Is it ok or is it annoying if your girlfriend asks for a call everyday?

[Anonymous]

[Nik1hil]

What NO?

If she is my girlfriend..
We are a team.. And she is my partner..

She deserves one call every day for a status report on me... And also her status report to me...

I think problem is.. You extend call more than 5 minutes..

[John8298]

Tldr No.

However, it depends on who it is. I am a guy that doesn't like phone calls no matter who. I either text or talk in person. I, though, am very introverted. I doubt you'll get an answer out of him if he doesn't like it, because if you are asking here he's probably a pleaser.

You could ask the guy nicely and if you don't blow up at a reply and respect the answer, he'll likely stay honest. Just like a, " Do you mind my calls every day? Please be honest with me because I don't mind not calling so frequently if you don't like it. We could maybe spend some more time in person if you prefer."

[Victoria913]

If they have time to be on social media then yes I feel they should want to at least acknowledge me at some point in a 24 hour day! Just to say, hey I am super busy, still thought if you, will be in touch later in the day (even if that means midnight) or something along those lines. I don’t need a play by play or location and roll call but at least it shows I am more important than checking in on social media!

[Alyssa11]

Isn’t that the point of being in a relationship and having someone.. it’s only annoying if you don’t have a life outside of that person. But it should be normal to miss them and want to catch up with them every day.

[Interstate]

I would say unreasonable. There is no reason for a guy to have to call his girlfriend everyday. But also, there is no reason SHE can't call him, too. To put it all on him and EXPECT it is selfish and greedy. She obviously has no thoughts of his feelings, and needs to wake up.

[Question_091]

I'll only agree to it if I'm into her, but everyday of every hour, even past midnight, huge no.

But it may depends on her reasoning, such as her being sincere vs paranoid. So once day is more than enough, I wouldn't mind just a text or two either though.

[JackSmy]

Calling and texting, EVERY DAY, is just assumed, because I am with her, because she is AMAZING!!! I can't wait to be with her, and share dinner, and kiss, and drink wine, and share a movie, cuddling together!
How is it "annoying" to anyone that really loves, and cares about another, to call, and text?

[topramen1565]

That would be very annoying. I got out of a relationship like that and I loved her a ton but wanting to call everyday is being too clingy and dependent on a person.

It's okay to need someone but being dependent on them for your happiness is a bad idea. It gets unhealthy for both parties.

[Mikeysoda]

Its a little bit much if not natrual. Because then we are not talking because we genuinely want to talk. We are talking on schedule and that can ruin things. Sometimes scheduling stuff can help. His depends.

[Finchie40]

Be ok , if she is my girlfriend I would want to hear from her as much as possible , I didn’t commit to her to be single , people that need space from a committed partner are people they should really reconsider staying with honestly

[tatianamay]

Depends on the duration and the number of calls per day

[qwert1234]

I call my girlfriend almost everyday, exception is if either or both of us are swamped at work.
I don't care if it's a 10 minute call to 2 hours, as long as I can ask how her day was, how she was and tell her I love her - that's all that matters.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Nope, not annoying If I had a girl, I want her to tell me what times
she likes to receive a call from me

[Dazed0N0Confused]

Everyone's different. I personally don't need it, my boyfriend does. You just have to compromise.

[ToastyOats]

I really want a woman smart enough to raise children with. If the relationship has one, or more, entirely new exceptional humans as the the goal then Ill wear an F'ing beeper! If your just calling up to check in on our childless relationship or ask me to pickup a milk on the way home then... Yeah, ill be looking around.

[genericname85]

absolutely fucking yes! i mean that's my opinion. i'll text you all day. but talking on the phone is just super annoying to me. either hang out in person or text.

[sushmie]

Communicating on different topics and feelings are important. As long as texting got comprehension there is no need to talk, in my opinion.

[genericname85]

@sushmie i prefer to just meet up if something is important and not clear. i just hate talking on the phone.

[sushmie]

Thats a very nice gesture and that is what mentally matured person does and should do.

[genericname85]

@sushmie i'll take that as a compliment :D thanks.

[sushmie]

Sure. you're welcome!

[sushmie]

I found out that there exists people who really dont know how to communicate in text and wouldnot like to talk on phone and meeting in person seems to be like a full moon and all they want is LOVE and COMMITMENT

[genericname85]

@sushmie i don't know. talking on the phone is just awkward as fuck to me. in person is a whole other story.

[muscularbumblebee]

That’s annoying af, if a guy did that I mean, if it’s a long distance relationship 1-2 times a week maybe

[EmbraceThePain]

Nope, I’d talk to her everyday. I think it’s quite nice to talk to someone everyday that has your best interests at heart

[Anonymous]

In a serious long-term relationship there are usually a lot of things to talk about at least daily, so it doesn't seem unusual to me and happens naturally, but it shouldn't be a condition of the relationship.

