Depends. If you’re an honest type person then it’s bad if you’re leading her on in any way.
Would be funny if she thinks the same of you that you think about her, eh?
I don't see why not just don't lead her on
It’s not bad if the girl isn’t interested in you either but if she is and you start dating her friend or someone she knows then you’ll likely hurt her feelings.
It doesn't sound great. Does this girl know you want her to introduce you to someone?
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Yeah, it is! It's called using people 😡
If you like a girl, man up and talk to her yourself instead of using her friends or another girl to get to her!
How would you feel if a girl was your "friend" only for her to have you introduce to one of your buddies so she could date him?
Worse, she might take you talking to her as genuine interest- and it's going to hurt her.
Just... no. If you have no interest in her, not even as a friend, leave her alone. Don't be an ass.
I think is nice when guys make it clear from the very beginning that they only want a friendship, it saves so much time and unnecessary drama. I don’t think is nice to talk to her as if you’re interested because that would be like playing with her feelings and her time. Same thing goes for women! 🤔
As long as you are not leading her on like a dick head for what she can do for you then NO it's fine.
I had plenty of women in my life who loved to play wing woman.
Have you told her about your intentions? Or is she thinking that something is going on between you guys? If you have been honest and she doesn't mind being friends then I see no problem. If we only talked to people we are attracted to then our contacts to other people would be sparse.
Yes, it's bad because you're using her and nobody wants to be used. You're basically telling her not so many words as she is unattractive. The last person that did that to me to try to get to date one of my closest friends, I am no longer friends with that person. And she rejected them right out after she found that out for herself. That means he has bad intentions, and any girl who says yes to him is an idiot. If you wanted to date her friends, you should go try to date them yourself.
If you are too coward or shy to adress the person you want to talk to, then refrain to ask others to do the dirty job for you.
Where are your principles? I could not trust a person that needs a substitute to do the preliminary work.
In my opinion, that’s kind of selfish and grimy... that is unless you are making it clear that you’re only interested in her friends.
If you feel like being selfish and grimy is wrong, then you’re wrong. If you feel otherwise, good luck on you bro.
But usually when people have to question their own actions and motives, it’s their conscience telling them something isn’t quite right.
Just make sure you’re as honest as possible.
Since you don't have any interest in her it's bad. I may not have any desire to date a girl, but I would never talk to a girl for the reasons you stated. Sure our friendship may lead to that, but I don't plan for or expect it to lead to that. I am not interested in most of my female friends (only one since I am dating another one), yet we share similar interests.
The fact that you are only talking to her to get to other girls isn't good. However yes I do believe it is ok to talk to girls you are not interested in. I for example talk to many girls but I'm dating one and am faithful to that one. My dreams/purpose in life requires me to become friends with both men and women
That's bad is like you're "duff"ing her if you have watched the movie "the duff"
It's not right to do that to a girl and no one deserves that
In other words you are using her
She is not an object to be used
She is a human being who has feelings
So you basically don't have balls to talk to those other girls so you are being a piece of shit and lead people on.
If you like her as a person just not romantically then it is fine. If you are just using her so you can hook up with her friends, that is kind of sh*tty.
No it's a good thing. It's perfectly ok to just be friendly and social with us you know. But do it because you like them as a person and not as a way of banging their hot friends.
Cut the hypocrisy, girls do this all the time why shouldn't you? If things go unpleasant just say it was a misunderstanding and live happily ever.
Its only bad if you are being flirty and leading her on
Guys and girls can be friends. And often thats the best way to find a girlfriend eventually.
Not bad at all
It isn't right to use someone. You should just be straightforward with her...
It is bad to talk to them romantically or to flirt with them, but as friends it is not.
It's okay as long as you make your intentions known to them. DO NOT LEAD SOMEONE'S CHILD ON.
No cause got communicate with people or intact with.
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