For someone who is nearing the end of their twenties, I want to preserve my youth or at least be worthy to date by women during the years which they will flourish
so I
told my homegirl, from now on I'm telling women I am 25 until someone challenges it by saying "No, you're not, there's no way" due to how old I appear.
I said, "I'm gonna be 25 till someone says I'm not.
She replied, "and when a girl finally comes along and disagrees, how old will you be then?"
"26."
Lol. i gotta do what i gotta do with all the twerking shorts on tiktok
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Just wanted to say, if anything, I would be interested in dating someone around my age, but also not thrilled to give the little fishes back, if that makes sense.
Women recently turned 18-21 - is there a chance you would be open to dating a 30 year old?
With those ages the guy is pretty much stuck with women close to his age usually a little younger like 3 of 4 years for the good looking ones but the 18-21 year old fatties are abundant and desperate But once the guy is just a few years older around 34/36 the 18-21 year olds are his for the taking plenty to choose from.
Why would you lie? Im 34 and my girlfriend is 18. And i do not date girls over 24. Not had too much issue with it. Yeah a few freak but most dont care or love it. Ig lying in some instances could help but it will shoot trust in relationships if it goes serious. If its just for casual sex ehh ok but you do underestimate how much girls love older men. One girl i dated said she only talks to men 10 years older than her or older. So i mean good thing i didn't lie to her. Just saying.
@Ayanna240 uh huh... either your old and therefore salty all the men your age date younger OR you're young and have no idea what you're talking about. Men stick with a girl. They just dont want to be sloppy 2nds or 10ths. Lol.
But i won’t date a man who insists on dating women under 24. Because he’s a pervert. Just gonna Dump you and call you old once you turn 25. You’re just after her body, not her as a human being
How would you feel if your girlfriend told you that once you lose you wealth. She will leave you for another rich man? Would you want to be with someone like that?
@Ayanna240 um i won't dump her when she's older. I never have dumped any girl who was a teen virgin when we started dating. But i mean when they get older if they leave or fuck up im sure going to date a teen virgin the next time around. Id be dumb not to.
@bamesjond0069 Well if you already are disrespecting and hating on all women over the age of 25, then what makes you think you will respect your girlfriend when she turns 25? Age seems to matter a ton to you. What will happen once she gets old? you will just trade her for another 18 yr old
@Ayanna240 i already dated an 18 year old and was with her for 10 years. Thats not true. I just want to be with her for her best if im expected to be there as she isn't. I dont want some girl who spent her best years fucking other dudes.
@Ayanna240 Oh please 😂😂😂😂😂😂 A 29 year old man only wants your Vagina only for a on be night stand nothing else. Do you really think a 29 year old wants your useless ass as a wife please only as a sex doll 😂😂😂😂😂 . Your boobs are flat and you have no ass.
Maybe you think like that because you attract these girls think about it most girls don't like old guys and do you go to high school or college for meeting them lmao
You know scycologist studies had show that the brain isn't fully developed not until the age of 25 . I can see your brain hasn't developed yet and you are 25. I don't understand why wouldn't you want to date woman your own age? Why are you chasing after younger woman that had barely gotten out of high school? You are at a different staged in life then a 18-21 year old. Not why this site can be out of control. I am 28 by the way not 20.
Im not talking about you. Its a general you. Age is irrelevant. Life stage is whats important. Single unmarried no kids people in their fertile years have a lot in common no matter the age. Just as say divorced retired people too old to have kids would have a lot in common for dating as well. The age is basically meaningless.
@bamesjond0069 no there is a difference she is in college while he is in peak of his career maybe even have his own house they're totally different. I don't think I can relate with 18 year old me lol so it is too different
@Yyyyu well im 34 and my girlfriend is 18. We have a ton in common. Who i dont have much in common with is a 34 year old woman. What could i possibly have in common with her besides like movies and where were we on 9/11? Lol. I mean that stuff is not important. Life goals and values is highly important.
@bamesjond0069 you are very immature if you have more in common with a 18 year old lol I am 21 and I don't think college student and high school student have anything in common lmao also why are you still single without kids? if you are desirable than you should be married and have some kids
@bamesjond0069 think about it why men don't want their daughter to date old men (I mean 10 or 15 year older? There is definitely something wrong with it. Think about it I am sure that you won't be happy if your daughter was doing it
@Yyyyu i wouldn't allow my daughter to date a man her age ever. They just want sex. I was younger and all i wanted was to bang bang bang. Now im older and i actually want a serious relationship.
