Messed up big time, move on, you don’t go asking a woman you just met whether she’s single or not, most women subconsciously enter into defensive mode if they detect that you are hitting on them. Most women who are single are either haven’t started dating (concentrating on other stuff - studies for example), in different stages of heart breaks or healed after a heart break - defensive modes will vary with the stage. As a man, you have to start by knowing her, being her friend, learn and understand why she’s single - her love life stage and act accordingly. If she ready go for it, if she ain’t give her time as you work on her. Women are very complicated and play double stands all the time - you go head on, she will lock you out. Most single women would want men who are not “after them” but who “care about them”. Women believe in pulling the strings and shifting goal posts, she has to feel that she needs you more than you need her to get into a relationship (you have to paint that good picture) and that you need her more than she does while dating. If she has been heartbroken before you have to prove you are better, the opposite of what happened to win her. It’s like asking a woman who has had bad experience with previous cook and his food and no appetite at all whether you can cook her some food, she will jump into conclusion and conclude that you also cook same shit and dismiss you. All you need is make sure she’s around, cook some sweet food, with some sweet aroma and trigger her appetite and she will bring herself and eat. You would have won
Women like men have times when they just want to play the field. You looking for a relationship while she may just be looking for a friend with benefits. Move on to the next one but still chat and if she want to see about something then you decide on your terms. Don’t waste time for a women who isn’t interested because you waste too much on it and miss out on something worth it.
It depends: if you're genuinely okay with a friendship? Go for it!
If you're hoping over time she changes her mind and wants to date or get to know you better? NO. Cut your losses right now and move on. Don't waste your time on someone that doesn't appreciate you or want to be with you.
Trust me, I did that before and it doesn't work. I call myself spending time with said guy in hopes he would want more than a friendship once we talked more and spend time together...
It did not work. He only saw me as a "close friend," and nothing more.
Don't text if you want more than friendship.. it is very likely her way of saying she is not interested in dating YOU.
When you find strangers on SoMe the main thing they have to judge are your looks (which was probably also the main thing you went for with this pretty girl ;) ) Better find someone who actually think you are attractive.
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Why are you asking us? The answer is obvious. Do you want to be her friend? If yes, keep talking to her. If not, then move on.
u If your interest is in dating, she has already been quite upfront and candid on that point.
I think you should stick to it but also not keeping your hopes up high... because you literally asked her right away to kind of "DATE YOU" and this scares most of us Women... become friends first, and then see if she actually finds you attractive.. You can't expect a woman to say YES to your very first try without even knowing her. Be patient, make her curious, make her text you back. If she doesn't want to she doesn't want to... but be patient and don't overdo things keep it natural.
I suggest you move on. Although she seems cool, so you may be able to just chat with her but don't get any hopes up at all. Next time don't just come out and tell them you like to take her on a date. Talk to her get to know first before you offer that
You sound like you're bragging about being in the air force.
And you don't compliment a girl so early. Make her earn it so she feels it is genuine.
Don't waste your time. Continuing to text is just pathetic. Often the last word of that sentence is unspoken. What she probably meant was "I'm not interested in dating you." If the right guy comes along, she may be very interested.
Don't waste your time. Move on.
When a woman is not interested let her go. She may be focused on being single and other matters or she may just not be interested in you personally, which is usually the reason they say that to begin with
That is her saying she doesn't want to date you. She would most likely answered differently to someone that she found to be of interesting.
She's not interested in dating YOU. This is a common answer we guys get from women. If the right man came along she would probably say yes. Don't think too much into it just move on.
Move to a different girl. You cannot negotiate or create attraction and desire.
And don't get stuck in one-itis - have a mind concept of abundance.
If you’re interested in a friend zone only thing then by all means go for it.
Don't expect dating. It's friendship you need so you can go text her about mutual stuff. Move on and date other girls.
If your only aim is to date then you should move on. If you’re fine with being friends then keep texting.
Why would you continue talking to a girl if she's not interested in dating?
I’m A guy and I wanna dump you already.
The way you talk just makes a girl’s stomach turn.
If she's cool, continue to text but text other girls.
If that is not a text to pick up a girl in 1 message, I don't know what is.
If you’d like to learn about women and possibly have her set you up with a friend.
If you're interested in dating, and she's not, why bother? If you're not either, then fine.
move on she made it clear, and you were honest as well.
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