It depends on the behavior honestly. If it's something like picking up after yourself then yes absolutely. But if you expect someone to do a complete 180 on their personality then no.
Depends on what those behaviors are. If you lived a life that can be portrayed as infidelity in a relationship, you should definitely try to change your ways
good luck with that , i find it is easier to move a mountain than trying to change people or people , shouldn't just jump into relationships too quickly , until they are pretty sure they can accept the person who they are
Yes. Demand that your partner walk around in baby diapers and drink almond milk from a 10 oz bottle. While walking and talking like Tommy from Rugrats around the house.
You were into them as they were you don't go into a relationship wanting to change. Individuality is great don't be up each other's ass don't try changing who their friends are have a life away from each other
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I think that in order for a relationship to be healthy and last long, you need to find someone that won't change their behaviour in order to make you happy. Such a relationship won't last long. You need to find someone that isn't afraid to be themself. They should always be true to themselves
Depends on what they are. If they pick their nose and eat it, yeah that needs to change. If it's something like staying up too late then it should slide.
Like them for who they are. The initial dating process should weed out those who aren't to your liking. If you force someone to change, they could be unhappy and then resent you.
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I guess C. Your partner should challenge you and make you better. They shouldn’t be interested in fundamentally changing who you are though.
Well of course both of partners need to adjust to each others needs to feel happiest, this does not mean changing physical appearance!
You're right leave that plastic surgery alone
It depends on the behavior honestly. If it's something like picking up after yourself then yes absolutely. But if you expect someone to do a complete 180 on their personality then no.
Depends on what those behaviors are. If you lived a life that can be portrayed as infidelity in a relationship, you should definitely try to change your ways
We all should be in the process of changing, to make ourselves better people. That is different from changing to meet somebody's expectations.
good luck with that , i find it is easier to move a mountain than trying to change people
or people , shouldn't just jump into relationships too quickly , until they are pretty sure they can accept the person who they are
Only if it is being toxic. Otherwise you should not. I mean you're my girlfriend not my mom.
Exactly!
That kind of mindset I find hot.
Why change for the sake of relationship?
both should to adjust to eachother, its all about good comunication, agreement and compromise
It is best to find someone who has your same believes and interested. That's just my opinion.
You change for them, but they also need to change for you, otherwise it won’t work out.
It's important to be a respectable person. If you aren't that way you don't deserve a relationship
That is the whole premise of give and take for a happy everlasting married life.
Yes. Demand that your partner walk around in baby diapers and drink almond milk from a 10 oz bottle. While walking and talking like Tommy from Rugrats around the house.
You were into them as they were you don't go into a relationship wanting to change. Individuality is great don't be up each other's ass don't try changing who their friends are have a life away from each other
I think that in order for a relationship to be healthy and last long, you need to find someone that won't change their behaviour in order to make you happy. Such a relationship won't last long. You need to find someone that isn't afraid to be themself. They should always be true to themselves
Always option D, none of the others will ever work, and people who try to change their partner will just end up getting divorced.
Yes, if it is something obvious like picking up your socks off the floor or not leaving the toilet seat up.
Depends on what they are. If they pick their nose and eat it, yeah that needs to change. If it's something like staying up too late then it should slide.
Like them for who they are. The initial dating process should weed out those who aren't to your liking. If you force someone to change, they could be unhappy and then resent you.
Now this is a pointless argument... why would you date a pastors daughter knowing she’s gonna make you stop doing drugs...
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