@bamesjond0069 lol most guys don't want their daughter to date old mens my parents would hate it if I did it (I don't like old mens anyways like most girls) you would change your mind after actually having kids
@bamesjond0069 but most quality old men are already married think about it only guys who only want sex or are of low quality so they're not able to stay in long term relationship are single in their late 30s. quality one are married in their late 20s or early 30s.
@Yyyyu so i would prefer my daughter to get slammed by guys her age and just used for sex and dumped? Uhh no? And you're wrong. Lots of girls have told me that and I've met lots of girls parents, after seeing how mature i am they actually are impressed their daughters dating someone so mature. One girl broke it off w me after like 3 dates but her parents begged her to get back with me. Literally begged her.
@bamesjond0069 how are you mature if you have more in common with 18 year old? you would be married by now if you actually were into serious relationship?
@Yyyyu wym? I've literally had girls proposition me for marriage (not propose but ask me to) but as a man with options im not going to moronically get married to the wrong girl because of my age. Men dont have a biological clock like women. Maybe you dont know but you can pull down your pants and see... men and women are different. 😳 shocking i know.
@bamesjond0069 but if a guy is of high quality than he would be married in his late 20s or early 30s because he would be in long term relationship unless he only want sex like you are not getting married because you have many option it clearly show that you are using those option for sex rather than being in long term relationship
But women can have kids even in their early 40s and men fertility also decrease with age Erectile dysfunction in common among old guys and they also have wrinkles grey hair which is not attractive. I just don't see any appeal in them also them being into young woman mean that they got some problem
@Yyyyu as a man with options why would i choose a woman who is 40 when i can choose a woman who is much younger? Why would i buy a 5 year old dented car when i have the option to buy a brand new one and they have the same price? Its just common sense.
And I've been single for awhile. I dated one girl for a year and she lied about her past. Then i was single again for awhile and dating someone new just for a couple months. Because i didn't marry a stranger im not interested in a relationship? Wtf?
@bamesjond0069 think about it you were a quality guy who meet his long term girlfriend in med school and ended up marrying her after both of you become doctor. Guys who have option but want long term relationship usually are in one
@bamesjond0069 well there is reason for it maybe you like her being ambitious and you have more in common with her or you just happened to fall in love with her (because it is more common for 34 year old to meet other 34 year old)
@Yyyyu not really. Men make the most money in their 30s and 40s. I have far more access to very attractive women now than i did at 24. Why would i choose from a small selection when i can choose from a big selection?
@bamesjond0069 you would only attract gold digger lol what is the point? She would cheat on you and you would have dead bedroom problem or divorce (end up losing half of your property)
@bamesjond0069 maybe you are ugly so you were not able to get girls in early 20s and now you only get gold digger lol because you want serious relationship. you are literally using these girls for sex haha it should not be able more option but about falling in love.
@Yyyyu Stop your annoying and NO 29 YEAR OLD MAN WANTS YOU! A 28 year year old woman is way better body and physical shape then you. Most 21 year olds are fat because they don't know how to cook a fresh cook meal instead you young girls go to McDonald's. 21 year old woman are useless!
@Yyyyu Sorry I tough you were somebody else. I am 28 and my 29 year old husband left me for a 19 year old girl. Sorry I owe you an apology I tough you were some other 21 year old that is dating a 29 year old man. I very sorry
@bamesjond0069 No at that time when I was 23 why had class now a days 23 year olds get drunk party and inresponsible and mommy and daddy had to pay for everything.
@Alwayreckles93 i agree in general. I date younger to avoid that. in my opinion whether a girl is a party girl or was a party girl makes no difference. Same thing in terms of quality. These days its so common my goal is to catch a girl before she becomes a party girl. For example my current girlfriend i met her at 18. Her mom was very strict and make her go to church and school and no fun. She literally said "i want sex drugs and fun" however she never had any of that. So i stole her away and have her in a monogamous relationship, having a drink with dinner on the weekend, having hobbies but still being responsible going to church keeping house all that. So i saved her from all that. she's thanked me because she realized her mom was up her butt too much but she just had some different ideas about life and didn't really want to throw it all away and do the stuff she said. So tbh i think how things are she's pretty quality. Vs some girl is a party girl and then decides she wants to settle down at 28... no thanks. That is lowest of low quality in my opinion.
