I’ve been talking to this guy for about 5 months we hit it off pretty quickly he’s 33 and I’m 22. He is in Florida and I lived in Colorado, my family talked about moving to Florida which was quite a surprise. 5 months later I ended up moving and it was getting pretty serious. The week I got here he decided to book a room for this breakfast inn place. This is when I started to get worried cause why book a hotel room for the first time meeting? I texted him and told him I wasn’t ready for sex and he was chill with it even apologized if booking the room seemed too foward so I went. Shorty after laying in the bed with him he tried rubbing down there I told him I couldn’t and it started getting awkward so I decided to get in the tub he then got in with me and things were fine until he decided to start fingering me and tried having sex again I said I can’t again and that’s when he finally stopped. The next day he dropped me off and texted me “I just got home” at this point I really didn’t know how to feel. I decided to confront him about it saying that I felt weird about the situation. He then apologized and basically summed it up to“ he thought I changed my mind and next time we chill it can be in a place without less temptations” I then just tried to move on, I thought we talked about it and got it out of the way but texting him just wasn’t the same we went from texting all day everyday to barely getting a reply from him. One night his friend started following me on Instagram I then messaged him asking who this is he then started saying that he met him at a concert and he’s chill. It threw me off bc I thought we were basically an item at this point and he didn’t care about his friend following me he even joked about how “ the Florida boys are finding me.”The next day I messaged him and asked him where he’s at telling him I don’t really feel like he’s interested anymore. He then replied the next day and said I was feeling it too it seemed
Was this guy just trying to get it in?
