Why do I always end up falling in love at first sight with men I have nothing in common with?

First it was my boyfriend years ago.

Now it was a guy at work.

We have nothing to talk about. Lmao. I think he might like me a little cause he has lowkey hit on me before many times and we have locked eyes and stuff 😂.

But its awkward cause there is really nothing to talk about despite this. We have opposite morals and values and our interests are not the same. For example he likes. Nerdy stuff and i like art.
Why do I always end up falling in love at first sight with men I have nothing in common with?
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