Lol don't worry but you won't find me with a old guy. Actually old men had sexually harassed me when I was 13 actually so any kind of age gap make me very uncomfortable I just think that guy is creepy pedo.
@bamesjond0069 lol if her mother was actually responsible than she won't date a old guy. actually she would be in college and working on her future. Her mother is irresponsible.
@bamesjond0069 also you are forgetting that old men would retire let's say a 18 year old is dating a 40 year old she would be 40 when he retire. so she would have to work not only that woman live longer than men so she would also have to be his care taker not only that she would probably be widow in her 50s Or early 60 so spending decades alone
@bamesjond0069 also not working is dangerous especially if you are dating men with fetish for Younger girls he can leave you for young woman anytime. which would mean that you would be on streets
@bamesjond0069 think about it how can i consider older guy more successful than me if he is only successful because of his age lol a guy in his early 30s earning more than me mean nothing. It is better to date someone of same age and grow with them. You won't have to be their care taker either
Lying about your age just makes you seem like a shallow pervert. Its pathetic and it shows how superficial you really are. Its kinda like a woman who says she won't date men who makes less than 150,000 a year.
There is a saying a man who only dates 18 yr olds will only dump you for another 18 yr old once you turn 25.
A 30 yr old is too old for a 18-20 yr old girl. On average , a 30 yr old would relate better to someone who is a bit more knowledgeable than a teenager such as 21 or above.
as you get older, There will be a point in life where you will realize that you’re not gonna be able to relate to teenagers Anymore. The older you get , the less you would have in common with women much much younger than you
I think you are wrong. it depends on how the 30 yrold looks, when I was 30 while driving some girls pull next to me and asked how old I was , I said how old you think I am they said 22. it depends how you look too I think
@dvc0006 looks won’t sustain a relationship. You need to be able to have enough in common and have meaningful conversation. A relationship mainly sustained by looks never tend to move toward marriage
@dvc0006 She's a gold digger chasing after a 29 year old man. I say a 28 year old woman has a lot more in common with a 29 year old man rather then a stupid , 23 year old college whore.
Are you serious 23, Is there a specific why Aren't dating a 28 year old real woman instead of a child? What is a 28 year old woman not good enough for you?
@Ayanna240 There is something seriously wrong with you if you think it's okay for a 29 year old man to date a 23 year old. A 29 year old man should be dating 27 ,28 year old real mature woman. A 29 year old only wants a 23 year old woman for sex not for marriage wife only sex nothing else. Most 28 year old woman are in better body shape and look way more younger then some 23 year olds.
@Ayanna240 Well the human brain isn't doing fully developed until the age of 25. So No 23 year old little girl and a 29 year old grown man is disgusting. This 29 year old man is better off with a 28 year old woman that can actually connect with him and have more things in common. A 23 year old wants to drink , Party and whore around unlike 28 ,29 year old woman are the best!
@Alwayreckles93 okay first off, calm down and don't talk to me like that. You are being really rude and inconsiderate.
The reason why I am dating her is because she is a great woman and we have a lot in common in terms of values, goals and communication. Something that I found borderline impossible with a lot of women my age. A lot of women my age don't spare me much of a look and are terrible with being upfront and opt for being ghosts and indirect and don't respect boundaries. So that has been my experience with women my age. We are both consenting adults, her parents love me and she tells me constantly that I am great and I treat her right.
This sounds more like a you problem @Alwayreckles93 Bottom line, I used to be apprehensive about age, especially to women young enough to be my sister's age and the possible maturity level. However, this has been the healthiest relationship I have had and I want to be a better man and grow with her for as long as it goes.
You saying that I am just using her for sex because she is young is making it come off as I am a shady manipulator which I am not. That is not the case in the slightest and you can go fuck yourself.
@ShadezMcgee The "using her for sex" is only when you see a 40 yr old dating a 18-20 yr old girl. They have absolutely nothing in common but just appreciate each other for the sex. 29 yr old dating a 23 yr old , may still have a lot in common.
@Ayanna240 if you want to look at it that way, sure. Could also look at the flipside as the woman possibly being a gold digger.
Or reframe it as maybe the young woman does like the older guy legitimately. Consenting adults can make their own decisions.
That is why I called her out on he projection and answered her question on why I am dating a woman who she deemed guys my age only look for young women for sex which is not the case from me. She doesn't know jack about me and I was not going to let her get away with that bullshit.
