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No that's not lie self esteem, that's being smart!!! If someone really wants to be with you there wouldn't be any competition, he'd want you and you only...
What if there was a psycho girl following him to destroy his life? A lot of women does that!
@TonyMetal___86 I know people also falsely claim that!
When a man and a woman love each other nothing in this world can separate them 😌
I think it's more that it's easier for women to blame other women instead of admitting dude don't really care, cuz if he did there wouldn't be others🤷🏼♀️
That's a valid reason!
Okay but some these women fighting over list liars or cheaters, and yeah just no
*loser not list lol
I'm in a poly relationship, cheating in my dynamic is if I have sex with someone else without at least telling the woman/women I'm with that I'm going to, or for some odd reason if I were to try and lie or conceal as much.In a traditional sense, being with more than one woman would be "cheating" to begin with. It's how our brains are wired. Even before my marriage or being poly I knew my best chance of success going out on any given night was to go out as friends, and never ever fuck the strippers I worked with. They were a pond, the women they made available to me were a waterfall. One was mostly stagnant, one had a source beyond my imagination.Hell, after being with my wife a while I asked her what had attracted her to me, she had said because I looked like I could handle myself, and I always had women around me. It made her curious enough to approach me and ask me out.I'm no millionaire, or exceptional person except for being straightforward in what I want, then working towards it. Do I "deserve" more than one woman? Hell no. It was made available to me though, and once I figured out I liked it, I pursued it.Women control sex, I don't know what it is that makes me attractive either. Whatever "it" is though, other guys have that as well, to the tune that historically most women reproduce, but the same is not true for men. It confuses me greatly as well, but that is how things go in our species.
No rant of you need to! I so hear you!!
Right! But unfortunately, people lie... They'll say there's none else, but then there is
True. Thank God I knew my husband for ten years before dating him.
Those are the relationships that seem to last! 💛😊
Hey, how'd your family? Good I hope..And yeah you may be right there!
THIS! This answer here! EXACTLY!!💯👍
One guy that probably really didn't give a shit about either of them...
@Brainsbeforebeauty Yeah, I agree with you some of these people.. Smh
Apparently that's happening
Yes. I'm sorry. I can't imagine any other reason why women fight over worthless men
Unfortunately, some people live for drama
It was only the girl that did it. I only got the must attention from guys since they all saw me as a different then other girls with a learning disabilities and other girls also I learning disabilities.
But if sometime really loves you there wouldn't be no competition, noone to fight... two chicks fighting over a guy that 9 times out of ten don't love either.
I think if u have low self esteem and no one ever showed u what love should look like, u wouldn’t be able to know that. Many people in toxic relationship cycles really believe the shitty things their partner says or does to them is love.
Maybe🤷🏼♀️ whatever the reason tho, it's stupid.. Of someone really wants to be with you they will be, if another woman can "take" your man he wasn't really yours
I mean if a man fucking both, he don't really deserve either
I agree, but the two bickering with each other clearly think otherwise. In this kind of things, objectivity is hard to fit.
Yeah but they're kids that don't know any better.. Adults should
You would think.
Or maybe they are like two seagulls fighting over a french fry in McDonald's parking lot.
See, and I hate McDonald's french fries🤣 Checkers fries are better LOL
"I just always think that if you have to fight for someones love, then it's just not worth it.That's not how love should work in my opinion."EXACTLY!!💯 true!
No muffins or chicken here🤷🏼♀️
So no muffins and no chicken, a crime might happen miss brains, feed me the goodies before i eat you and chew you like prehistoric predator 👹
Exactly!! I never had competition in 20 years cuz my hubby was into me and my only. I mean if course he noticed attractive women, hell we used to point people out to each other lol..
Ty hope you feel better soon 🌹
Only drunk women 🤔😂😂
Drunk women have good taste as I see it.
🤣🤣🤣 of that's how you see it.. I thought Alcohol impairs your judgement🤣
I think impairing our judgmental side can improve our tastes.
Take Robot Jox -- probably one of the best films ever made besides Citizen Kane. Wouldn't have realized that if I watched it sober.
I guess if you look at it that way lol
Have you seen that movie? I think it's one of the best. It's a "feel-good" kind of one. Puts a smile on your face. I strongly recommend it. But I never would have realized how good it was if I watched it sober. Just like ginger udon. I didn't even like ginger and hated it until I tried it when I was drunk. Then now I love ginger even when I'm sober.
EXACTLY!! 💯 this here!!
I agree it must be a self esteem issue to want a guy that would be involving other women into the mix
Winning a lying lost cheater, good that makes anyone a winner🤣
But that's not really real live tho then is it
Sure, she will regret later especially if he was bad guy
Yeah noone worth that
Yeah, I was shocked initially, but in that age group there really was a shortage of men (this was in 1993, by the way).
