Did you ever get with your high school crush?

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abc3643 · Accepted Answer

My high school crush? No. She's a zillionaire and I literally grew up on the wrong side of the tracks.

However! I did get together with my elementary school crush.
I will never forget the first time that I saw her on the first day of 3rd Grade in September 1971...
She moved far away in December 1975...

However, we were 23 and I went to her home for Thanksgiving 1986. (She was estranged from her folks at that time.) She is STILL a beautiful blonde at 58. After the other guest left, I stayed for another day or two and we got to make out. Sadly, she said "I want what I can't have". She could have had me... Indeed, I was going to cheat, so I just dumped my previous girlfriend of 26 months because I thought this crush and I could become a couple. But, that didn't happen. We could have become a couple two other times, but the timing was wrong... The first time was in mid-1993 when she was at Disneyland for business and I was living in LA. We were 30. She was divorced, but when I visited her, I could see in her eyes how she was getting disappointed as I was relaying my devastating heartbreak from a different beautiful blonde who I also would see in 1993. Ironically, I never saw either of them after that year. Later, circa 2000, she called my parents home hoping to talk to me. My folks told me about it, but I couldn't do anything - I was living with my wife before we got married. Anyway, the blonde needed someone to talk to - her mom has just died, I later learned. I felt bad - I wasn't there for her. Had I not been with my wife... who knows. She was my greatest crush and, in some ways, I still crush on her.

But she's a zillionaire too now. She was very driven and successful in business. The money that they gave her to leave her firm was more than 3 years of my salary! She's not as rich as that other high school crush. Her tax penalty for not paying enough taxes one year is more than 6 years of my salary.

I sure knew how to pick them. I just didn't know how to win them.

quipjohn · Accepted Answer

Yep... She f**Ked again, moved to another state with someone she had known for two weeks. That's how long she had the job, course she was strippin. I took her there to apply, at her request, apparently she had been busy after high school

Cynicaldreamer · Accepted Answer

No. He friendzoned me and tried to date a mutual friend of ours instead 🤦
If that's not the story of my life...

After that, I just kind of distanced myself from him so I could get over him and move on with my life.

In retrospect, I really am glad it didn't workout between us: he didn't have his life together, he had no direction, and wound up dropping out of college because he had no motivation to attend classes or study.
No idea whatever happened to him, or if he ever got his life together. I hope he did, but... yeah. Sometimes things don't work out for a reason.

spuitkaas · Accepted Answer

Yes I actually did. He asked me to dance at a highschool dance and we dated 3 months or so (I was 14). We're actually friends now.

Anonymous · Answer

The last one I messed up myself by self sabotaging due to PTSD. I believe I wasn't worthy and was disgusting even if she showed interest. Instead of telling her I liked her I asked her if she would be my enemy and other stupid stuff and also told her about the fact that I was bullied in the past and some stupid stuff like that I didn't have emotions and then bloked her. O was so afraid of getting close to her and getting rejected after that that I did those things to push her away. The tough thing is I remember I accidentally crossed paths with her and her friends weeks after I did it and I remember her saying something along the lines of "do you know about him, it's really sad". I walked away and when I was in the car they happened to pass again next to me I waved them goodbye but they were distracted. That was the last time I saw her. After that O felt so dirty that I deleted all my social media out of fear of doing something similar again one day with a woman. And also out of shame and wanting to hide.

libsaretards · Answer

I did not. She was the class valedictorian. She was both the hottest and smartest girl in my school. She was a very sweet girl and very confident. However, I was one of the guys who could not stay out of trouble and constantly made enemies. I was not very popular in school and I was aware of it. I thought about asking her out but did not want to ruin her reputation among my peers. After graduation she admitted she had a crush on me and wanted to know if I wanted to go out with her, but I had just been broken up with by my first love and was about to join the Navy. She is still a good friend of mine to this day. If she was not married I would probably go out with her now.

jamesgoldman · Answer

In the 5 years and 2/3 schools
I hated the first one for the 18 or so months I attended there
The next 18 months were at the as yet unmixed academy for 6 months and unmixed classes at the mixed academy for the following year but I interacted with no one
The following 2 years were mixed and though business dealings I started to gain some popularity and caught a few crushes

One for a girl on the bus, one for a classmate and one for a teacher
I dated the first one for almost a year before she moved to Poland, didn't date the second one due to dating the first and leaving school for college in the timeframe and nothing happened with the teacher obviously
Real case of the good, the bad and the ugly there

rievious · Answer

Yes. Turned out she cheated on me in college. I really thought we were gonna be the couple who stayed together but she makes poor decisions while drunk and can never get a good judge on a guys personality.

weysally · Answer

not sexually, we did the usual grouping and me hold his thing, and his fingers close to mine nearly though but some senior were heading in our direction

exitseven · Answer

Well, yes and no. We had a couple of makeout sessions and I went away to college fo a while. When I got back I wanted to try again with her. We made a dat to go out and she stood me up. That was the last time I saw her.

