Girls what makes a guy creepy and guys what makes a girl creepy?

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ObscuredBeyond · Accepted Answer

I guess it varies. Some gals in my past got all freaked out when I - by accident - met their bosses, and tried to get freelance photography work without realizing the gal was also at that place.

To the point of going to aggressive lengths to foil my bid, as if it were all about her, when I didn't even know she was there!

Or, I say I'm gonna do something, and do it, and the gal is freaked out because I kept my word. She didn't think I'd actually do it.

Some turn into total bitches the second you ask for the time remaining on the oven at the meeting place you're at. "I just wanted to know how soon to remove the rolls, for cad's sakes!!!"

Flakes like that think that while they have everyone else in the area suckered into having their sympathy, that they wield all the power. But what they don't realize: hurt me enough times, and the wounds will take decades to heal! Forgiveness in theory may be possible; but trust will be a LOT harder to earn!

Especially annoying are the gals who decide to pass judgment on me when I and some other gal were sitting somewhere else, minding our own business! It takes some nerve to disrupt that, and then label me the "problem" in the situation!

Anyway, that was college.

As for women that creep me out? Anyone on Instagram who calls me "hun," or anyone on WhattsApp that, after only one conversation, starts acting madly in love with me.

It can take me MONTHS to fall for a gal! A gal who falls for me in only two days? UNSTABLE!

Also, any habitual liar who turns me off through cheating and lying, then asks me months later out of the blue to come back to her - especially if she never even bothers to apologize; and thinks I'm enough of a simp to just crawl back on demand! The nerve!

Also don't take kindly to gals who try to sabotage my family behind my back, while maintaining some illusion of friendship with me in the foreground. They're proverbial foxes in the henhouse.

Long story short, I get called one for existing. A girl earns the label from me, by inflicting harm on me or those I care about, or else otherwise acting completely insane.

Knighted2170 · Accepted Answer

Too needy or becomes too emotionally invested before we even really know each other.

This is just creepy AF when:
- She clings onto you, calls, or texts every waking moment.
- Drops the "L" word on the third date.
- Talks about how good-looking you are before you know their first name.
- Mentions some serious crime they did as if it's supposed to be impressive.
- An hour into the conversation talks about some heavy-duty BDSM they want to do.
- You find her and her boyfriend at your place leaving love notes to you. (they had an open relationship)
- You find a note on your car that says "We need to be together always and have children." But, the only thing you ever said to her was "hey, how's your day going?"
- She sits at the table next to you on lunch break and takes a banana out of her bag. Then leans over and says "Is this for lunch, or personal pleasure?"
- Your working and she stops behind you and talks loudly enough for you to hear her talking to a friend. The conversation is weird and sounds contrived. Then the description of the guy sounds oddly like you. You turn around and she says "Oh, that's him looking at me right now. Do you think he likes me?"
- She asks to hang out and you say you are too busy that day. Then somehow they find out where you live and show up at your front door. "Too busy huh. Doesn't look like your busy to me."
- You're in a big city for a conference as a guest speaker. You're in a packed subway car with no room to move around. Nicely dressed in a suit with some quality cologne on. While holding the handrail the girl in front of you starts sniffing your arm. Then she starts really sniffing. The final straw is when she licks and bites your forearm.
- After talking to a girl at the club and doing some light "make out" sessions she pulls a knife and cuts herself and asks if you want to drink her blood.

Just a few creepy things to remember not to do.

aintnocandle · Accepted Answer

I think what most women find creepy is so ridiculous and unfair. I once worked as a barista when I was 22. I was working alone when a guy aged 45-50 came in looking kinda depressed and maybe he had a drink or two. But he was really wanting a conversation and he was really upset about something. I ended up talking with him for over 2 hours. He was having marriage issues. Sometimes people just need a stranger to talk to. Sometimes it’s just nice to feel like you matter and can talk to others. Anyways, after our conversation he gave me a card from our store thanking me. When I told my female coworkers the next day the first thing they asked me was “ooohhh was he cute/hot?” And when I said not to me, and he was 45-50 they had this horrified look on their faces and said omg gross that’s scary/creepy, etc!!! We have to check the cameras and make sure he can never come in here again!!! You need to carry a knife to your car!!!
... I mean... what is happening with this generation? Was it always like this? I’m sick of flaky people who only base someone based off their looks. The dude was totally harmless.

Siren777 · Accepted Answer

That person you told many times that you're not interested. So you go from being polite to having to be a total bitch so they get the point and they continue irrespective of the lengths you try to avoid them.

AmandaYVR · Answer

1. Observing from afar without ever interacting. 2. Interacting with a girl when the girl clearly does not want it.

MCheetah · Answer

"Creepy" is usually defined as someone who could POTENTIALLY be a threat, but it is unknown how much of a threat they could be. If they are a known threat, they get upgraded from "creepy" to "scary/dangerous."

For me, very few women could be creepy. Almost nothing creeps me out. For most women, generally, any unattractive guy who gives them positive attention is considered "creepy" (a threat to their safety). Cause only Chads are allowed to make eye contact to, and talk to, women, dontcha know?

