I'm asexual too so when I saw her I was really excited, moreso when we matched and she messaged me immediately! And we hit it off, joking around all afternoon, she was constantly liking my messages and answering quickly. Neither of us talked about what exactly we're looking for, but early on when talking about our asexuality, it seemed she was open to just getting to know each other for now, which is great
I gave her my number that night but she said she wasn't ready to give out her number and instead gave me her instagram account. Cool, you gotta be safe. We continued talking in the Tinder app through the night and it was getting late, she liked my last two messages but didn't really answer or say anything about them, just said she needed to sleep and "let's talk tomorrow ok?". I said my goodbyes, sent her a quick instagram message and went to bed also. The next day I didn't get an answer in her instagram, so I just shoot her a quick message in Tinder. It's been over a day and no answer. Not really sure what happened as it seemed to have been going great. I'm not gonna push it, I sent two messages after we said goodbye so she's either not interested anymore or just being careful. Right?
It's just a sucky feeling cause I finally found another asexual person, in Tinder of all places, and it seemed to have gone well. She was talking a lot, initiated the conversation, hell I fell asleep for about four hours at one point when we were talking, messaged her when I woke up and she answered immediately. She kept liking several of my messages and I was so asleep I noticed I didn't do the same, yet she continued. And all of the sudden radio silence :l
I gave her my number that night but she said she wasn't ready to give out her number and instead gave me her instagram account. Cool, you gotta be safe. We continued talking in the Tinder app through the night and it was getting late, she liked my last two messages but didn't really answer or say anything about them, just said she needed to sleep and "let's talk tomorrow ok?". I said my goodbyes, sent her a quick instagram message and went to bed also. The next day I didn't get an answer in her instagram, so I just shoot her a quick message in Tinder. It's been over a day and no answer. Not really sure what happened as it seemed to have been going great. I'm not gonna push it, I sent two messages after we said goodbye so she's either not interested anymore or just being careful. Right?
It's just a sucky feeling cause I finally found another asexual person, in Tinder of all places, and it seemed to have gone well. She was talking a lot, initiated the conversation, hell I fell asleep for about four hours at one point when we were talking, messaged her when I woke up and she answered immediately. She kept liking several of my messages and I was so asleep I noticed I didn't do the same, yet she continued. And all of the sudden radio silence :l
