Are you looking to get "cuffed" now that cuffing season has arrived?

Question

Wait, you’ve never heard of cuffing season? Where have you been? It's totally a thing! In fact, studies have shown that cuffing season is a phenomenon that affects many of us. If you are single and dating, you should know about it. So what is it? Cuffing season refers to a specific time of year when people become extremely motivated to get "coupled up." It generally occurs from October to March. You know, the cooler months of the year. As the temperature drops, the number of couples rises.

So, Now That You Know “What” and “When,” Let’s Explore the “Why”

Read More: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-dynamics-love/201810/what-is-cuffing-season

Pasiton5 · Accepted Answer

I'm tell you why it's the loneliest time of the year for those alone, single Thanksgiving x mad new years times of coming together sharing the season and end start of a a new cycle or year, it years at ones heart being alone this time of year no family to share it with us like around October lines creeps out slowly to remind you that while most is out enjoying the festivities with loved ones your on out side in rain or snow watching everyone happy warm loved and ask why can't you have that it be a part of also, you try to fight the tears but give in and ū it's the most pain one can experience the weaker minded just end it done become hardened to every one and everything other fall into despair giving in to this emotion of sadness others don't give a damn to them it's just about day on this rock and loneliness be damn give me another bottle of scotch and fuck off, yeah some cuff of at you say ingot too regret it after when in their haste to belong to the happy set and show everyone see I got me a loving man or shee-it, got my baby this year dogg ain't she fine as where she go I'm n bathroom with Tyrone again, they come to realize oops the one they choose is a fucking lunatic and sorry of getting a restraining order have a hell of a time getting rid of their mistake so take the festivities are about to kick of soon but do to is depression misery sorry and do many sad lonely people some probably already contemplating the end the weak minded ones I mean

KingofCups · Accepted Answer

People think they are so self righteous saying things like I would never get into a relationship out of loneliness or desperation. People have physical needs, if you think you're above that, you're just deluded. Is it a long term solution, will you marry them, probably not but its better than sitting at home streaming whatever bullshit entertainment you're wayching on Netflix rn, thinking you're such a 'strong person'. Id 100% rather take a chance on a human being than just interact with a screen and the internet.

Cynicaldreamer · Accepted Answer

No thanks. You're basically fake dating someone.

Let's just call cuffing what it really is: coupling up out of loneliness, desperation, low self esteem, or fear of being judged by others...

How about instead of a fake date, we normalize "real dating?"

Just a thought. I might be asking too much again 😐

purplepoppy · Accepted Answer

So basically that girl who remembers all the pain of hearing all the "aw poor thing, single at this time of year..." stuff from last year's Christmas parties drops her grabs any guy she can to prove she can get a man then ditches him once she's got the Valentine present. Go on guys it's easy season.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I am already in a relationship. One facet of our culture is that we have many more social events and social holidays in the fall and springtime. Isn't it great to take a girl home to meet your family at Thanksgiving?

Going to Christmas parties with someone special is so much more fun than going alone.

Making a fool of yourself at the office party. . . a tradition!

Who in the hell wants to be alone on Christmas or New Years Eve?

Sitting at home on Valentine's Day is a sign of failure.

Not horribly apropos but too funny to not include in this opinion.

And the cold months are the premium snuggling season!

It is absolutely impossible to cuddle alone!

I rest my case!

Brainsbeforebeauty · Answer

Yeah no to "that" kind of cuffing 🤭

Flower7 · Answer

No, I'm not. I've always thought it's stupid to seek a relationship just based on the weather.

ShadezMcgee · Answer

I never understood the "Hot Girl Summer" then the "Cuffing Season" bullshit. Just a six month period where you are fucking someone then breaking up with them when it is time to go on a boat.

electromagnetic · Answer

The only sorta cuffing I’m looking forward to is being handcuffed for being disorderly. No cuffing here thank you very much. 😆

WhoRtheseGuys · Answer

I thought this was handcuffing we were talking about. Because I was all in! Coupled up. That’s a hard NO.

kc_4308 · Answer

I don’t have anyone to cuff with. I guess I’ll be cuffing in bed with a blanket, a Nichols Sparks book, and wine like I do every year for the last 7 years.. no one to cuddle with.. same for every holiday.

SaraSmithishere · Answer

I mean, I've heard of that happening in places like Chicago where it's actually cold. Here in LA, people don't really date, anyway, and no one's rushing to couple up.

bobalife · Answer

LOL that’s cute & I have heard of it, but I only wanna be “cuff” with the right guy not just over the seasons and over the bed sheets 😂

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Totally? Like, fer sure? Grotiie!! Like, gag me with a sppon, fer sure!!
You mean, people decide to handcuff themselves or let someone else do it to them and just walk around like that all day? I didn't realize there was EVER a specific time of year for that!

