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True or False: Men love with their eyes and women love with their ears?
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True for men to a degree. They are attracted to a woman through her appearance initially and then they have to screen her properly to see if she is a good woman not just with personality, but with goals and compatibility to see if they are a match. The latter bits I included here do come with men who seek a woman to be by their side. They want the best one and will choose the best one with the traits that they seek.
Women fall in love based on how a man makes them feel. They need to feel attraction for him through his strength and masculinity and confidence in order to feel safe with him. If he does not show signs of being able to withstand conflict or spark attraction with her, she will not give him a second look. She will seem him as weak and unsuitable to be with. She also wants a man with the balls to stand up to her and disagree with her and stay true to himself and his word. Folding to that means he will do so for her and their future kids should they have any.
Women fall in love via emotion and subconsciously while men use visual and logic.
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I love with my elbows
from my experience, women are more flexible with what they are attracted to. For example, an unattractive man can still attract some women if he is funny. But an unattractive woman wouldn't be able to do the same. Men are less flexible with physical attraction.
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I thought men love with their penis🤣🤣
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In all honesty, polls like this on subjective matters are stupid. In reality, all men and women love differently from one another. You may have a man who listens well while another won't lie about whether his S/O looks fat (yes FAT, not phat 😂🤣🤦) in that new dress or outfit. Some men are great listeners ((as mentioned above) these guys tend to be those really nice and attractive dudes like me who end up friend zoned every time cause the woman is afraid of committing to this kind of man). Some men are outright asses. Same thing for women.
Love is more complex than "who does what better and does it mean they are better at loving because of it". I suck at listening to my wife... Does that mean I don't love her? Nope... Not in the slightest. How do I show her I love her without listening? Well, I foster the ability to hang out with girlfriends. There's one woman she's bonded with who is married, and I kept gently telling her "go on and try... Ask her if she'd like to go catch some food somewhere in town. You both could use it. y'all can vent to one another. I know I'm not the best to vent to." and let's face facts... I know the woman's husband... He for sure doesn't listen to her at all. I just suck at listening... That dude just straight doesn't listen at all.
Hope this helps! - 9.2K opinions shared on Dating topic.
False. Anyone who has spent more than 10 minutes on G@G will tell you women very much love with their eyes.
And I can't speak for all guys but I don't care how good she looks if she's saying the wrong things.
I'm going to paraphrase something @Brainsbeforebeauty said on this question she said neither of her husband's were her type physically? How do you think a woman would take that if you said that to her? The simple fact is if I knew a woman thought that way of me then we are done!
What a woman says to me is just as important. - 3.8K opinions shared on Dating topic.
Its both for me. If your beautiful, and you talk like shit and a bitch, I will not give you the time of day. And that goes on the other side too. If your ugly and you talk like shit I won't even acknowledge your ass either. You need to have the looks and mouth to charm me. If you have neither, you got another group of people you can talk to and be with
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It's true men are more visual than women but they still love with their ears as well. A man likes to feel he's taking care of his woman and/or family. He likes to be recognized by his hard work. He wants his woman to tell him he's doing good or look good. Just not the same amount as women.
And as for women they too can be visual. Just not as much as men. And it true we love more with our ears. -
Kind of hard to have a family that way, I mean what dude just look at his squeeze and she hears what from his eyes and next thing you know she's pregnant, well could cut down on STDs but what if he just happens to glance at another woman and he she hears something from his eyes and she gets pregnant instead of his, I'll stick to the old tried and true physical contact that looking at you can get you in serious trouble
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Very confusing results so far, coach. Women are constantly saying that "men are visual creatures" and that women are attracted based on what they hear and feel in their heart. Hmmmmm?
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Not true. Everyone is different and everyone’s taste is different.
whatever happens with the eyes is attrAction.
you know every boy I have ever even liked was with the eyes. I don’t care what they say as long as my eyes are happy. I’m not a boy so it’s not true. -
I don't know I’m just using myself as example: there have been girls who liked me I didn’t like them back even while they were attractive, there were some girls who I liked who weren’t as attractive as others, usually for me it’s completely fxkn random who I’m attracted to, sometimes first sight, sometimes after talking to them.
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Yes men like what they see only then they pursue the woman. It’s all about the visuals for guys at first.
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Most men are happy to fall in love when a ‘perfect looking’ woman shows up. Woman need more boxes ticked to be in love. It isn’t a bad thing it’s maybe a security thing? Woman aren’t going to influence man in the same way a man can a woman.. being that men can cut strings and leave easier then woman can, so it makes it harder for woman to attach in the first place. Ears are the last for woman in my opinion as she needs to see to believe and is less likely to believe hot air.
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Men love with their penis. Women love with their hearts. Everyone SHOULD love with their brains!!!
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And men still wonder how the fake Instagram models get ahead 🙄
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No, I definitely don’t fall in love through my ears. I dunno about other women though. If a man isn’t first attractive to me physically we won’t even get to the part where I can fall in love through his actions/words etc.
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I dont think that all women are blind. Women have to be sexually attracted to their partners
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Men are very visual and women like to have men tell them - like compliments, about the man's feelings for her, how much he is turned on by her, etc.
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In my experience I love with my heart and the guy either doesn’t care or is completely clueless or both.
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In my experience, men like women with an attractive appearance and women like men who listen and respect them. It is proven by different studies that in general men love beautiful women and that women love to be respected and have attention.
I am not that attractive (my opinion), but I had a few attractive girls who were interested in me, due to my kind personality. -
I don't know. I thought guys tend to love more with their hands and dongs and women with their words.
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False.
The way to man's heart is through sandwiches.
I love you baby!!! - 4.8K opinions shared on Dating topic.
I like hearing words of affection but i also need to “see” his actions matching his words
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