Would it be weird if I tell my boyfriend that I’ve been trying to make friends on Bumble (girl friends)?

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It’s actually kind of working out this time :) last time everyone was so dry lol I just have them on snapchat but now I believe that I found people that I could actually be friends with I found 2 girls that I have stuff in common with I hope that we could be friends they seem great I just don’t want my mom to know that I met them on bumble because I feel like she’ll tell people.

Mofunfour20 · Accepted Answer

Then you should be on a site that isn't for dating. We both know thats why he would think its weird. If you told me you were on bumble for any reason then ita clearly you dont respect me. I think the only reason you're on it is because you know he deleted the app. Meet people in person if you want girlfriends, i wouldn't believe one bit of your story. Dating site for girlfriends? Nah she on there for options, stop the 🧢🧢🧢🧢

ZackBan · Accepted Answer

It's only weird if you make it weird.
That means don't build it up and bring it up as if you're doing something wrong. Just casually open bumble when with him and start swiping and when he asks what's up tell him you're trying to make a few new friends and all that you explained here.
If he's not an insecure person it shouldn't bother him and if he is insecure it should bother YOU.

JennBITx · Accepted Answer

That’s great that you find friends. I have noticed since I am no longer in high school, my friends circle is getting smaller and smaller. Hard to trust people

Minahh · Accepted Answer

Not weird at all. I've actually tried Bumble for making friends as well but unfortunately I haven't found many girls on there.

ohshee · Answer

I think you should have friends no matter what no matter if there it's a girl or a guy there's no reasons why you can't talk to guys or girls and I don't think it matters if you meet them on Bumble here or in your hometown a good friendship is hard to find somebody who is loyal it's very beautiful thing when you have a good good friend and you can talk about anything and everything and not worrying about it going anywhere else true friendship is hard to find

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I don't think there's anything wrong at all with what you're doing. In fact, I think it's wonderful! But you need to change your gender settings right away so you don't keep getting guys in your potential matches.

And yes, you should tell your boyfriend.

GingerGuy · Answer

They actually have a setting for that I think (friends only)? Unless I'm thinking of a different app? So I wouldn't find it weird.

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

I think the opposite would be true. It's nice for people to have friends. I think he will probably be pleased for you.

Wiredone · Answer

I don't think it matters how you make friends. Just be careful doing it on line. Don't let your guard down until you really get to know them. Don't reveal personal information that can be used against you at some point.

Handybody129 · Answer

Just curious, why does it matter where you found them?

slatyb · Answer

It will be weird only if he makes it weird. If he does, then he’s not the man for you.

James_Likes_PPL · Answer

As a guy I can say yes. Specifically becuase he would feel like he’s not being enough for you. Why do so badly need more friends? Does your boyfriend meet all your emotional and social needs?

Caliguy88 · Answer

I don't know. I moved states once and tried to find guy friends on there with no luck. Girls might have better luck. I have a female friend who moved out of state and met some girlfriends on there.

Avicenna · Answer

As Long as You’re being transparent about it, I don’t see a problem.

Surely · Answer

As long as he believes that you are only interested in finding female friends and not looking for guys.

bannacookies · Answer

Its not odd. And if your boyfriend had a problem with it, he'd be acting insecure.

anylolone · Answer

It's not going to work. Don't tell him, he'll think you are stupid.

Deku2009 · Answer

Yeah completely fine a true test of ones love is being open minded about normal friends

Starman5 · Answer

I'm glad you found girlfriend. It wouldn't be weird if you told your boyfriend that

Abdulwahh · Answer

Yes lol he will find it strange because bumble is where girls meet boys

UnknownGagsUser · Answer

I thought it’s a dating app? Lol..

Lanadelrey26 · Answer

Lol I'm on the bff version too

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Yeah your almost 20, I don't see it being an issue

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

That’s great!!!

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