Why am I not dating women my age? Excuse me? There is no law saying I have too, first off. Secondly, just because older women are supposedly fully matured since the brain is fully developed at 25 doesn't mean shit either. Some still have the princess mentality or act like brats where as some younger ones don't which is my case.
@Ayanna240 Oh please I look way better than you and these guy should be with a woman like him same age. Not a useless pest all woman your age are useless I bet you don't know how to clean cook much less make a man's stomach happy.
ShadeMcGee Stop mucking 28 year old beautiful woman! How dare you say woman your age don't respect boundaries. You man knew to be with us every second love us. No woman your age are not clingy !
The reason why relationships with huge age differences tend to be so uncommon is because
firstly, 40 something yr old men are not as attractive as 30 something yr old men. Secondly, the typical average 40 yr old will tend to have little to nothing in common with the typical 22 yr old. Thirdly, Young people are looking for someone they can grow old with. You can't grow old with someone who is already old.
@ShadezMcgee I do think that it is certainly possible for people with huge age gaps to love each other. But you also need to acknowledge the fact that there are a lot of sex diggers out there who purely date women based off of looks. Reality is, the typical 40 yr old has nothing in common with an 18 yr old girl. Lets be totally honest here. Only upon a very rare occasion would a 40 yr old be falling for an 18 yr old girl.
@Alwayreckles93 what the hell are you talking about? I never mucked 28 year old women as a whole. I have dated women my age, YOU immediately jumped on my comment when I gave the age of my girlfriend when I said she was younger than me, immediately implying that I sought younger women intentionally when that is not the case because I just want sex.
I am with her because I connect with her on the characteristics and values I seek as a man looking for a partner. God forbid the women my age I dated ultimately didn't click with me. We found each other and it got us here to the one year mark. Way longer relationship with women that were my age. Nothing against them at all. Just didn't work. I don't care how young a woman is or how close to age she is in me. I look for accountability, goals, values, communication and whether she makes me happy and feel good. My girl does all of that and that is all that matters to me. She may be 29 +/- 1 year, but I don't care.
Age does not automatically make you better, so pump the brakes and get off your high horse. You are coming off as petty and shallow over a difference of opinion. You have stated your opinion and I can tell this is going to be beating a dead horse with you.
ShadeMcgee You have better relationship with a woman your same age that have more to offer at the table that a stupid 23 year old girlfriend of yours does not have. You do have a point you are not with that 23 year old whore for the sex. Your girlfriend is flat tits and a flat ass , So she is useless to give you sex. A 29 year old woman is way more sexy and mature. And way better then stupid 23 year old.
@Ayanna240 Get your nasty vagina out of this conversation is only between me and this 29 year old man that needs to get back with his 29 year old ex. You are so wrong 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.
@Ayanna240 I am not harassing anyone you dumb bitch. I only tell people their truths. My conversation is with this 29 year old man and I not with you gold digger. You only want a 29 year old because you want his money or you have daddy issues. I bet you can't cook , clean make a man happy.
ShadezMcgee Well maybe you should dump that useless trash of 23 year old whore and try dating a 28 year d with class who probably owns a home has an astablish career. You will connect much better with a 28 year old lady rather then a 23 year old whore.
@Alwayreckles93 Jesus Christ, if you aren't a troll, you are definitely acting like a neurotic psycho bitch. On the off chance you are not a troll, I will answer your responses.
What could YOU as a 28 year old woman offer me? From the comments and your reactions here, you are divorced and a single mother, two strikes already. If you were such a catch with a lot to offer, I am sure you would still be happily married.
Next, my girlfriend, sorry to break it to you, is properly stacked. Nice booty and a size 34DD. She ain't flat by any means. She was a virgin when we met and she is no longer one now because she gave it to me. She has her own place, her own job and wants to grow with the man in her life which is currently me.
She as a woman brings to our relationship support, femininity, trust, accountability, humor and peace of mind. Helps that she can cook and wants to do things for me and make me feel good without my asking. By no means do I intend on dumping the best woman I have shared my time with so far. She is not trashy by any means.
I will not go back to any of the 28 year olds I dated because it is not worth what I have now with my girl. To go with that, I refuse to settle and be miserable with women that I know I won't get what I seek by staying with them.
if the only nice things that you can say about your girlfriend are about how big her tits and ass are or how she can cook and clean for you. Then you are clearly a misogynist.
