Why would a man want to love and marry a girl so fast?

Question

In the case that I girl has been going out with the guy only 3months why would he propose and chose her to marry in the coming months

Siren777 · Accepted Answer

There could be many reasons. He may have found his match. His parents want him to be married at a certain age. Some people are this way and compatible. Some look at what others have and want marriage for the wrong reasons. My sister met her husband and married him 6 month later, he wanted to marry her by 3 months of knowing her but she had to wait another 3 months. They're a good match and it worked. "When you know, you know." This happened to a cousin and friend too. It worked for them but I can't say it will work for everyone. As circumstances, intentions etc will be different.

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

There are different possibilities, one being he wants sex and he or you or both believe sex should not happen until after marriage and another reason could be he has flaws he does not want you to discover until you are married and feel too obligated to not divorce him.

sixxx · Accepted Answer

Either he is pressured by his family or environments to get married or he just doesn't want you to be taken by another guy.

if you are sure with him then no problem. But remember make ur decision when you are in normal state. Think deeply and logically if he is really the right guy for you or no.

Don't make decisions just based on ur emotions and feelings, you might regret it as you don't think carefully.

Blindguyplaying · Accepted Answer

You're blinded by love, too blinded I would say. Now I understand that it's very possible for it to work out and I know of plenty of people who do (three months is the fastest I know of personally and is successful), however I would recommend taking a step back, take some alone time maybe post-nut clarity even, and then decide

HOAAH · Answer

Maybe he thinks he is in love. My husband also proposed after 3 months. Although it doesn't really count because people will argue that we met at age 10 and got married at 24 so... It does count if you say how long did we date before he proposed. It was 3 months. Then we were married 3 months later. We are still married so it worked for us.

clampfan101 · Answer

Those men are getting ahead of themselves. They think they’re already 100% sure she’s the one, but they need to spend time together first. Enough time to have a strong enough idea of what exactly living with each other would be like “for better or worse”.

crazy8000 · Answer

Couldn't be many reasons.
From extremely good all the way down to bad nightmare.

Some people doesn't want to waste time and thing's like that and love has no time frame. It's relative.

If it feels to fast or don't want to marry in the first place just be honest and say that.
If he has problems with that it has high percentage of wrong kind of reasons behind why...

abc3643 · Answer

In October 1990, I was with a girl not quite 2 months and I knew that I wanted to marry her, I was that much in love. She broke my heart 29+ years ago (more than half my life ago!) and it still hurts every day.

Mofunfour20 · Answer

Because his happiness is dependent on obtaining her as a wife. A man or womans happiness and sense of peace should be established before entering a relationship. I look for women that can add to my happiness not make me happy or appeased

Leavesbound · Answer

Some guys know what they want right away. Sometimes its that the girl is really special and he wants to hold on to her.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Immature and impulsive.

ohshee · Answer

He's the jealous type and did you wait any longer and get to know him you won't want to do it I think this one here you better wait on

ManWithThePlan123 · Answer

Some people just want to skip steps and get to the good parts.

RingOfFire · Answer

Don't do it. It's too soon. It takes at least a year to get to know someone. It's just the recklessness of youth and inexperience that makes him do it.

MDollarBill · Answer

Every guy carries around an image of his "dream girl" (it will change a few times in his life as he matures) Buy he knows her when he sees her. Maybe you're just it for him and he wants to lock you in.

slatyb · Answer

He’s desperate and has problems she doesn’t know about yet.

Reah1 · Answer

Be careful with that one, use a condom and don't get pregnant

bellybuttonlint · Answer

Because the guy has no other options. If a man has options then he would wait for a long time.

exitseven · Answer

Maybe he is sick of dating and all the crap that goes with it.

Wiredone · Answer

Is he a foreigner and he needs a green card to stay in the country. That's the only reason I could think of.

Hikki101 · Answer

His choice. Who said that you should wait for years before marriage?

KrakenAttackin · Answer

He is a fool. He thinks he can "lock her down", but at his age he has absolutely no idea of the fire he playing with.

TodsShadow · Answer

Men don’t need 3-4 years to know they love you. It could be 3 months. He probably sees all the qualities he wants in a wife

friendzoned4life · Answer

Cause at 3 months is mostly the moment you Girls start bitching and leave so maybe proposing will prevent that

Romeocuck · Answer

I want to believe that when man do that it is because he doesn't want to waste another second. And wants to start a shared life with that girl.  At least it would be in my case

Anonymous · Answer

Very common and normal in my culture. I think he is a good guy since western guys usually tend to make women wait like 10000 years to marry lol

Cowboy6666 · Answer

love is blind also he doesn't want anyone to marry you

blondfrog · Answer

I would if I didn't live in a country where divorce is such a huge consequence for men.

Marco86 · Answer

He is an inexperienced simp. He will wake up and learn his lesson in the divorce court few years later.

Pogi-Paddy-2 · Answer

Don't know nor do I have any experience with this. I am 53 and I have never been married yet.

2021biguy · Answer

Maybe he's in love, but it's a mistake to get married so fast, it will lead to a divorce later on.

Zygum · Answer

To live peaceful and sexful life to meet his desires

Fun951guy · Answer

Because if it feels right it feels right. why not life is short. why not life is short.

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe he she smells really good! For that would be the only reason for a fast marriage..

serious · Answer

That's too fast. Immature also.

Avicenna · Answer

Maybe he needs a visa

MannMitAntworten · Answer

Just how some guys and gals are...

Marhaban-1 · Answer

Maybe he feels truly in love

Shihab91 · Answer

Why would a woman complain? Lol

Shy_Steve · Answer

Because we are scared of losing you.

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

This doesn’t look good

jimmy2 · Answer

Hummm well i marry after 2 ereks lasted 46 years

KloexJayne · Answer

Love. Simple

Iron_Man · Answer

Big red flag

Wise4myage · Answer

Desperate?

RickVienna · Answer

She is perfect in BJ

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

Thats way to fast

Anonymous · Answer

Is it a rebound?

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