Is it wrong I will not date a man or marry a man with children? (Page 2)

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I will not at all marry or even date a man with kids. I don't have kids either.

Siren777 · Answer

That's your right & choice. You shouldn't care what people think. If that's what you want or don't want, that should be fine.

Mollynotgemma · Answer

It’s your choice ultimately... but why would you risk missing out on ‘the one’ because he has a child/ten?

exitseven · Answer

Everyone has the right to not date somebody for any reason they want. I don;t think I would date somebody with kids either. I would not like to come in second place to somebody else.

SnowyOwl · Answer

That is perfectly fine. We all have our limits. That is your limit. You can be loved just the way you are (:

Anon621 · Answer

I don't think it's wrong it is your choice that you want to be someone without kids for a reason whatever the reason may be.

kidvid80 · Answer

no, it is your personal preference though had to find sometimes, well where i live anyways--not everyone likes or wants kids

kkirk4442 · Answer

If you have zero patience with kids, then you are wise not to date someone with children, or to ever have children yourself.

Kas19 · Answer

No. You are your own person. Live your life the way you want.

RealMarek · Answer

Not wrong. People shouldn’t date people with kids unless they are ready and willing to take on the responsibilities that come with children.

just_a_potato · Answer

It's your preference. No one can make you, and your love life is your choice. As long as you don't attack the people you prefer not to date.

Wiredone · Answer

You have a right to date who you want. I don't see anything wrong with that. I take it you don't want to have any kids later in life either.

shouldnobetter · Answer

And Why Not? He may be a widower, and what is wrong with that? Or are you just against children, and don't want any? I married a woman with an 11 month old child. She was divorced.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

I'm the same tbh, I won't date or marry a woman with kids.

Alyssa11 · Answer

No you’re entitled to date whoever you want to date.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

You're 23 .. men without kids should be the norm at that age.

TheUniqueOne96 · Answer

If you don't want to have kids, it's perfectly reasonable not to want someone who's got kids.

Surely · Answer

I was like that also until I met a three year old that changed my mind. Unfortunately her mother didn’t see things that way and broke it off. Your life, your decision!

KittygosMeoWW · Answer

No, everyone is allowed to have preferences. I also don’t date men with children, it’s very hard to share time and to get accepted in a situation like that.

oldasIfeel22 · Answer

It’s understandable. But just release single dads can have it even harder than single moms.

Sevenpointfive · Answer

nothing wrong with that. i don't have a preference when it comes to this. kids don't bother me

GingerGuy · Answer

Not it's not. I won't likely with a woman either. It's your choice.

RingOfFire · Answer

It is neither wrong nor right, it is just your preference. Preferences don't have to be right or wrong, they just are.

Zygum · Answer

It is totally your choice, if you cannot produce your own children due to medical reasons, and you like children, then you can marry a man with kids, who loves you and suitable for you

etexbearkat · Answer

No. I’m debating whether or not I would date a woman who has children.

Doflamingo1 · Answer

No one is forcing you. Everyone has their own tastes

cth96190 · Answer

Your choice is neither right not wrong, but it does limit your options.

madgoat · Answer

Nope. You're 23 and it's play time. Have fun for a few years. You can deal with kids later.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

What if he doesn't have custody? Like they come around for a day or two once or twice a month?

SupremeWarlord · Answer

Nope. "Wrong" is a strong word, you date whoever you like, it doesn't matter how "stupid" your reasons are, it's never ever wrong.

Iron_Man · Answer

No you’re young yet and you have the right to date single people

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

No. I don't date women with children at all. It's a preference

Rok4bakAR · Answer

That’s fine.  A single mom/ dad needs to find another single mom/dad

Mangospacho · Answer

As someone who has children and is dedicated to raising them 100%…. I totally understand!!

karaspara · Answer

No it's not wrong it's your personal choice being a step parent is a really big deal

COMMODOREII · Answer

Nope. I feel the same way about dating or marrying a woman with kids.

fred_durst · Answer

sounds good infertile men nowadays are much more common than you think , thanks to their unhealthy lifestyle

Bean2thousand · Answer

Why in the hell are you even asking this question? Do I think you're an asshole? Yes. But I'm not your moral compass.

standardguy · Answer

Depends on your age. If you are already 35 or older it's better to educate already existítig kids and have no own kids.

Rudon00 · Answer

It is not morally wrong to date or marry someone with kids. As in your case its your choice and free will to choose or decline.

Aided · Answer

I mean its definitely not right to refuse somebody over that but I can kind of understand that you'd probably just want to raise your own children

anghellic6942 · Answer

No it's a judge responsibility if u feel obligated it's wrong if u want the responsibility it's right

Shihab91 · Answer

when you have kids you will change... many women like this

drexel420 · Answer

Not at all but what happens if he leaves you with a kid 🤭 I'm kidding nah it's not wrong

Romeocuck · Answer

If you know in your heart that this is not for you then you're doing tge right thing. But if you love children and you like his and you like him there is no reason to not try this love

Sam_The_Savage · Answer

You're right... I m with you girl 😘.

nocturnalbreed · Answer

Everyone have their own dream about their lives so its not wrong

Clarke498 · Answer

You don't want kids? Nah many people don't want kids.

Ottilie_x · Answer

It's not wrong. It's just personal preference. I'm the same.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

That's fine. You are entitled to have your preferences.

zagor · Answer

So don't have any, and find a man who doesn't want any, or stay single. Simple.

Wise4myage · Answer

Sounds like you know what you like in a man, and who could judge you for that?

Dchrls78104 · Answer

No, because I will not date or marry a woman who has kids.

WhiteWolf69 · Answer

No it's not wrong. It's your personal preference. Just know there are a lot of single parents out there more and more.

Tstrbrainer · Answer

No it's not wrong.  Actually it's the right thing to do, provided you have zero patience with them

plzmee · Answer

Why is it wrong an who's approval do you need. If everyone quit worrying about what others think.

Twalli · Answer

Understandable. I won't date anyone who wants to give birth

SilverRain92 · Answer

It's not wrong. Date and marry a man you want to. Only you decide

CreamySeed · Answer

I wouldn't date a girl with kids, id rather die single

Cowboy6666 · Answer

Its fine, I am single and I dont have kids and prefer a girl/lady without kids too

SpaceGalaxy · Answer

nothing "wrong" with it. That is your preference. More power to you.

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