Do you have a goal with your dating life?
Do you have a conscious goal for your dating life?
Do you have a goal with your dating life?
I’m pleasantly surprised, to see a lot of young people have marriage in mind. Not saying marriage is for everyone but it’s refreshing to see people still have wisdom.
Marriage is a mistake. It’s one sided and only benefits women. With such high divorce rates and being invited by women most of the time. Also considering a woman can accuse you at anytime and these days you probably won’t even get a solid day in court and even if you do it could still easily cost you your job, money, freedom, future, friends and family... it don’t matter how trust worthy a woman may be. A man that trusts a woman today’s a fool.
I want to marry him and spend everyday of my life with him and hopefully in the future when I’m 25-30 we could start a family of our own
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Nah, I retired my dating cap 😂
Far too early, I believe!
I had my 20, some people aren't as fortunate to even get that
How do you "Plan" for a "dating life"? You you a control freak, and forcing women to like, and date you?
WTF?
Women are independent, equals, as far as I am concerned, and if I like her, doesn't matter, AT ALL, if she isn't liking me!
You can't "PLAN" for someone to like you, and want to date you! How can it not be anything BUT just casual meetings, maybe sharing likes, dating, and seeing if you like each other?
I have no plan, and no expectations, and how can I? That assumes that the man has some "control" over a woman, and can force, or manipulate him, to his 'plan'! WTF?
Not into that crap, AT ALL!!
I want her to be TOTALLY HER, and if she likes me, and we get along, so much the better, and maybe we date!!
Your question seems to imply some control, and force, and maybe that she isn't a free, independent woman, free to choose for herself, and her likes, needs and feelings.
I hope that you did not intend that, and your question was just poorly worded. . .
I'm sorry you didn't understand the question. Other users did understand so I don't think it's poorly worded the question asks if you have a specific goal that you want to accomplish. Do you want to find a wife? Long term partner without marriage? Happy just finding partners for casual sex?
If course you can't control whatever woman you are dating at the present and force her to submit to your plan, but that doesn't mean that you can't have a goal. If you want marriage and she doesn't, you simply recognize that your interests are not compatible and you move on to the next lady.
Whatever is bothering you, I hope all is well.
Dating for me only has one goal: Finding a husband to get married and have kids and make our family.
Seriously, I never dated and would never date just for the sake of dating. I think 3 to 5 dates are enough for me to decide to get married to someone.
Since you have never dated, you cannot understand how 3-5 dates is woefully inadequate to assess a partner as a candidate for marriage.
If I've messaged with him a lot and called a lot i think it's enough
My parents had less than 5 dates before getting married and they still are almost 30 years later.
Your parents may not be truly happy together but remain married due to social pressures, or maybe they are happy and have been incredibly lucky.
Messaging someone is not n adequate substitute for spending time together. You sound very confident of your opinions on this matter, but being confident doesn't mean you are right. Post a poll and see what others think about marrying after 5 dates.
My parents are very happy and they love each other a lot. Most my aunts/uncles as well as my grandparents married this way and they're still married and happy.
This is normal in my culture. Dating a long time before marriage don't automatically secure success either.
I think that if the man checks all my expectations (looks good, same values, decent job, same life goals, nice to talk to) there is no need to drag it forever before getting married.
Most people in western cultures would think that is an absolutely crazy idea, but if it works for you. . .
Long term relationship but not marriage - I'm not religious, so I don't view marriage as mandatory for myself.
I've never been on any kind of date, but I'd only really make an effort to pursue someone if I felt like they were worth dating and I could see a potential long term future with them.
Maybe it's me in general, but I try to look at the bigger picture and long term things when I make an effort with something and in this case, I think it'd be very reasonable, despite the potential danger of moving too fast.
I never thought about that consciously before, but if there is some end "goal" I would say I'm more physical attraction oriented and want to find somebody, female friend, partner, whatever that is physically as attractive to me as possible. For me, that doesn't necessarily translate into the "lots of sex" part, I think there is a difference. I understand people are going to call me shallow and honestly I know it is. But I also know that we live in an imperfect world and shortages exist in the dating markets.
I'm looking for anything, but getting nothing. Hopelessly single... And don't say "you haven't found the right one", I already did, but it didn't work out 😂💔
How could she have been "the right one" if it didn't work out?
Dating Life 😳
Exactly 😂
LoL 😅 sounds familiar 😊
Lmao 🤣
I want to get married... just waiting on a decent man to come into my life smh.
When I was dating it was mostly to have somebody to share life with. No marriage but to have someone who wanted to have adventures with me and would be supportive to me when things were not good.
Yea I'm building a harem of goth girls so that I can dress them in matching outfits.
It's nice to have dreams!
Ultimately I am looking longterm with the right person, but enjoy companionship while on the market.
Although I value companionship, The proven projection of the long-term is normally based on our actions, our commitment, and our own values and how they compare and differ. That's enough for me
A woman to have a long term relationship with a start a family with.
Options A, C, and E. Mostly C though, regarding an actual partner.
I’m not dating at this time but if I was I would want to take it slowly and see what happens while we’re dating. I mostly would aim for a serious relationship.
Being content with being alone...
Pretty much already achieved.
Marriage.. It was always marriage. I met my goal though
Making a stable supporting family so that when i am 80 hopefully i am not alone craving companionship
at my age.. end goal... marriage. I know there is no such thing as forever, but if I can find it, and if she can provide it. I will take it
On the causal sex picture, the guy has man boobs. lol
For some reason, I had not noticed him in the picture! :) :) :)
At first, i thought it was a woman😂 i was like this question is going to get banned for sure.
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