Grownlady8 · Answer

I've been thinking about this. It's definitely cuffing season. I want someone regular to deal with not a gang of folks

DizzyDesii · Answer

Long as its cuffed by someone i like and not some cop tryna arrest me

420Rachel · Answer

I've had me a fella since February 😂 Non applicable. 😜

Anonymous · Answer

Never heard of it but I’ve been taken for years so doesn’t affect me

menina · Answer

No, I'm not looking for that at all. I don't want to be humilliated, beaten up or even killed. Because that's what would happen if I dated or "got cuffed" by a guy from where I live

Jamie05rhs · Answer

No; I'm not into seasonal dating. I'm not interested in anything temporary. That's way too shallow for me.

ChiPaPa · Answer

That's interesting. Nah. I've struck out so much I don't think it's possible for me to have a girlfriend.

Crazybeeguy · Answer

When I read this I was like WTF is cufffed? Season, to go to jail? Wtf, but no I am not afraid of being single. Good to know so less women ghosting. Hahahahha

Wester1967 · Answer

It sounds kind of cheap and temporary and profoundly unserious. Hot Girl Summer followed by cuffing? You’re kidding right? “Cuffed”, yeah, I’m sure Mr Chad has the keys to in lock her cuffs no doubt anyway.

Iron_Man · Answer

How about I’ll put the handcuffs on the girl and get a whip? Lol 😂

Smashingdoozy · Answer

Yeah I thought cuffing season was the beginning of summer months where you can spot a gay person by their cuffed jeans.

fit_and_feminine · Answer

I don’t want to be married but I would like to try bondage

Anonymous · Answer

"Cuffing season" what unhinged idiot thought up that term. Someone I suppose who has spent plenty of time in cuffs & jail.

Sarahr123 · Answer

No! That’s pathetic. Especially if you’re older than 16.

VanillaSalt · Answer

The only cuffing ima do involves handcuffs and blindfolds.

InspecturGajit · Answer

I just started grad school and I work full time. I don't have the time or the money.

Slim57 · Answer

doesn't make a difference one way or another for me

kitty71 · Answer

Never heard of htat stuff maybe cause I dont live in the USA and even where i Live we have cold winter i dont hear here is a tradition to do that..

Relux47 · Answer

I wanna be cuffed up for the whole year and many years after that

bubblespopcorn · Answer

Yeah, I think I got cuffed by my current boyfriend…

red324 · Answer

Probably not. I think I'm going to keep this Christmas peaceful and not let some girl turn it into a shit show.

Uptowngirl88 · Answer

Not really unless he's going to provide me with the same peace I have now. These days men seem to be drama Queens

Alyssa11 · Answer

Um yeah but not cause it's cuffing season lol.

InferiorElegy · Answer

I'm not looking to get cuffed, it's also not something that could ever happen to me in my life.

innerman · Answer

Yea I definitely want some of that “cuffing” throw in Netflix and some ice. cream

Twalli · Answer

Already have a girlfriend and I got her at the end of June back in '18

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

Sounds kinda weird. Like when Peter Griffin shoved NACHOS BELL GRANDE in his face

supercutebutt · Answer

I'm good, dude.

karaspara · Answer

Never heard of this but ok lol

Ksoshefbd · Answer

I am wanting to stop being sexually harassed by selfish males at my job.

Recurrence · Answer

I might try dating, but I’m not sure yet

ThisDudeHere · Answer

fuck yeah man, feels so good

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

Already am 😊

IveGotNoName · Answer

Nah, already have a boyfriend since 2 years ago

IcedLemonade · Answer

Single life, happy life

ColoradoKid · Answer

No one wants to be cuffed to a dog.

FatherJack · Answer

Nope. I prefer peace.

Jlegacy · Answer

I'm already cuffed up

lovedejj_xo · Answer

No lol I’m happier being back single

Wise4myage · Answer

Nah, I live in a no cuffing zone, lol.

WowwGirl · Answer

I thought it was deer season

Joker_ · Answer

I'm looking to get cuffed and fucced

Shy_Steve · Answer

I think I'm cuffed all the time.

Guardian45 · Answer

Nah, I'm ALREADY "cuffed"

elduderinosupreme · Answer

I reject your reality and substitute my own.

JakeS00 · Answer

Not particularly

ChiTown33 · Answer

Nope

legalboxers · Answer

fuck yeah

Jessyflatz · Answer

agreed

BogeyMulligan · Answer

I don't know

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