A man who loves his wife should think she is beautiful for her inner character and who she is. And be more concerned about what he can do to fulfill her needs. Instead of rambling about what size bra she wears or how much she cooks and cleans for you around the house.
True love is where you will sacrifice yourself to serve her. Not constantly thinking about what you can gain from her.
@Ayanna240 you are putting words iny my mouth. I was only answering the statements that were being falsely said about her after she was being trash talked by our other contributor to my comment thread here, but by your logic I am a misogynist for not only correcting a horrible statement directed at my girlfriend that NEITHER of you know by giving her the real measurements, but at the same time commenting on her skills of cooking? She can cook, that is awesome. She is beautiful and sexy, that is great. And I also said she brought me peace of mind, laughter and humor, trust, comfortability, accountability, and femininity to the relationship. I love that. I am with her for a reason and I do everything in my power to make sure her needs are met, so don't come in here spouting crap you know fuck all about.
You are grasping at straws by calling me a misogynist. If that were the case I would have never included those other bits in my last comment. So your assessment is incorrect as well.
Shade Mcgee It would be a good idea if you break up with that young gold digger of yours that is only chasing after your wallet and get back with one of your ex girlfriend from high school. I don't understand why you would consider dating a 27-30 year old woman that actually cna clean cook and take care of you. I am tired of man your age dating younger woman when woman my age (29) have a lot more to offer! What is a 28 year old beautiful lady are we not good enough for you?
ShadeMcgee A young body and face isn't good enough if she can't be house wife material I bet she goes out drinking clubing getting drunk. Go get your self a well worth 27-30 years old that can actually serve you. Not a little girl! I bet your girlfriend's boobs are fake.
ShadezMcgee You are example that woman mature a lot more quick then man. I wonder why you can't handle a woman your age. Name calling me with insults wow. You aren't young any more GROW UP you are almost a 30 year old grown ass man not a young man! I suggest you get yourself a lotion treatment for your wrinkles. You should be a shame of your self talk down on a woman you are very disrespectful!
You have just proved me that you are a man child. Calling me a Scypcho bitch you don't know nothing about me and Don't you dare mock trash talk about being a single mother. You want to know why I'm a divorce? Because my ex-husband happens to be your same age and he left me for a 19 year old whore! I wasn't my fault I made sure I clean , Make fresh cook meals and what all married couples do. Bit I guess you man don't realize the hidden gems 💎 you have and exchange us for trashy young whore! I bet your ex girlfriend were hidden gems 💎 you had but you are way to stupid to realized it. If you were with a woman your age by now I bet you be planning a wedding and you would have fresh cook meals but no you choose a young whore later if you end up married to this whore don't complain why you find yourself eating McDonald's all because you made the stupid choice to married a young gold digger that can't even cook a simple dish at home. I am sick of man choosing younger woman over us. You don't want the gem you want trash as a wife trash if what you are going to get don't complain latter why your life sucks when you are a divorce.
@Ayanna240 Are you stupid I said a 28 year old woman and a 29 year old man are perfect couple! A 29 year old wouldn't be interested in dating your slutty ass.
Don’t bother. Nothing but problems. Immaturity is through the roof plus sometimes they lie about their age too and then they play the age card and blackmail you for money. Stick with mid 20s.
You have a good head on your shoulders , Scycologist and studies have proven and show that the brain isn't fully developed not until the age of 25. I know this sites can be out of control I am actually 28 I think a 35 year old man is way to old for me , The age ranged I would date is 27-29 year old man. The whole thing about oh I'm so mature for my age isn't necessary true. If my future 18 year old daughter wanted to be involve in a relationship with a 25 year old man I be worry and concern step up and wouldn't allowed it she can get mad at me all she wants but I will not allowed a grown man take advantage of her ruin her life.
@Ayanna240 Your STUPID! Just plain STUPID! Stop living in a fantasy get it threw your head a 29 year old man would rather be with a 28 year old instead of a stupid 23 year old well only for sex of course not for marriage.
@Ayanna240 I don't is understand what 29 year old man see in woman your age. A 29 year old man should be ether with a 27-29 year old woman you know someone like that is the same as him not a useless 23 year old. Woman ages 27-29 know how to clean cook and have so so much in common they don't need trash like you when they have nice good look woman their same age.
most old mens who date young girls are immature and of low quality so I don't see any point in dating a low quality guy with fetish rather than growing with my guy
