Have you ever rejected someone because they were too old for you?

[aliali8]

[fred_durst]

never happened
but you should totally reject someone with such huge age difference , it is not normal
i really can't imagine how fucked up a guy who willing to date girl young enough to be his daughter

[aliali8]

that kinda stuff rarely ever happens. And usually when such a rare thing happens, 90% of the time the young woman is just marrying him for money while he is just marrying her for sex.

[Leavesbound]

No but I did reject someone for being too young. I was 31 and she was 15 and kept flirting with me so I told her I can't date her due to her age and she was very upset. She thought I was a lot younger.

[aliali8]

Damn this was 30 years ago. Before I was born

[MadMaddi]

I have. Its okay to have a preference

[Jamie05rhs]

Yes, I have, unfortunately. I was 22 and she was 24. I was extremely attracted to her (both looks and personality.). In retrospect, I was stupid to pass up that opportunity.

Oh, well. As they say, hindsight is 20/20.

[aliali8]

2 years older is too old for you? That’s insane!

[BigManSAB]

Are you old school religious?

[Jamie05rhs]

@aliali8 *WAS*
And like I said, looking back, it was stupid of me.

[Jamie05rhs]

@BigManSAB Possibly, depending on your definition. Why?

[Jamie05rhs]

The main reason I didn't pursue her is because I felt like a child compared to her and thought she would always look down on me. I mean, yeah, I know 2 years isn't that much, but that was just my perspective back then. Plus, I didn't have a lot of self-confidence in general.

[DaveToo]

I get a chuckle from that one. I'm only 50 years older than you. Would you reject me because of my age? Not knowing anything about me other than my age, would you turn me down?

[aliali8]

Think back to when you were 25, were you interested in dating 75 yr olds?

[DaveToo]

Touche' ! LOL.

[Mynameisbobby]

Yeah this woman at work lied to me about being 17 she's really 21. Thing is she looked 17. I don't know why she felt the need to lie for?

[aliali8]

Maybe she thinks you don’t like older girls

[blank_expression]

No way, I take it as a challenge. I have cleaned up blood and guts many times at accident scenes and therefore I can stomach a lot.

[Anonymous]

Yes and no. We have a mutual understanding that she is my goddess and we would not date. If it wasn't for that I wouldn't date her. She is a beautiful woman but I'm 24 and she is 32.

[aliali8]

Sounds like lust, not love

[Opinion Owner]

You are correct. There is no love

[Anonymous]

Sadly, yes! I wasn't turned on by her orthopedic shoes and having sex with her while she had to hold on to her walker! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[JustMeh1234]

Nopee i like older guys

[aliali8]

Would you date a 46 yr old?

[JustMeh1234]

If i like the guy enough i would date def date him. Age is just a number.

[aliali8]

Most young women aren’t attracted to aging old men. It’s quite unusual you find old people attractive

[JustMeh1234]

Well thats ur opinion. Even ugly guys got some fans. Tastes are different. U talk like a man are u a real girl? Man tend to generalize and they think they know everything about girls just like u did. Ntw u are so fking wrong girls my age are attracted to older guys more than guys my age.

[aliali8]

I mean I like older guys too. But I only like guys 3-7 years older. I don’t like guys that are 13-17 years older. And I think this is true for most girls, as women tend to most frequently marry men that are just 0-7 years older than them

[aliali8]

Another thing to think about when marrying a man who is too much older is to think about what life would be like if you were 45 and he is 60. Life stage incompatibility will take a huge a hit. He won’t be the same at 45 compared to 60

[JustMeh1234]

Maybe guys around u are too ugly that u can't imagine yourself with a man that old. Come on won't u tell you would not date a man like gianlucca vacchi? He is over 50 millionaire and look so damn good.

[aliali8]

Do you really think most 50 yr old guys are handsome? Maybe only you think so but not most of us

[JustMeh1234]

You need to live more you need to know more people looks like ur living in a bubble thinking u know everything and what u think its universal. Explore!! there's internet there's also people that is attracted to people with 1 eye, with 1 leg its jus an example. I mean why do u think im abnormal because i like old HANDSOME guys? You won't change my mind i will still like them. And like i said age doesn't matter to me if I LIKE HIM ENOUGH. so that doesn mean i like the 100% of guys over 30 i said i like OLDER HANDSOME GUYS. or at keast older interesting, etc. Get over it if u like young or ur age fine! Who am i to criticize you! I dnt even care.

[aliali8]

Why do most women are most attracted to young men in 20-30s. There is a biological reason for it. We have evolved to be more attracted to young people because young people simply have better reproductive health which garuantees the success of survival of species. It’s been proven that offspring of younger men tend to be in better health and condition compared to that of older men.

Same reason why people don’t find fat people attractive. It’s simply because humans have not evolved to be attracted to fat people. Fat people are less likely to produce healthy offspring.

When we look for mates , humans look for qualities that ensure the best health of offspring. Women are attracted to strong men because back then during the caveman days, a man who was strong could hunt enough food to feed his family.

Same reason why men are more physically attracted to younger women. It is because younger people are in better reproductive health. She is more likely to produce healthy offspring than older women.

Sure there are men who are attracted to fat women. Sure there are women who are attracted to 60 yr old men but these are rather unusual and rare.

[JustMeh1234]

I wony even read u. I still like older men u won't change my mind. 👍 bye

[nella965]

I wasn’t trying to change your mind. I’m just explaining to you why most women are attracted to men in their 20-30s.

Apparently you got so offended about your abnormal tastes that you blocked me.

Why don’t you just accept that you’re weird?

[Anonymous]

Yes, but I want kids and I won't be able to have kids if I date someone who has already gone through menopause.

[exitseven]

nope. I dated somebody 5 years older than me

[RHK36]

No, but I have because they were too young.

[Pogi-Paddy-2]

Nope hasn't happened to me yet

[DCooper]

Yyp.

[DWornock]

All the time.

[dudeinohio]

Yes I have