[Adam1978]

I would question why? If I have no new information to give, why would I be the one calling? I don't want phone calls. I want physical presence. So we can actually do stuff. Either that or I want to go to my quite place and relax and simply be alone.

[jenfin87]

i would think if she's ur girlfriend why wouldn't u call at least once a day.

[TacosRAwesome]

As a person who hates phonecalls, I think it is annoying.

[Aquariusmystery]

Personally I don’t do that but it’s nothing wrong with it. We call every other day roughly

[Caunsos]

Sure with understanding some times people busy and might miss a day. I would if a week can go by with out contact and no warning there an issue also i would want them to call me some of the time.

[MartinGoulet]

Asking for a call every day is a sign of insecurity from the girl. Guys wants to be trusted, but the insecurity feels like the trust is not there. The best option: both should alternate the call, one day the girl, next one the boy, etc.

[Phoenix98]

She doesn’t need to ask if she wants to talk just call.

Id be fine with once a day.

[Anonymous]

Do people not text their partner everyday? If he is not your sextoy, why should not be normal to talk with him or text him every day at least for 10 mins? If he lives with you, then there is no need for this

[TheSpaceGnome]

If she isn't spamming the fuck out of my phone, we aren't friends, let alone dating.

[Larry30]

As long as she talks and not just sit there and expect me to generate all the conversation, that is fine.

[Anonymous]

I'd say it largely depends on her. Is she the type of person you look forward to a call from. Or do you look at your phone and say " jesus! What does she want now"?

[Hairylegs222]

I wanna hear my woman's voice so of course that's fine :)

[insignificant_person]

It depends... I would find it cute but maybe few weeks later it would be annoying. And some other guy would find it annoying. Ask your boyfriend to be honest if he would be really happy to have a call every day with you.

[Joshua0213]

Id be happy with it as long as I wasn't doing anything at the time but if I'm doing something its annoying

[Alejandro3000]

Asking for it is so odd when you should be calling, are you that high above him you feel embarassed to call him yourself.

[dray995]

It’s fine. Open communication is a good thing to have in a relationship.

[Browneye57]

It really depends on your situation. Why aren't you actually SEEING each other every day? That's what's really important. Calls are fine, but texting is a giant fail. For a lot of reasons.

[IncognitoBandito]

Depends on the length of the calls and what we talk about.

[TheOracle10]

If I am busy it is annoying. I'd rather nonverbal communications or just meeting in person.

[Mimi_ox]

Me and my man talk everyday. I mean I don't have to ask to call him lol.. i think if you in a relationship or at least a serious one, you should talk every day 💕

[Sil01courious]

I have seen couple who like it and couples who dislike it. I guess it has to be natural and not feel like an obligation if it happens everyday.

[rcljr]

If her fingers aren’t broken she can damn well dial a phone too

[WhiteWolf69]

When I do have a girlfriend I enjoy calling and talking to her everyday.

[humanearth]

Yes, thats a another reason I don't own a cellphone

[JSmuve]

Annoying as fuck. How about a text a day instead? A text a day keeps the woman's neediness at bay.

[Babewithplan]

Incel

[JSmuve]

@Babewithplan that was needlessly insulting. How very childish of you

[Babewithplan]

And your original response isn’t? 😂

[JSmuve]

@Babewithplan well my original response is in-line with the sentiments of many of the women's opinions below. So unless you want to level the same insult at them as well.

[ThisGirlHasNoName]

It really depends on you both. If you find it annoying then it’s not ok. And you should probably tell her this, nicely.
And figure out why you don’t feel like talking to her as much.

[Anonymous]

I think its annoying. Give him some space, let him breathe

[innerman]

Texting everyday is sweet.. calling everday’ 😳. thats toxic

[JosyJosy]

I think it's okay, especially in a long distance.

[pleasestopthis]

Annoying, it feels like a chore.

[pink_and_inlove]

It shouldn’t be annoying

[pink_and_inlove]

You shouldn’t have to ask for a call everyday though

[TheAfrikan]

Yeah it can be. No need to call me each single second.

[Vietnemin]

I’d rather just see her in person.

[exitseven]

I think it is annoying but I would do it for her.

[SensuousPleasures]

No out of concern of your well being it’s perfectly alright.

[IveGotNoName]

Seems like a bit much.

[Anonymous]

I love it some men dont :)

[mexicansenor]

Annoying should just speak when you both want

[Wise4myage]

I would find that annoying after a while.

[Yourfriend2021]

It's fine, it means she cares.

[slatyb]

If we're a couple, once a day seems about right.

[Fuentes]

If were dating ok i guess

[collie22]

i look forward to a certain call at night

[ItsMeItsMe1989]

It's a little needy hun

[Vivian7k]

No not at all