Why Do "Some" Women Get Competitive/Fight Over Guys? That Aren't Even Worth It? (Page 2)
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I don't get that at all... i wouldn't fight OVER anyone... if you have to fight over someone. Well they were not ever yours in the first place.
I will always fight FOR the one I love... but never over.
Right!!
Hard to answer that. Low self esteem I guess
I wonder the same thing, what's meant for you, you will never have to fight over it and a man who wants women to fight over him is a no good deal. It's embarrassing and disrespectful.
EXACTLY!! šÆ this here!!
They've lost hope on meeting the right guy, due to low self-esteem, so they settle for this guy, only to find out that he's been stolen, which hurts their self esteem even more!
I agree it must be a self esteem issue to want a guy that would be involving other women into the mix
'A fool in love' I guess... She can have him, To much drama lama. Next!
Haha sorry been there before and you are right, so wasn't worth it, love can be blind.
Right! Or they don't know what real love is
I donāt see that very often, but itās usually when thereās a shortage of men. I once saw a 70 year old woman pummel an 80 year old over a man.
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Yeah, I was shocked initially, but in that age group there really was a shortage of men (this was in 1993, by the way).
To prove that she is more wanted than the other woman, doesn't matter bad guy good guy just want to feel wanted
But that's not really real live tho then is it
Sure, she will regret later especially if he was bad guy
Yeah noone worth that
Maybe the challenge or the false sense of a real catch 🤔
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Lack of self-esteem. If the guy is not into you itās not meant to be. plenty of fish in the sea
EXACTLY!!!šÆ
Because they both are in their thirties, are scared, and they slept with him
If someone really wants you, there would be no fightš¤·š¼āāļø
You mean if he really wanted one if the girls?
Yes!
What if he likes having both, and enjoys their rivalry?
There is a girl on here who is in one of those and doesn't realize it. Hugh Hefner was famous for playing his girlfriends against each other.
But then that's not real love, is it...
And then blame him, not the other females
No, it isn't. But it does explain why they fight over him.
Yes, that's the devious part. He gets them both to attack and hate each other, when he is the real cause
EXACTLY!!! so stupid
And said. When they settle for someone who only will see them occasionally or who is willing to play with their heart and their life for his own satisfaction. Who deludes them, and possibly even himself, that he loves them
EXACTLY!!
I take it you know someone who is in this situation as well?
I see a lot of women put up with it, or deal with it
That's so sad. They are worth a lot more
Jealousy, Rage, revenge.
The only thing bad guys are usually good at is sex. Many women seem ok putting up with the abuse physical & emotional for the sex.
Itās quite sad
Yeah no sex worth that
I volunteer at some places and I run into that a lot. Itās quite an eye opener.
You read about the women that used Gorilla glue in her hair this past year didn't you? There is your answer.
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No idea. Part of the reason I couldn't get along with my peers in junior high lmao.
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They are very insecure. They think that they won' t find another guy.
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I don't really know. I guess guys have competitive Sports and women have competitive Sports too. They're just different.
But sports are worth it! A man who don't live you isn't!
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I don't quite understand what you just said sorry
You're confusing men competing in sports to women competing for men... Why compete over a man that don't love you?
Especially if it's a man that will cheat or lie? That is so not the same as men competing over basketball or football or etc
I don't think people in the middle of a competition think that far ahead and I also don't think they really want the man. I think what they want is to win.
Besides, it's a chance to trash the guy after they actually win him
Perry. Insecure. A need to be better than the other woman because their validation doesnāt come from within.
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*Petty
Women who know their worth donāt have he slightest interest in this. If he doesnāt want her she isnāt going to waste her time.
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It is definitely not worth it. Nobody wins in these kind of situations. Sometimes, there is even bodily harm or death involved with what they call a love triangle.
Yeah nobody worth that
Isn't that pretty much the plot of half of the episodes of Jerry Springer?
Hahahahaha š that got me... And from there they go to the Maury show...
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Hahaha! Totally forgot about Maury! You're right about that.
And it was always two morbidly obese women fighting over an emaciated dude with a mullet.
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I think itās more like they are fighting the other person who is trying to take away something thatās theirs. It doesnāt matter what theyāre fighting over. Neither of them may like the guy all that much but itās just the fact that someone is trying to take something away from them.
But if he's really "yours" noone could take him from you... You think me or my husband never got hit on by someone else in 20 years, we just weren't interested in anyone but each other... If a woman can take your man, he was never really yours...
Youāre exactly right. I donāt agree with the reason for fighting over a guy but I think thatās what ends up being the focus in these fights and most people grow out of it.
Women want what they canāt have. Look at the bachelor for example. The guy could have any girl in that room but only one girl will be with the guy at the end
I think those shows are so stupid...
Thatās because of the poor script writing
No because I would never compete like that for a guy, and then too make a show or if itš¤·š¼āāļø
A lot of women say that but once jealousy sets it then itās on
I hardly ever hear of women fighting over guys that actually are worth it. Birds of a feather...
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