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Everyone has flaws. The trick is to find somebody that may have the same flaws or else someone that can deal with your particular flaw.
No, that's inherently impossible.
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u A "perfect" man is one who loves you so much that he is willing to overlook your flaws and you love him so much that you are willing to overlook his flaws.
Searching for a "perfect man" (or "perfect woman") is a fool's errand!
Perfect man nor woman , certainly does not exist , all are flawed in some way and that is the essence of being human , anyone could provide countless examples of same , the search for perfection , whilst it should be encouraged in life , perfection in any field does not exist.
Even if you found this so called perfect man , he then has to stand the test of time ( after he meats all other relevant criteria , age , height , employment , sexual ) imagine your utter dismay if you found one flaw that he had hidden in say 5 years? Now , you are 5 years older , child bearing clock is ticking , and this bloke as shown an horrendous flaw.
Id say particularly in the category mentioned , this is the road to utter heartbreak and despair , you certainly need to lighten up in this zone , just enjoy yourself and stop such a ludicrous search quite honestly.
Go to any area academia , the arts , sports , professions , politics , even Nelson Mandela got divorced , Martin Luther King was greatly flawed , every doctor , every phycologist , every accountant. every stockbroker..
Want a happy life? Well , start thinking about so called flaws that can be lived with ( Not changed ) and possibly a little less judgmental , and define actual happiness within yourself , to achieve the end goal. Perfectionists , true ones , are impossible to live with.
Of course not. But some people are geniuses at LOOKING flawless.
But the truth is when somebody comes off as too perfect it can be intimidating to people.
I remember I met the most beautiful woman I had ever seen in my entire life in college. I thought she was out of my league so i didn’t say anything. But one day she introduced herself to me at the gym. I found out she was pre med (smart), straight A student and was a state champion in gymnastics in HS.
I felt intimidated so I made changed in my own life to pursue her. I dressed better, I got on a resistance training program and I gained 10lbs of muscle, I took homeopathic medicine to clear my acne. I got a new haircut. I tried to act confident around her.
It turns out she was very fleetingly interested in me but I screwed it all up because it was next to impossible to be myself around her. She was very intimidating. I managed to kiss her once but that was it. And of course she confidently friend zoned me later.
She ended up meeting her future husband right in front of me. They are still married today with kids.
I have a lot of flaws. I don't reject people for having flaws. I do occasionally reject people for having certain specific flaws that would make us incompatible. There is no such thing as a flawless person. If your minimum standard in relationships is a flawless partner then you will be alone your entire life. As for me I'd actually prefer a woman who has at least as many flaws for me. By the way, did you know that only fake gemstones are completely flawless. Real gems always have at least some minor flaws.
Ans what makes you think the flawless guy will go for you? Are you flawless? Somehow I doubt it considering nobody is.
You need to learn to accept that humans are humans they do right and they do wrong if you truly don't want to be single you will have to take a chance on a flawed human
The man you seek is Christ. You won’t find him in your dating life, but if you find a man who also seeks Christ then you can at least grow more like him together.
You will both have flaws, and you will both fall short, but as long as you are both in agreement in seeking to emulate Christ, you will always communicate, apologize, learn, and grow through every mishap. This is one of the great benefits of marriage even amidst the fall.
It is very hard to admit and acknowledge, but everybody in this planet is not perfect, everyone has flaws.
Please don't misunderstand me, I am in your same position right now, but if we think like this is because society has brainwashed us with all those romantic novels, stories, movies and fairy tales about all that "true love", "prince charming" and "princess purity" stuff.
When it is love really someone in the real world, is not like those romantic bs has sold us, it is to be aware of both yours and your partner flaws and qualities, keep good comunication channels and even though there will be problems, how to solve them or how to make peace. In reality that is very, very difficult, and you don't stop learning or doing it, but there is a reason why there are couples who could survive for a long time. And it is not about looking in changing the other.
u The only two perfect, flawless people who have ever walked this planet were Jesus Christ and the Blessed Virgin Mary.
If you're expecting a perfect man in dating and marriage, or if you're so turned off by his flaws, you're doing it wrong. Plain and simple. You're a Christian, right? If so, then you ought to know that Christian marriage is a humble, selfless, and mutual offering of husband and wife to each other. They are to grow in love and affection for each other from the moment they get married until death separates them.
The intent of Christian marriage is for husband and wife to sanctify each other, to make them holy. This includes bearing whatever innocent shortcomings they may have, but it also means praying and fasting for and working to correct those things about them which might take them away from God.
Yes, there are. To be considered flawless, you have to possess these qualities:
- Love and compassion
- Patience
- Self control
- Wisdom
- Knowledge
Find someone who possesses all of these traits
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I suppose it depends on how you define the word flawless or what constitutes a "serious" flaw. I think everyone has their own issues but there are men in this world who might have flaws but possess the key skill necessary to deal with or overcome these flaws in the moment or in the future if more problems arise. In my search for a girlfriend, that's what I look. I'd rather a flawed person with the skills to handle their flaws/problems rather than someone who looks flawless on the surface but is not.
There are no flawless people. Period. Ever.
If someone claims to be flawless, they are very flawed indeed.
It's human to make mistakes and be imperfect. Just like it's human to strive to be better.
I would say more likely then not that you're just overly picky. That or you just like the thought of being pair bonded but deep down you just really don't want to do what's necessary to achieve that. You posts in the past do suggest you have trust issues.
I guess I'm saying no flawless people don't exist. Relationships happen because people accept others shortcomings. Maybe because that person's shortco. ing isn't so much of one to that person.
Everybody has flaws. If someone accepts their flaws and is willing to improve everyday, then I think that makes someone a great person. Don't look for a perfect partner, you won't find. Find someone who accepts his own flaws and is willing to accept you with your flaws. Help him to improve, and let him help you to improve as well. Now that makes a perfect couple.
Sometimes something flawed has more value. If it were perfect and exactly the same as others, then there is nothing unique that sets it apart from the rest. Perfection is overrated and excepting someone as a whole, flaws and all, is where you understand love. You just gotta remember that nobody is perfect and you will be held in the same expectant heights you seek in others.
No one know what counts as flaws so even if one is trying to fix them, he might miss things he didn't write down. So impossible by default. Looking for flawless person is to look for fantasy character, doesn't exist in real world. Have a nice day
Nothing is "flawless". Life is messy. You gotta pick which mess to throw your lot in with. You'll die old alone and bitter if you're waiting for a non existent perfect male specimen.
Flawless would be boring.
A Flawless person would be tedious.
on a positive note, a Flawless person would have no bigotry.
therefore a Flawless person would love equally, Straight, Lesbian, Gay, Bi and Transexual in equal amounts.
As if the did not, they would be flawed in the sight of others, ergo become flawed.
Jennifer... Jennifer... You are a God fearing woman.. If a "flawless" man existed then we wouldn't need Jesus to save our souls from damnation.. How can you as a Christian just say "oh, they have flaws I don't like them".. You have flaws too.. Probably some crazy flaws like the rest of us.. In fact the fact that you even get uninterested in guys because of they have flaws is a flaw in of itself..
Maybe the word shpuld be issues not flaws. I mean about your description we all have some issues... Some bad habits, a dark side and some kinks... But even having all that we can be almost perfect for the correct person. Yes i meet someone "flawless" time ago.
Almost everyone does, I'm afraid. However, there are men out there that are almost flawless, depends on your definition of that. There ain't many, but they exist.
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