123lucy · Answer

It's hard to describe in words, but something can just feel off about someone. Besides the looking through a fence bit, I don't really find that man in the picture creepy. But I can't really tell if someone is "creepy" to me from just a photo with no context.

Dragonpurple · Answer

Wish I knew, I've been known to be going about my business and people will say I'm creepy. I'm like uh, I didn't say or do anything to you. In fact I pretty much ignore most people... but somehow I look creepy.

I often chalk it up to personal preference, someone once told me... if you look like someone's preconception on things. Say someone had a gang banger that threatened or hurt them once, or even Hollywood's perception of things like motorcycle gang members... bad truckers, etc...

Others will make opinions including creepy just based solely on how you look.

HugoThe2nd · Answer

A woman is creepy when she acts like I'm into her when I gave her no reasons to think that.
If they start bothering women you have been hitting on and telling them to back off and making up shit about you being "theirs", and you barely know who tf they are, we are in the "whoah, whoah" territory.

Anonymous · Answer

People R such pussies try working in LEO or newspaper reporter/ investigator and your mark has NOW marked U and U can't GO home for a while, dead serious, I had to hide with my friend in the PJ'S. That he got arrested and I had to find another out you know you just never know when the shit going to come to you and if it does you better have an out by being triggered yourself you might actually set off a trigger in other words, "you're calling me a creep okay now I'll give you a creep" and the drama starts.

Sonorous · Answer

For me, it's all about how they communicate and whether or not they come across as normal or abnormal (not to my benefit). For instance, if a girl is acting as if she may want to harm me, then I'd find it creepy. And if she's unsettling to look at or be around, then I'd REALLY find it creepy.

Biancam13 · Answer

- won’t leave me alone if I say I’m not interested
- touchy feely when I don’t want to be touched
- way too over eager
- pretty much ties back to the first point, but can’t handle rejection and reacts in an inappropriate way like stalking you

Mofunfour20 · Answer

A creepy guy is unattractive so his advances on women are not desired by women, thus causing them to cringe or vomit a little bit. A creepy girl is a woman that thinks she is more attractive than she really is and has to do all the approaching because she is never approached. It doesn't help that most women believe theyre a 10/10

Smashingdoozy · Answer

When you think you're having a casual chill conversation with someone then they say "I'm gonna go jerk off then go to bed" or people who constantly message you asking if I would be ok if they jerk off to my picture. You're not only a creep you're fucking nasty.

Other things like staring, cat calling, following, persistence after you've told them no. All creeps.

courtney06 · Answer

I think if my cat were human he’d be considered creepy. Sometimes stares at me for long periods and if I say something he sits down and continues to stare. Sometimes he doesn’t blink for several seconds or he blinks one eye at a time. Imagine a person doing the same thing 🤣

RingOfFire · Answer

I would say that women who can't take a hint that you're not interested can be creepy.

InfobotLives · Answer

Creepy is defined by being unsettling and often incorporates invasion of privacy and of personal space. It is attention that is unwanted and not sanctioned in any way. Anyone can be creepy if they cross boundaries.

SandandWaves · Answer

when I feel bad vibes right away and sometimes i am not even near him.

JackofSpades · Answer

I don't know why but I've always felt like the word creepy kind of implied like you feel this person is dangerous but you can't exactly explain why.

So I guess being overly possessive or stalker like behavior could considered creepy, but I just don't see women as a physical threat unless she's holding a chefs knife or something.

Lisa_grl · Answer

Guys can be creepy if the girl sends a nice but definite message that it's going to be a friends-only relationship and he still keeps hanging around and even says stuff about oral just cause u did it one time on him.

kidvid80 · Answer

if the person stares blankly at you in the face/eyes but never smiles or waves or says anything this goes for both genders.

NorthShoreCalling · Answer

I think either sex becomes creepy when they don’t get the message that the other person isn’t interested.

BUNroaster · Answer

A big part of dating culture has evolved emensely and the focus can be more well balanced but the lack of communications and true understanding cause relationships to almost inevitably fail. I don't consider anyone creepy but misunderstood. And if I can help I would.

Anonymous · Answer

Creepy is not really a term most guys use. But creepy is a widely overused term among girls and is typically used when a guys approaches a girl and she does not find him attractive. Another, more attractive guy who approached the same girl in the same way would be the opposite of "creepy".

Wintergrace · Answer

It’s all about eye contact. Don’t stare, don’t say sexual things unless you’re dating, don’t linger with your touch for too long, don’t stalk people and don’t assault others. It’s really that simple for me.

leesookna · Answer

When he keep texting me while clearly I show him that I don't like him, that's creepy. If I say I don't like you or ignore your text it means I don't like you so fuck off, don't try to text me again and don't try approach me please...

angelcolor · Answer

invasion of privacy, pushing for sex/a relationship after i say i don't want it, and repeated harassment. that's really creepy.

