Do incels actually exist?

[CasaNorba]

nowadays this term gets thrown around a lot. whenever guys who are below average on looks and have history of being unsuccessful with women he will automatically get labeled an incel. but of course if you think about it unattractive folks have existed since the dawn of humanity and the fact that the world is overpopulated right now is a clear indication that even unattractive people had the chance to reproduced. of course you had the chance to reproduce then there was a 99% that someone was attracted to you enough to have sex with. hell I when to high school with a lot of dudes who fit the incel physiques yet they had relationships and lots of girls used to drool over them

aside from that if there was one thing almost all the incels I've met had in common was a self pitying and miserable attitude. I bet that even a guy who looks like Johnny Depp would be doomed to be repulsing if he had the attitude that incels be packing. in fact before the incel community was shut down on Reddit I remember I lurked there out of curiosity and boy were these guys so damn negative on themselves. I even made the mistake to help out a few of them view life a little more positive just to get nothing but a truckload of downvotes in return. this video right here explains their attitude better...

so all this makes me wonder, do incels actually exist? can their looks really be that bad that is preventing them to find love? or is it just their attitudes that actually make them incels?

yes, its possible for someone to be ugly enough not to date

no, its all in their head and attitude

other (please explain)

[fonduegirl]

haha lol we don't describe incels in physical description. why? because the term is often tossed here and there online, and on forums you most likely haven't seen the the argumentor. That is, we only attribute it to men who want pussy and are bitter about it, because they think whining would help. Putting fellow men down would make the ladies drop panties. Fighting feminism would make them look superior.

What they forget to take in account is even if the other side is wrong, insane in case of toxic feminism, if you stoop to their level - you're no better.

[fonduegirl]

I can't emphasis this enough for both genders - if you're ugly and confident, you're still charming!

[CasaNorba]

yeah looks are only first impression after all

[fonduegirl]

Yup.

[fonduegirl]

Trust me, if an attractive person is shaming the opposite gender by overgeneralizing and what nots, taking stats too far for his own good... is incel

[fonduegirl]

Attraction is about looks, relationships are based on more

[fonduegirl]

Thanks robot

[NicoletteXO]

There does need to be a certain level of physical attraction in order to maintain interest in someone. But a person could never be considered an incel purely because they are non good looking. The attitude is everything. There are plenty of men who could bag women (even though they are not good looking), if they developed a spine, stopped whingeing, made something of themselves, and provided something of use to themselves, society and women.

[The-Wise-Phoenix]

It's probably both.
Some guys have trouble with women due to their appearance and others are men who really are disenchanted by the way so many women behave today.
One of my co workers told me he has trouble meeting women. He is out of shape and overweight. And his last girlfriend cheated on him.
I believe as far as appearance goes almost anyone can improve their looks with good health and good hygiene and a style of clothing that suits them.

[CasaNorba]

If I'm not going crazy I think during my blue pill days I once remember reading a Dating Coach's article claiming that Brad Pitt himself was technically an incel when he first got into Hollywood. supposed he was still a virgin and during those days he would always ask the filming crews for dating advices.

and as far as I remember Brad Pitt was never below average on looks. so I'm guessing that maybe his attitude was overshadowing him and probably being around hot women in Hollywood all of the time must of helped give him the confidence he was lacking

[Billlewis]

Oh, I guarantee you that we exist... I'm one of them... lol

[Billlewis]

Becoming a full on incel doesn't necessarily have to be perceived as harmful or detrimental to the frustrated beta males who must endure this tormented existence. I've learned to channel my ravenous unfulfilled sexual arousal into a positive source of motivation for pleasing the women whom I interact with from time to time. Pussy free guys should worship and properly appreciate women and respect them, rather than being angry and bitter about their lowly status. We can always masturbate.