I would say "personality" rather than "mind" - it's great if she's super smart, but that isn't necessary by any means. What's far more important to me is that the has a positive personality - that she's not constantly angry, upset, depressed, or offended, as so many women are. That's FAR more important to me than if she's "smart" or "educated." Obviously I like a nice body, but I'd happily take a girl with a 4/10 body and a 9/10 personality than a girl with a 9/10 body and a 4/10 personality.
Mind and body are not separate things. The body is a reflection of the mind/mental health. But to really see this you have to be able to see through the fake cosmetic bull and makeup. Don't give women credit for that, ever. The body is a small portion of who a person is tho, if they have anything to offer besides looks.
They are a reflection of the mind too but could be the mind of PR management in combination with the mind of the subject. There's a reason why magazine covers in one culture are very different from covers in another.
Basically, both are equally important, but with more emphasis on "mind". As in, although I'd prefer someone who isn't a chubby, she doesn't need to be a "supermodel" either. In fact, if she really was the latter, I'd "fear" that she'd be high-maintenance. Far more than I'd be able to keep up.
The body will catch my eye and my attention. But the mind will catch my eye and keep my attention. The heart will catch my heart, catch my attention, and catch my love
Your update is nonsensical. Of course people who are more attracted to mind have rejected someone based on their body. Your question was which is more attractive. Your question was not which is attractive exclusively. Because your update seems to imply that if one is attracted to mind then there should be no consideration taken for the body whatsoever.
That's very true. And I think you're implying that it's a sad thing when someone is judged only on their body. Which I completely agree with. There is so much depth to the person that is missed when they're only looking at the superficial surface
I seek those who can work to my intellectual level My exes both could do that, their attractiveness was nice albeit mainly to outside observers who couldn't understand how we co-existed with their lower placement on the plains of intelligence but looks were and still are entirely secondery to me
I feel like yes, her body is amazing and she very pretty. But it doesn't define who she is as a person and I would prefer to get the know the brain that is attached rather than defining a person by body alone.
Again - both. If she has an ideal "mind" but doesn't attract me physically she's getting friendzoned. If she's just gorgeous but otherwise undeveloped, I am not interested in having another talk with her.
Yeah, it can balance it out a bit, but not with being overweight - for me, that's a galleon-sized red flag.
Let's say she's like a 6/10 or 5/10 with a great personality, although I'd usually rather go for those 7/10 and above. In this case, it can act as a compensation.
Both. If there was some super hot girl but she would be mean and stupid, I wouldn't find her attractive and I wouldn't like to talk to her. When there would be ugly but intelligent girl, I would like to talk with her but she wouldn't attracts me. So, both are important (and not only body, but also face and hair are important for me).
The reason why it was so easy to pick 'mind', instead of body, is my age! You give me a woman talking about science, philosphy, politics, etc,.. then she has my attention.
My problem has always been that I'm attracted to the mind more then the body. Both are necessary but the mind more so for me which makes things difficult because I have to get to know a woman before real attraction starts.
Without a mind a body is nothing!!! Because you dont think and are smart with your body, is body is just a body a physical thing that fades away with time. Mind and intelligence stays with you always.
I'm not too picky on the body. For some reason it's the face i'm drawn to tbh. The body is always a bonus. I dont need the sharpest tool but I want a solid attitude and a golden heart.
What do you do with a hot body, if she is pain as hell? In the other hand a not really hot girl can be so good in many other things, you don't want to let her out from your bed.
mind because I've literally lost attraction for someone on getting to know them whether that's because they're just a bitch or because they have traits that I don't like such as fussy eater etc.
I'd rather be with someone who's hot and dumb as hell but with a good personality, than someone who's hot and smart as hell but with a bad personality.
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Neither. Not interested anymore. My own happiness is ALL that matters.🤙🏼
A combo of both. She needs to have a body within certain preferences. but if her mind is off her body won't matter. usually see her non verbal signals first that gives signals about how her mind is. is that off, she doesn't have a chance.
@pjf1958 thank you for checking my spelling. Can I do the same thing with you or would that be like publicly berating you? Wouldn't want to stick my hand in that snake pit 🤣
Both. She doesn't have to have a crazy nice body which is pretty unrealistic in my opinion. The girl in that picture is too skinny for my taste but she has a nice face. Mind is really important because I won't tolerate a bitch.
I think it depends on the girl. I feel in love with a girl who I think I was very much so more attracted bro her body more than anything else. And then I got to know her and we'll I caught feelings.
“Mind” is a weird spiritual type of word. So point taken. My YouTube playlist is full of female comedians I find very attractive simply for making me laugh. I jerk off to them yet they’re far from magazine models…
I'm glad you used god instead of God. If you had said it about God, I would have answered you according to the word of God. God gave me a lady with the most beautiful mind and body. The two go together
The word proof means you believe God to be a scientific theory that needs to be proven. He is not theory. He is the father of all theories.
I would say this though, God and Jesus would continue to be myth to a person who doesn't draw close to God by true repentance and acceptance of Jesus as the Christ.
Jesus is the author of faith and its finisher. You can't believe without receiving Him but if you receive Him, He will give you faith.
A lot of christians teach believe in Jesus and it is right in a sense if you are reaching out for salvation that can't be lost. But if you receive Jesus you start the journey to salvation. John1:12
My struggle is believing something without a shred of evidence. Why is that good? If you were to buy a house you’d want it inspected and not take it on faith, right?
Can they really? And even if they can, someone made them that good and someone made the one who made them good and if you follow that thought to the very end, you see God.
I picked body because that is so much of what initial attraction is. I honestly don't think you can have one without the other. I think it's a scale we each balance in our own way
I’m attracted to both I’m not going to date a hot idiot but at the same time I probably wouldn’t date a genius who I didn’t think was attractive so a good mix is what I strive for
Bah haha sure bud and if you want to go the shaming tactic route, I bet you are a pathetic virgin who lives in his parents basement and the only female you will ever get to fuck is one you trick into it by playing the friend card and tricking her on the rebound. Don’t be a retard.
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