Twinrova · Answer

A guy is sweet if he is a 7/10 or above. A guy is creepy if he is below a 7/10. A girl cannot be creepy unless you are sexist. Thank you in advance for MHO.

exitseven · Answer

When you clearly want her to get lost but she keeps on calling you and sending you email and buying you presents.

Anonymous · Answer

Unfortunately I still get turned on, but a woman I used to know would randomly touch me. I get that can show interest, but when attempting to talk with her she did not engage in conversation, but rather just touched. I enjoy a woman's touch, but if you won't speak with me that makes me extremely uncomfortable.

Hannah_le · Answer

I guess when they start stalking or they have some sort of sexual interest in you and do weird things n they think their slick but their not 😂

PaynefulPleasures · Answer

Their demeanor, work ethics, conversation of their pass relationships (marriage), have they been in trouble, when I say no are they receptive to that, are they a stalker, controller etc ✌️

Anonymous · Answer

I think everything about a guy is creepy pervert to most girls. Even good morning means he wants me.. So women are terrifyingly creepy to most guys.. Girls today are evil and can tweet fb anything and will be believed. Will take. photos of guys then lie and slander on facebook for sport.. Metoo sjw movement has guys commiting suicide.. Its all over the internet. With no consequence. Women are creepy..

Slim57 · Answer

A creepy man is any man a woman finds unnattractive

Shihab91 · Answer

I know some might not like what I'm gonna say,
Many girls answered this question here before most of them were annymous and said: if he is not good looking he is creepy.
I used to have screenshots for that. But I deleted them

Jam321 · Answer

The thing that they are creepy anyways, when she always stalks in our phone and always thinking that we are cheating whenever a text pop up, pushing up for sex, always saying us to pay for stuff.

GirlyGal20 · Answer

when he leans it to try and kiss you during the convo and you are clearly leaning away/not interested

Leavesbound · Answer

Well I thought it was kind of creepy when a girl I dated handed me a razor and asked me to paint a portrait of her cat on her chest in her own blood.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Women who want men just for money or as a sperm bank I find creepy

Chthou95 · Answer

Besides creepy behaviour, a guy can be seen as creepy for just being physically unattractive. Of course a lot of women aren't going to admit that but it does happen

byzafer · Answer

If women view a guy as unattractive than he is creepy to them unfortunately

yourbabygirl921 · Answer

Don't do joe like that 😭 he's too fine Anyways stalking and checking your personal life

Anonymous · Answer

Women who are sadistic and love to bully others are creepy. They can be very two faced and play victim and do a lot of damage.

Stevepro68 · Answer

Posting anonymous question s can be kind of creepy.

AdithyaR · Answer

When she's overly obsessed, stalks you, assumes you're into her when you're not and have told her you're not.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

For girls; when they say or deny things that are obviously opaque/vague/unclear. It always feels like she's hiding something.

rc321 · Answer

First and subconsciously would be looks. Then secondary would be social norms.

Browneye57 · Answer

Some young dim bulb saying the word 'creepy'. PFFT.

007kingifrit · Answer

girls can't be creepy. even a female stalker is like "dawww you're so cute" , i was thinking this today while watching 2 and a half men

zagor · Answer

When you just met her and she is using photoshop to merge your pictures to see what your kids would look like.

Dchrls78104 · Answer

To me, it's simple. A beautiful and modest Christian girl would be nice for me. Feminists and women like Jodi Arias would be creepy for me.

Better_off_here · Answer

i think what makes them both creepy is the way they stare while talking. if you make anyone feel uncomfortable in any way that is creepy period. it does not matter if they are a female or a male.

Anonymous · Answer

If I think they seem creepy in any way, I'll label them as creepy because better safe than sorry.

es20490446e · Answer

What makes the other gender comfortable around you is treating them like just another human being.

sixtyeightplusone · Answer

A guy is creepy if he says hello but is not attractive or rich. Sue him for harassment

Still-alive · Answer

knowing things about a person before you've ever told them yourself personally tends to creep people out

JamieLoves · Answer

Lots of face piercings. Dressing like a vampire  Short hair Men’s shoes Birkenstock’s

RCLJT · Answer

When she tells me 6 hours after she first met me that she loves me…that is fucking creepy, needy, desperate

Captaincrunch2215 · Answer

I find it creepy when a girl knows your taken but still throws herself at you.

Anonymous · Answer

A woman once brought me into her house and she is dam hot. She hinted at me that she wanted me in the bedroom but not in a nice way. She sexually harassed me so I said no. Pity she is dam good looking but behaviour like that is unacceptable.

shawnmathai · Answer

girls think i am creepy because i wear a speedo and because i have a hard on. they feel why does he wear a speedo when he is small

Anonymous · Answer

Girls are NOT creepy. The word was invented to describe guys who constantly pursue girls who are not interested in any way, shape or form lolllll

Ryfyle · Answer

Nothing, I can not be unnerved or intimidated. Nothing is terribly creepy to me.

Nazgol · Answer

If he's a stalker, if he's aggressive, if he's violent

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