Having a "bad" Job?

[luoniko]

I do have a university degree, but so far stuck in a loss prevention job.

But it is kind of fun, and I enjoy it sometimes.

Whenever it comes up in dating it seems to be huge turn off though.

Any advice? or do I need to get a new job first.

[SueShe]

My guess is that those girls that you date at age 35 are the ones that are in the same age group as you are (30-40) and not the teenagers.

Those girls are now more or less settled in their life routine, have stable jobs and are possibly seeking a partner that is also stable with a steady income. Now, if you have a university degree but are satisfied with a more menial job, it is indicative to the women that you are possibly not capable of supporting them financially should the need arise (i. e. pregnancy and/or founding of a family).

If you are satisfied with a job that has a lower income, you have to convince the possible girlfriend that you are capable to support her financially in case things get serious.

[PrettyPriya]

Not sure I understand. What does dating and your job have to do with each other. Could you clarify so I can give some help? 😊

[PrettyPriya]

@luoniko

I guess what I am saying, what you do should not matter. If she cares that much to not get to know you, not the right girl.

You don't need to change jobs to date someone, you just need to find a girl that cares about you for you and not job title.

[PrettyPriya]

Thank you for MHG ❤️

[Carolus]

A huge turn-off? It’s all in your mind, you need to up your game, you feel insecure because you believe your job sucks, change that negativity, for a woman, it’s your character, your confidence that matters, if a good job is the first qualification, all these broke ass jobless men wouldn’t ever get laid.

[Anonymous]

I'd stay with the job while keeping an eye out for other openings

[exitseven]

Is loss prevention a good job?