CrypticViper · Answer

Nope. I'm with my childhood crush now 🤭. My grandma keeps telling me that it shouldn't have taken this long to find out we were meant to be together. She also wants me to marry my girlfriend before she does (my grandma).

NathanDavis · Answer

Nope, I didn't have any crush in high-school

I had my girlfriend in high-school... but I would not call her a "crush" because it wasn't just an infatuation or someone unattainable, we were really into each other.

Twalli · Answer

My aunt married her's. A friend on college married his. A colleague in college lived in the dorms with his. I'm not sure how they allowed a guy and a girl to be roommates especially when it was obvious that they were dating.

myname604 · Answer

At best nobody should answer such questions. It is much better that a fling should be forgotten than to become a weapon of mass destruction of hearts in the future.

baretone · Answer

yes waited 3 years, hooked up with her at highschool grad party, too me she was hottest girl in school, I confessed my crushly sins to her and she mauled me.
Gave me dose of crabs... sucked to find out she was skank

CaptainRonnie · Answer

No. She got married like immediately after high school. It's like she wanted to crush that possibility as soon as she could

Libbers · Answer

Yes I did. I haven’t had a lot of relationships but it was a bad one. I wish we hadn’t gotten together. It ruined a pretty decent friendship

FictionalCharacter · Answer

Just for a day or a week. Cause they never found me attractive. They only went out with me out of pity.

Archerer · Answer

Yes I did, she was the star ballerina, smart and beautiful, we dated for 3 years

Shiver · Answer

Nah, I never had a crush in highschool. I was however multiple people's crush. I dated one and hooked up with a few others, if that counts.

ayomanwya · Answer

Never really had a crush in high school but when I was a senior I did want to talk to this girl. We would walk with each other and talk but it never got serious.

ghostqueen · Answer

Being that all my high school crushes were band members in their mid 20s, no.

kannettava · Answer

My high school crush probably didn't even know I existed.

snowboarder720 · Answer

Nope. No surprise though she was VERY popular and out of my league.

Anon621 · Answer

Nope I was too shy and someone else took her but I'm glad since I was being fake around her.

Joshua0213 · Answer

Yeah but didn't really work out, only lasted like 5 months.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

No one at my highschool was attractive to me, so no.

Anonymous · Answer

Nope, and she cannot be replaced either. Like the song goes, life goes on long after the thrill of living is gone.

TheBigGuy9 · Answer

I never had a crush on anyone in high school. Girls I went to high school with are nuts. The 2 hottest women killed themselves.

scott04sa22 · Answer

Nope, she wanted a 300 pound sweetheart and she got her wish then she popped 3 kids with him then she married him.

Massageman · Answer

We dated for several months but eventually drifted apart.

zyzzbrah123 · Answer

Yes but it didn't last long, but looking back at it that is probably a good thing that it didn't.

canucker90 · Answer

I struck out every time 😡 it’s not easy being a guy, a girls emotions changes everyday.

BlackFire1 · Answer

No. Went to two different high schools and had crushes at each. Never hooked up with any of them an nowadays I think its for the best.

Anonymous · Answer

Only saw her at events. I tried to talk to her but nope, one word reply and just ignorance. And she use to talk to most of the people.

Smegskull · Answer

Not even close. I don't go for women I find attractive, too easy to be induced into bad decisions.

Ms_Vanderquack · Answer

No, but I was the crush that they got with.

WhiteWolf69 · Answer

No. I never got the chance and I dont know if I would now.

Coolkat12345 · Answer

I did but ended up thinking I did but may not have.

Elthunder · Answer

No, that garbage didn't work because i was shy, and maybe the girl was disagreeable

eagle1951 · Answer

I did for a couple hours. I thought she noticed me in high school turns out she never did

BakedBeanieBabie · Answer

Yes, and it turned out it ain't shit.

MTC29 · Answer

Never. And I never will.

Everglow5 · Answer

I was never able to talk to my crush.

loveslongnails · Answer

Very briefly. It didn't work out.

curiousoul1998 · Answer

Been dating her for 7 years now 😄

cookroach · Answer

You're cute, dm rouchy if you want.

zagor · Answer

Nope, never got close. She moved away, then I did.

swettannie · Answer

never goes into high school

NorthAfrican · Answer

No, thank God.

InferiorElegy · Answer

No she told me I was too ugly to date.

princeofromance · Answer

No, It did not end up the way I planned.

Shy_Steve · Answer

Sadly no because I was a bit too Shy.

9Livezzz · Answer

Yes I got with many of my highschool crushes

Paulychicago10 · Answer

I wish, but no. Never had the guts

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Yes. Its just silly feelings that feel real.

Turtleneck22 · Answer

Yes I did. , did you?

Adam1978 · Answer

Didn't have one.

Phoenix98 · Answer

I did.

siseñor · Answer

no fml

genericname85 · Answer

naw. sadly.

jaclyndavis · Answer

No and no regrets👍

Iron_Man · Answer

Nope 👀

COMMODOREII · Answer

Unfortunately no

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