If someone really wants you, there would be no fight🤷🏼♀️
You mean if he really wanted one if the girls?
What if he likes having both, and enjoys their rivalry? There is a girl on here who is in one of those and doesn't realize it. Hugh Hefner was famous for playing his girlfriends against each other.
But then that's not real love, is it...And then blame him, not the other females
No, it isn't. But it does explain why they fight over him.Yes, that's the devious part. He gets them both to attack and hate each other, when he is the real cause
EXACTLY!!! so stupid
And said. When they settle for someone who only will see them occasionally or who is willing to play with their heart and their life for his own satisfaction. Who deludes them, and possibly even himself, that he loves them
I take it you know someone who is in this situation as well?
I see a lot of women put up with it, or deal with it
That's so sad. They are worth a lot more
Yeah no sex worth that
I volunteer at some places and I run into that a lot. It’s quite an eye opener.
I think those shows are so stupid...
That’s because of the poor script writing
No because I would never compete like that for a guy, and then too make a show or if it🤷🏼♀️
A lot of women say that but once jealousy sets it then it’s on
*PettyWomen who know their worth don’t have he slightest interest in this. If he doesn’t want her she isn’t going to waste her time.
Yeah nobody worth that
Hahahahaha 😂 that got me... And from there they go to the Maury show..."you _____ the father🤣
Hahaha! Totally forgot about Maury! You're right about that.And it was always two morbidly obese women fighting over an emaciated dude with a mullet.
also in some cases, a trait gan be bad and good at the same time. like a knife can be used to heal someone through surgery or kill them by stabbing. for instance: extremely low agreeableness is a predictor of great success like getting into top management or CEO positions. but at the same time it predicts high schances of ending up in prison.
A guy that can't keep his dick in his pants is noone to fight over in my humble opinion
well that's not a "good quality" trait XD so i agree. i think that one is rather unambiguously bad actually.
Right Dave for a psychological liar, yet women will fight over them kind ofb guys. Why tho? Damn if you going to fight over a guy, fight over a good guy. But then again, a real good guy, there would be no fight.
well you know guys complain aboutt he same :D why do girls go for the bad guy? the answer is often simple. he's hot and exciting which arouses them. hormones aren't good decision makers.
and if we're aroused, we tend to be more forgiving about obvious red-flags.
Same not Dave lol
But sports are worth it! A man who don't live you isn't!
I don't quite understand what you just said sorry
You're confusing men competing in sports to women competing for men... Why compete over a man that don't love you?Especially if it's a man that will cheat or lie? That is so not the same as men competing over basketball or football or etc
I don't think people in the middle of a competition think that far ahead and I also don't think they really want the man. I think what they want is to win.
Besides, it's a chance to trash the guy after they actually win him
Makes no sense
But if he's really "yours" noone could take him from you... You think me or my husband never got hit on by someone else in 20 years, we just weren't interested in anyone but each other... If a woman can take your man, he was never really yours...
You’re exactly right. I don’t agree with the reason for fighting over a guy but I think that’s what ends up being the focus in these fights and most people grow out of it.
No playa wannabe or cheater should be seen as a trophy lolAnd can fight all want, but can't force love, and if someone really loves you, wants to be with you, there would be no others, no competition
You're mature enough... They're not
Agree 💯 with miss brains 😌
😂😂😂 ROFL right lolol
Today on Murray. John "YOU ARE NOT THE FATHER"
Right! Or they don't know what real love is
That some women are stupid🤷🏼♀️🤣 or just low self esteem 🤷🏼♀️
@BrainsbeforebeautyWorse! ****Not you !***** 😇 But , women have always been catty toward one another and are all CRAZY!😇😇😇😇😇
Not all but some are...
I did say “ Not You “😊
LOL I hardly think I'm the only non crazy female... And I'm little crazy, but funny crazy🤪
funny crazy , how? Funny like a clown? You amuse me? You make me laugh? You're here to f***in' amuse me? ( Good Fellas) change for you)😊
Haha I knew the reference, I loved that scene😂
No sex worth that... If you have to fight or compete to be with someone, they don't really want you or respect you
And them guys didn't probably even like them... Like have more self respect.. Sorry you were bullied💛🙏🏻
I’m not even pretty tbh I’m average. The girls who were super mean to me were very pretty. I don't know why they felt “threatened. “ I’m a super shy/ quiet person. I also wasn’t the type to woo a man either. I just never had good experiences with other females. A lot of them will do anything to get a man in a competition.. it’s scary I stay away