Will it always happen to every girl at least once? i say, if I know Sb wanna potentially use me for sex I will simply keep them at an arm‘s length, right?

Women use men just as badly as men use women. Users come in all ages, races, nationalities and social classes.

What want you from them/him? A relationship is always an exchange, it works only if it's balanced and fair.

Just get to know someone before you get involved, and you will see how they treat you and you can trust them.

No... You were not used because you enjoyed it... You scream and roll your eyes... Its good for your health

I mean use them and leave them then? Or just don’t get involved?

No, getting used is YOUR choice. If you allow it you will

Yes.. it is inevitable that at least one man will be attracted to you. 🙄🤦🏻♂️

being used is part of life you will get used and treated badly no matter who you are. sadly it is the truth.

No. It's not. Using someone is absolutely despicable. I would never use a woman. I've been used before, and I don't want to put anyone through that.

Sadly I think there will always be guys and girls out there that have no interest in a genuine realtionship and will I guess manipulate the situation to get sex. It's really sad when if they are honest they can save people from getting hurt.

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Luopio27 Follow
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Women use men just as badly as men use women. Users come in all ages, races, nationalities and social classes.

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EssenceOfLight Follow
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What want you from them/him?
A relationship is always an exchange, it works only if it's balanced and fair.

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Yourfriend2021 Follow
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Just get to know someone before you get involved, and you will see how they treat you and you can trust them.

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Amos575705 Follow
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No... You were not used because you enjoyed it... You scream and roll your eyes... Its good for your health

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- malwins
  
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  Wtf?
  
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- Amos575705
  
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  Yeah
  
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apple24 Follow
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I mean use them and leave them then? Or just don’t get involved?

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Nazgol Follow
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No, getting used is YOUR choice. If you allow it you will

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FýrdracaDócincel Follow
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Yes.. it is inevitable that at least one man will be attracted to you. 🙄🤦🏻‍♂️

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Better_off_here Follow
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being used is part of life you will get used and treated badly no matter who you are. sadly it is the truth.

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SparklyMop7 Follow
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No. It's not. Using someone is absolutely despicable. I would never use a woman. I've been used before, and I don't want to put anyone through that.

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Anonymous
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Sadly I think there will always be guys and girls out there that have no interest in a genuine realtionship and will I guess manipulate the situation to get sex. It's really sad when if they are honest they can save people from getting hurt.

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Uptowngirl88 Follow
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Absolutely, men are users and always have an agenda.

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noohair Follow
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Well, it works both ways.
And I know that for a fact.

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bamesjond0069 Follow
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Only girls that dont wait until marriage. Girls who wait until marriage dont get used.

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- Subarugirl
  
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  That's bull shit and you know it. Tell that to the little girls were where sexually abused by an adult man who knew better. What about that teen ager who got groped and sexually harassed by coworker?
  
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- bamesjond0069
  
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  @Subarugirl what about the ones who werent?
  
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- Subarugirl
  
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  You would be hard pressed to find a woman that has never been sexually assaulted or harassed. The grand majority have been at some point in their lives
  
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- bamesjond0069
  
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  @Subarugirl lmfao everyone man or woman has been sexually harassed. You would be hard pressed to find someone who has never been called a bad name too.
  
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- Subarugirl
  
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  And you don’t think that there is something wrong with that?
  
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- bamesjond0069
  
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  @Subarugirl has nothing to do with the question.
  
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@Vigors

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- Vigors
  
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  How am I supposed to use her now?
  
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- Joker_
  
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  Use your charm
  
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- Vigors
  
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  I'll use my money
  
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- Joker_
  
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  You have lots
  
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- Vigors
  
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  Shiba coin 🚀
  
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- Joker_
  
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  Ew..
  
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- Vigors
  
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  Fuck you
  
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- Joker_
  
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  Why?
  
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- Vigors
  
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  Cause im gay
  
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- Joker_
  
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  @Vivian7k So true
  
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- Vigors
  
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  Will she sex me?
  
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- Joker_
  
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  No..
  
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Anonymous
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It’s not inevitable, but unfortunately most aren’t raised right... there are women who do not get used

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- malwins
  
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  Yeah! I think it’s perfectly posdible
  
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Shy_Steve Follow
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If you keep going after Guys who are fairly Confident, Then yes.

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Neilbud Follow
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Life a bugger, you will figure things out as you go.

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Nicaean Follow
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Of course it can be avoided. But if a women acts like a hoe, she will be treated as a hoe.

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Anonymous
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It's not that bad lol i happen to enjoy being used as a sex object bc it does have its benefits! better than being ignored

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Flower7 Follow
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Unfortunately, this seems to be the case.

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- malwins
  
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  Men have upper hand in dating
  
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- globetrotter22
  
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  @malwins how so?
  
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Anonymous
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Fuck this post and you, you might start the #metoo movement.

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lovelyhoneybones Follow
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I feel like it happens to everyone. Not just women

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dragoblack Follow
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Only if you allow it by ignoring the signs.

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- malwins
  
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  Yes 😭
  
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- dragoblack
  
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  *hugs* look for those who put forward questions to get to know you as a person. Don't be afraid to say "no" to sex till a 3rd date (or whenever you feel comfortable). if they are only looking for sex, they won't want to wait. There's that and intimacy doesn't need to involve intercourse.
  
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MJtheCoach Follow
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You have a brain use it. It’s a doggy dog world.

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Andres77 Follow
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Not if you're prepared. But it goes both ways

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- Subarugirl
  
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  It still happens even if you are prepared
  
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Anonymous
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Yes, it happens to everyone.

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pink_and_inlove Follow
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No you just have to find the right guy

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chriscdi Follow
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Depends if you let em

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BattleToadBC Follow
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its inevitable anyone getting used in thier life

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Julious0202 Follow
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of course not, just have sex after getting married

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Kingofkings1992 Follow
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Here’s a thought. Maybe try picking better men

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anylolone Follow
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Well, if you want to use them, yes.

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TallAnon Follow
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100% inevitable, it's a fundamental law of nature.

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cndni80 Follow
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No. Some girls enjoy it

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Amur8711 Follow
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Not if you pick the right one

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Anonymous
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Oh, you don't enjoy sex? That's sad.

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Slim57 Follow
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No. Not every man is a rapist.

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Anonymous
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If you meet me… yes 😈

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Anonymous
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Women use men too.

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ChiPaPa Follow
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No...

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Guardian45 Follow
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DTMF!

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legalboxers Follow
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not in the least !!!

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Anonymous
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Nope.

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Anonymous
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Yes, of course

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