He never woulda included that comment about "unless you want to be my girlfriend.." if he wasn't fully ready for that on the off chance u actually said yes. I think he threw that out there to test the waters & see ur reaction, then, because he's smart & has clearly spent a lot of time thinking about this.. he also quickly added on the "jk im focused on my edu" just incase u didn't seem into it, he prevents the awkward silence. He clearly wants to date u but is equally as concerned about rejection. I'd seal the deal right now if u actually like this guy.. and who says u can't date & focus on ur education at the same time? Just don't go putting everything else on the back burner just cause ur dating someone. Have a healthy relationship, which enables u both to date eachother without giving up everything else. If u guys are mature people then u can hold eachother up & help eachother achieve ur goals even while dating.
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I think that you should ignore whatéver people say and listen to your heart and not fear rejection because if you have feelings for him then go ahead and ask him out and if he rejects you then its okay. but just ask him out but if he rejects you ask if you both can be friends.
He might be regretting not giving you enough time to answer that. Or he might regret coming off as not interested just because he safeguarded his ego.
But with consensus here we can see right through that 😁
Be sure he said that out of genuine interest, even if his logic told him later that he shouldn't have a girlfriend atm (or not.)
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He's attracted to you, but he's smart enough to focus on what is more important...
'I am focusing on education'He likes you. Ask him out.
Well he said it then you didn't react well so he covered it up as a joke so id say he did actually like you
I am invested. Let me know the update!
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