kek!10
She didn't give a reason, but I've had a girl say yes, then ignore my messages after that. That was a nasty tease.10
I think it was lack of self-esteem was able to be seen and she just been turned off by me and my way of asking her out.20
She told me that I was not boyfriend material. That one really stung.10
Wait, people get reasons?20
I was rejected for being a virgin by 2 crushes.20
Apparently I wasn't slutty enough10
I never been rejected10
i am to nice and to loving10
She says she want to sleep22
"I like you, but not in that way." See also, "I see you as more of a friend, but not a girlfriend," or the classic, "You deserve better..."
Just say you're not attracted to me... good grief!
But I usually get rejected because I'm not attractive to said guy- which I get it, that's their right to feel that way. It still hurts, but that's life.
"you deserve better"... I don't know how anyone can say that with a straight face... ugh...