Why is life just medicore and boring?

[Anonymous]

it just seems like im approaching my 30s which means ill need to look for a guy to settle down with, stupid marriage, 2weeks holiday a year and screaming kids it doesn't seem fun at all...

[Fireguy17]

Life is what you make it.
Are you one that sits home, are you stuck in a rut?
Get out of the house, travel, volunteer in civic organizations that interest you.
Do stuff now while you are young.
I used to pack my stuff on my motorcycle and be gone for 3 days to 4 weeks.
There is so much to see, so many things you can do.
I'm retired now, and keep busy.
Been and still am a firefighter/emt, work on the safety team at a major road course racetrack, still do some side jobs in my former field, travel.

[ShadezMcgee]

You do understand you are the only one who is accountable and responsible for your life and how it turns out as you age, right?

You don't have to get married or have kids. With this outlook you just sound miserable with who you are and what you are doing with life.

[Asker]

I'm surrounded by heaps of people getting married and getting engaged they make me feel bad about myself

[ThumbJack]

What kind of life would you like to live for your thirties?

You can do whatever you want!

[TangBang69]

... and likely won't be. Be yourself and follow your heart and soul, not what social standard and peers think you should be.

[Jamie05rhs]

Lol. If you don't want to have kids, don't have them.

And if you don't want to get married, don't get married, either.

[AntiChrist66666]

because u boring and dont know how 2 make things fun
ur slave 2 ur situation

[AntiChrist66666]

u hand wif me and u will prob die. u will at least suffer. but ur experience will not be boring

[AntiChrist66666]

u want ur life 2 be extraordinary den u have 2 do things that aren't safe like dive off a cliff with parachute
u have 2 gamble in ways most people dont

[Luckycharms12]

If meet right person even simple and boring things are fun. But don't have to settle down your life. Do what ever you want not what is expected of you

[Asker]

Seems like people in my town are just showing face online but cheating behind their backs

[Luckycharms12]

Same everywhere I've never put any pic online if was dating anyone private. All those people that post pics seem insecure

[Dinosaursandanime65]

You have to make it a good time. That’s what we’re here for, besides the Trial

[Anonymous]

Why not go on welfare, get some cats, and stay alone? Would that be preferable?

you could always go live on a co op farm and be the blowjob queen, lots of horny farmers looking for a cum hole

[Anonymous]

Why does it have to be a stupid marriage? And only two weeks of holiday? And why do your kids have to be screaming?

[Tyrael]

You don't have to do any of those things.

[boggboss]

Because your doing something u don't wanna do?

[Astarlessnightsky]

Because you chose that your life is that way?

[Ironic_Method]

I mean... you don't HAVE to do those things.

[Anonymous]

Because you're a white woman. Ugh.

[noohair]

I feel sorry for you, children are a joy.

[Anonymous]

Maybe you should remain single?