Dating If your partner smokes, drinks or does tobacco should you try to stop them? (Page 3) ragequeen Follow Influencer Guru Age: 23 Follow FacebookTwitterWhatsApp 11 If your partner smokes, drinks or does tobacco should you try to stop them? Post Opinion Like Share Follow 2 likes
Luckycharms12 Follow Guru Age: 30 +1 y 2.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. Person has to want to stop smoking themselves. And nothing wrong with having a drink unless doing it everyday 0 0 Reply
Clarke498 Follow Guru Age: 25 +1 y 1.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. Well, i drink, so no. But the other two, i think I'd notice before dating them anyway, and that would stop us from ending up together. 0 0 Reply
Pterodon Follow Guru Age: 62 +1 y 747 opinions shared on Dating topic. Better question is why are you trying to change them when you knew they did these things before you got together? 0 0 Reply
OddBeMe Follow Master Age: 40 +1 y 4K opinions shared on Dating topic. If it bothers you. You’re allowed to say “this changes or I’m gone,” 1 0 Reply
AydenHazor Follow Yoda Age: 34 +1 y 460 opinions shared on Dating topic. If they're smoking, they won't be my partner as that is a non-negotiable for me 0 0 Reply
7771999 Follow Yoda Age: 24 +1 y 571 opinions shared on Dating topic. Tobacco related shit needs to be stoppedBut drinking can be done in moderation 1 0 Reply
Slim57 Follow Master Age: 30 +1 y 4.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. On your can only show your concern for their health but can't make them do anything 1 1 Reply Slim57 +1 y *No you can Reply
curator Follow Xper 4 Age: 23 +1 y Basically it's their life I can convince them to avoid as much as possible but if they want it who am I to stop? 0 0 Reply
berwise13 Follow Yoda Age: 59 +1 y I can see encoyraging them if they decide to quit. If i want to quit i will if people harass me it will just piss me off. 0 0 Reply
kingykringy Follow Xper 5 Age: 26 +1 y If you have a problem with that, figure it out before starting a relationship and skip 0 0 Reply
Anonymous (36-45) +1 y if they smoke you should constantly nag them b/c it will kill them eventually. 0 0 Reply
RedTR Follow Xper 2 Age: 25 +1 y You should encourage them to stop, but you can't make them do anything 0 0 Reply
imaguy6969 Follow Xper 1 Age: 123 +1 y Yes, not good for health. I'd want her to be healthy 0 0 Reply
abhi75757 Follow Xper 6 Age: 29 +1 y I ll try to stop him if he doesn't then i ll nit force him 0 0 Reply
Red_Arrow Follow Master Age: 76 , mho 44% +1 y 903 opinions shared on Dating topic. Yes, if you want to stay with them. 1 0 Reply
Yellovv Follow Guru Age: 31 +1 y 375 opinions shared on Dating topic. İf too much yes I can tell her.. 2 0 Reply
Miristheiss Follow Master Age: 33 +1 y 2.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. I just wouldn't date them. 0 0 Reply
TheSpaceGnome Follow Guru Age: 37 +1 y 2.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. I wouldn't date a smoker in the first place 0 0 Reply
Redstang88 Follow Master Age: 27 +1 y 1.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. I do too so it would be pretty hypocritical 0 0 Reply
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Person has to want to stop smoking themselves. And nothing wrong with having a drink unless doing it everyday
Well, i drink, so no. But the other two, i think I'd notice before dating them anyway, and that would stop us from ending up together.
Better question is why are you trying to change them when you knew they did these things before you got together?
If it bothers you. You’re allowed to say “this changes or I’m gone,”
If they're smoking, they won't be my partner as that is a non-negotiable for me
Tobacco related shit needs to be stopped
But drinking can be done in moderation
On your can only show your concern for their health but can't make them do anything
*No you can
You shouldn't be with a partner that you want to change.
Basically it's their life I can convince them to avoid as much as possible but if they want it who am I to stop?
I can see encoyraging them if they decide to quit. If i want to quit i will if people harass me it will just piss me off.
If you have a problem with that, figure it out before starting a relationship and skip
if they smoke you should constantly nag them b/c it will kill them eventually.
You should encourage them to stop, but you can't make them do anything
Yes, not good for health. I'd want her to be healthy
I ll try to stop him if he doesn't then i ll nit force him
Yes, if you want to stay with them.
İf too much yes I can tell her..
I just wouldn't date them.
I wouldn't date a smoker in the first place
I do too so it would be pretty hypocritical