god damn. That’s rough.
@victoriaxoxoThanks for going through the whole thing. Really appreciate it.
Remember the person who had lesser interest has more power in the relationship. People tend to abuse that power.
I went through this exact same thing when I was young
Yh that’s what I experienced with my ex. Got with him after him chasing me around for like 4 years. I figured maybe it will save me some heartbreak to go for a guy who is really into me. Fast forward a year and a bit and he’s treating me poorly and I really doubt he even actually liked me. Maybe he thought he did. I was also cold to him for the first 6 months or so. So not great for either.
@victoriaxoxo We had a short courtship. I was young. He started treating me badly during our honeymoon. I wanted to leave him when we got back, but he convinced me to stay. It took me a long time to add everything up and realize he doesn't care about me (or anyone else). I guess I made my bed! We get along and we don't argue and we are able to enjoy eachother's company. I have heard a couple of other people on GaG have similar situations, so now I don't feel so unique.
At least you guys get along. It’s not that uncommon to date without love but it’s the worst when the other person thinks that their lack of strong emotion towards you gives them the right to treat you like shit. Learning how to live together even if you’re not in love is a skill.
@victoriaxoxo He can certainly dish it out, but I'm good at letting it roll off my back and pretending to be clueless. I think we're just comfortable with eachother.
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That is really sad
Me, several people actually.