Is it bad to talk to a girl that you're not interested in so that she can introduce you to other girls. This is also a girl that I am talking to online. I'm just not interested in her physically, but we could become friends (it's possible). She just doesn't interest me physically. Her personality doesn't really interest me. What interests me is the girls that she could introduce me too. Is that bad? I think I'm good here.
Is it bad to talk to girls you're not interested in?
Is it bad to talk to girls you're not interested in?
It’s not bad if the girl isn’t interested in you either but if she is and you start dating her friend or someone she knows then you’ll likely hurt her feelings.
I think you nailed it, damn. I have a feeling, she might not be that interested me in either. Which is kind of why I ask. If she's super into me then of course, yeah... could get hurt.
I was just thinking how I would feel if I were the girl in your situation. If a guy is my friend and only just friends, I’m usually happy for him to date other girls but if I develop feelings then it’s very hard and can come off as mean.
Hm. Yeah, that makes sense, but the problem is if you aren't interested in her, chances are few others are, either. The asker is getting to the age where girls might start to be a little bit desperate. So, talking to a girl you are not interested in at that age could trigger very high hopes right off the bat. I don't think you can avoid letting her down, one way or the other...
Not at all. Just thinking ahead. I would kind of like for her to play matchmaker though. We'll see. I have to be friends with her first. I don't think there's anything wrong with my intentions?
I think you should maybe let her know your thoughts. Not saying it WILL happen but what if she starts to gain feelings for you? I just think if I were her, I'd appreciate you if you were open and told me what's on your mind. What your intentions are. I don't know though.
If you like a girl, man up and talk to her yourself instead of using her friends or another girl to get to her! How would you feel if a girl was your "friend" only for her to have you introduce to one of your buddies so she could date him?
Worse, she might take you talking to her as genuine interest- and it's going to hurt her.
Just... no. If you have no interest in her, not even as a friend, leave her alone. Don't be an ass.
There is no girl that I like, and if there is then I will man up and talk to her myself if I want to.
She'd probably be more of an acquaintance than a friend. But it would depend on how I feel about her and how she goes about it. I would prefer her to be more upfront.
It's just talking, I will come across as having no romantic interest in her.
I think is nice when guys make it clear from the very beginning that they only want a friendship, it saves so much time and unnecessary drama. I don’t think is nice to talk to her as if you’re interested because that would be like playing with her feelings and her time. Same thing goes for women! 🤔
Have you told her about your intentions? Or is she thinking that something is going on between you guys? If you have been honest and she doesn't mind being friends then I see no problem. If we only talked to people we are attracted to then our contacts to other people would be sparse.
Yes, it's bad because you're using her and nobody wants to be used. You're basically telling her not so many words as she is unattractive. The last person that did that to me to try to get to date one of my closest friends, I am no longer friends with that person. And she rejected them right out after she found that out for herself. That means he has bad intentions, and any girl who says yes to him is an idiot. If you wanted to date her friends, you should go try to date them yourself.
Just be cautious cuz the message might not come across too well if the girl, or for that matter, any other person, sees you as a person with little courage or too shy.
In my opinion, that’s kind of selfish and grimy... that is unless you are making it clear that you’re only interested in her friends. If you feel like being selfish and grimy is wrong, then you’re wrong. If you feel otherwise, good luck on you bro. But usually when people have to question their own actions and motives, it’s their conscience telling them something isn’t quite right. Just make sure you’re as honest as possible.
Since you don't have any interest in her it's bad. I may not have any desire to date a girl, but I would never talk to a girl for the reasons you stated. Sure our friendship may lead to that, but I don't plan for or expect it to lead to that. I am not interested in most of my female friends (only one since I am dating another one), yet we share similar interests.
Nothing yet. I'm just not interested in her but I'll see where it leads. I feel like I'm just talking to her for the sake of it or so she can introduce me to other girls.
The problem is u can spoil your reputation as a gay. If you're lucky she will tell everyone you had great sex. No woman would confess ther was no boner towards her.
The fact that you are only talking to her to get to other girls isn't good. However yes I do believe it is ok to talk to girls you are not interested in. I for example talk to many girls but I'm dating one and am faithful to that one. My dreams/purpose in life requires me to become friends with both men and women
That's bad is like you're "duff"ing her if you have watched the movie "the duff" It's not right to do that to a girl and no one deserves that In other words you are using her She is not an object to be used She is a human being who has feelings
If you like her as a person just not romantically then it is fine. If you are just using her so you can hook up with her friends, that is kind of sh*tty.
No it's a good thing. It's perfectly ok to just be friendly and social with us you know. But do it because you like them as a person and not as a way of banging their hot friends.
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Anonymous
(30-35)
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Cut the hypocrisy, girls do this all the time why shouldn't you? If things go unpleasant just say it was a misunderstanding and live happily ever.
Its only bad if you are being flirty and leading her on Guys and girls can be friends. And often thats the best way to find a girlfriend eventually. Not bad at all
It’s Not A Bad Thing You know a girl don’t like if you talk to her she will feel important in life and she will live a life knowing that there are some people who care
That's common sense. A girls friends have much more power over her than a boys friends to a guy. Lots of girls will or will not date you largely on the female friend approval. So your approach is ideal
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Anonymous
(25-29)
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Obviously as long as you dont lead her on, its not bad. Its called being friends.
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