No I don't think you are wrong for feeling that way. I think that anybody would feel the same way in your shoes.
If you are hoping to salvage the relationship, then you have to talk to her honestly about how you're feeling.
I get where you're coming from. You don't want to be "that kind of boyfriend". You want to not be controlling; or jealous; or get in between her and a friend.
In 99.9% of cases, it's a good thing to follow those instincts to... and that instinct is a good one. It is wise to follow that instinct in most situations.
In your situation, however... she is the one who is in the wrong. Her behaviour is inapropriate for someone with a boyfriend. It would be absolutely fair to confront her about it (ideally nicely).
If on the other hand you are already pretty sure you've distanced yourself enough that... you're going to end up dumping her. My advice is don't put it off. Do it asap. I know you won't follow that advice... but you should.
Most Helpful Opinions
If the photo is on her nightstand it would be weird but unless you find that she is doing more than friend stuff with these guys then I would let it alone.
I do that because I love my guy best friend much and he's like a brother to me and I wouldn't exchange him just for a boyfriend who gets jealous, my ex do that thing trynna compare himself to my gbf and ofc he knows I'll pick my gbf but still I am with him becuz I'm romantically attractive to him not not my best friend
Have you thought about introducing him to another man who can replace your girlfriend as his best friend?
What Girls & Guys Said
Opinion
12Opinion
Absolutely you should dump her.
You be doing her a favor.
Your insecurity and jealousy will on get worse the longer the 2 of you are together.If it is a picture of her best friend, there is nothing abnormal about that. It is always the close friends that exchange pictures first before anyone else. There is no reason to be uncomfortable about it.
Well guy best friends and boyfriends are totally different! I love my best friends and I trust them completely. But although I think they're attractive I don't want a romantic relationship with them. It's probably the same for your girlfriend, it's like holding on to your favorite picture of your brother.
Coming off too insecure and too controlling. If you end things you'll just be proving to her that you weren't worth her time. Honestly, you should end things. She needs to find a guy without a fragile ego
Kinda a red flag to feel uncomfortable about that.
I have 2 of my best friends graduation photos still. They have mine as well.
Break up with her and do her a favor.Yeah you should dump her, then she can find a guy who isn't so threatened by a photo
No man nothing wrong with that. I have a pic of me and the male bestie laying on the bed. Him naked ( He is a nudist or likes being nude infront of me) and I was in underwear.
Hmmmm. It's not weird to hold on to that photo. It's also not weird to feel uncomfortable about it.
I think this is a common thing in relationshipsYes, it's normal to have some jealousy, when a girlfriend hangs on to a photo of a previous lie.
If you can't dick her down well enough that this guy is a threat, you've lost.
No.. We feel what we feel. Just nay e you’re sensing that he or she has more in their minds
Ehh, some people have affinities for such crap. Like yearbooks.
yeah that is odd. If she seems to like them more than a friend its definitely a dump situation.
i would take it from her and spit on it and then flush it down the loo
Does it have grool stains on it?
yeah
Learn more
We're glad to see you liked this post.
You can also add your opinion below!