I don’t know what it is. I don’t know you but I highly doubt it has anything to do with your race. What is your personality? Are you nice, friendly, outgoing or are you stuck up and shallow? Like, I said, I don’t know you so I can’t judge. Please don’t take what I said as being rude.
I’m not accusing you of being those things, I am just curious about why guys treat you the way they do. Maybe it’s because you’re an attractive girl and that’s all?
MM who knows their are many reasons why this happens. I do hope you find someone who wants more than sex. But you are indeed very attractive so mm, at least you don't have to worry about finding someone. good luck
You look good, so most men will be fine with hooking up with you. I would as well. Why no relationship? Well, people don't know you. Do you have hobbies, etc. We take one look at you and we know we'd be fine hooking up, more takes time.
Where do you usually meet these guys? Maybe only dating folks from settings where a person’s personality can be showcased would help.. I know I had similar trouble for years until I started meeting girls at social outings with groups of friends and would wait until I’d seen them a couple times during an activity and heard them talk for a good amount of time.. before asking them out.
It's because you are around the wrong type of men and environment i. e night clubs, stripe clubs etc those men in those type of environment just desire sex.
Change your environment and be around decent type men and you won't have to deal with men who just desire you for sex.
You are beautiful, but you dress lik an hooker so change your dress and dont show everything be more conservative and be serious with guys , not just sex you will be fine , if you are going to night club you are fine the way you look but not for regular street life , wear jeans and a long sleeve shirt ok
Using a picture of you dressed like you are going to the club in a hotel room doesn't set a great example of why guys aren't interested in a relationship with you. Maybe you are giving off the wrong vibe and perspective.
It's very likely that the guys who want you for just your body are way more likely than guys who want a real relationship with you to come up to you and ask you out. The guys who just want hookups with you may be more vocal and confident than the guys who don't, is what I'm guessing.
Well naturally since you a very feminine woman that is how men are going to respond. Our testosterone just kinda takes over when we see a girl dressed seductively.
It's not personal, it's them. They don't want a relationship period. It wouldn't matter who you were. I suggest finding this out first. I always ask someone new what they are looking for... and hopefully they are honest about it.
I think you misunderstand. Yes you probably intimidate a lot of guys. So of the guys willing to take a chance to talk to you. Get to know you. And date you is probably small. All the rest probably are just trying to sleep with you. Since the PUA's games are polished you are drawn to them ergo as I said " it's the guys YOU choose".
It's simple hon. You keep choosing the wrong guys. Real men don't play hard to get. They just are. Because society has demonized them, and the simps that keep coming at you are enabling society's behavior towards men.
You are gorgeous. I want to get to know you and see if I would want to date you. Personality is a huge thing. If our personalities views and goals in life can't work together then the relationship womt work well
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I don’t know what it is. I don’t know you but I highly doubt it has anything to do with your race.
What is your personality? Are you nice, friendly, outgoing or are you stuck up and shallow? Like, I said, I don’t know you so I can’t judge. Please don’t take what I said as being rude.
I’m not accusing you of being those things, I am just curious about why guys treat you the way they do. Maybe it’s because you’re an attractive girl and that’s all?
MM who knows their are many reasons why this happens. I do hope you find someone who wants more than sex. But you are indeed very attractive so mm, at least you don't have to worry about finding someone. good luck
Honestly hun I don't know but I'd definitely scoop you up in a heartbeat 😍
How come?
You're beautiful and you look like you have amazing personality and your eyes 😍
You look good, so most men will be fine with hooking up with you. I would as well. Why no relationship? Well, people don't know you. Do you have hobbies, etc. We take one look at you and we know we'd be fine hooking up, more takes time.
Where do you usually meet these guys? Maybe only dating folks from settings where a person’s personality can be showcased would help.. I know I had similar trouble for years until I started meeting girls at social outings with groups of friends and would wait until I’d seen them a couple times during an activity and heard them talk for a good amount of time.. before asking them out.
It's because you are around the wrong type of men and environment i. e night clubs, stripe clubs etc those men in those type of environment just desire sex.
Change your environment and be around decent type men and you won't have to deal with men who just desire you for sex.
I recommend a Godly Christian church.
You are beautiful, but you dress lik an hooker so change your dress and dont show everything be more conservative and be serious with guys , not just sex you will be fine , if you are going to night club you are fine the way you look but not for regular street life , wear jeans and a long sleeve shirt ok
Using a picture of you dressed like you are going to the club in a hotel room doesn't set a great example of why guys aren't interested in a relationship with you. Maybe you are giving off the wrong vibe and perspective.
Maybe where you live, you're pretty so we know it's either your personality or the location.
I don't know why, but in any case you are very pretty and I am sure that you will eventually find a worthy boyfriend
You are very gorgeous and stunning, what is your height? My guess is that your first boyfriend was in high school
5’5 , yes correct
Yeah not true for everyone
Your appearance could be it, but it could also be your location. Unfortunately, it's also possible racial stereotypes may play a part in it.
I thought as much. Guys normally go for white/mixed race girls
“Normally go for”?
I think you’re just assuming things.
It's very likely that the guys who want you for just your body are way more likely than guys who want a real relationship with you to come up to you and ask you out. The guys who just want hookups with you may be more vocal and confident than the guys who don't, is what I'm guessing.
Well naturally since you a very feminine woman that is how men are going to respond. Our testosterone just kinda takes over when we see a girl dressed seductively.
I don't know. Maybe you are just attracted to the bad boy type that isn't into relationships.
Or maybe they’re attracted to her?
It's not personal, it's them. They don't want a relationship period. It wouldn't matter who you were. I suggest finding this out first. I always ask someone new what they are looking for... and hopefully they are honest about it.
And tell them what you are looking for also.
Oh this is an easy one to answer. It's the guys you choose. Bottom line.
But these same guys have had girlfriends before. So it must be 😞
They’ll say stuff like “my ex girlfriend did such and such”
I think you misunderstand. Yes you probably intimidate a lot of guys. So of the guys willing to take a chance to talk to you. Get to know you. And date you is probably small. All the rest probably are just trying to sleep with you. Since the PUA's games are polished you are drawn to them ergo as I said " it's the guys YOU choose".
It's simple hon. You keep choosing the wrong guys. Real men don't play hard to get. They just are. Because society has demonized them, and the simps that keep coming at you are enabling society's behavior towards men.
I'm sure that a lot of it is just the point of life you are at. 24 is pretty young, so your datability is likely to change as you get older.
You're lucky. I can't find many guys that just want to fuck. They all just want a serious relationship.
Isn’t that better tho? It’s more permanent. Flings are usually short
You are gorgeous. I want to get to know you and see if I would want to date you. Personality is a huge thing. If our personalities views and goals in life can't work together then the relationship womt work well